I rarely type field reports. Ironically my life is usually spent too much in the field to have time for them, but I learned something last week that has created a major shift in my thinking. A shift I hope to transfer to you guys.

I was walking around downtown ft worth just watching all the prettied up women in their makeup, hot clothes, and push up braws bounce around like little kids in a candy shop. The person I had with me another fellow pua has began to notice how I never approach most girls even the many that are obviously in to me due to my abnormally extreme hotness. 5 girls walk past us and all of them are blatently checking me out. He asks "why didn't you approach them, they were blatently checking you out?!" I reply "Idk man I'm just not feelin it tonight" The 5 girls walk on and stand by an old traffic light. Me and my wing sit about a block away and I'm just looking at them. One in particular is doing poses against the traffic light. I look at her, give her a weird look and she giggles. I approach as if magnetically drawn to her. There was no thought, no planned openers, nothing but the suspense of the moment. I said "I was looking at you from over there. I saw you posing against the light for me. I really love it when you pose for me what's your best one?" She sticks out her ass a little and makes a face, I laugh. We began to talk about the most mundane shit. No routines, no high energy just boring old every day stuff, but there was such a connection there. We were both so in to each other that the conversation didn't matter. Nothing mattered, but her and me in that moment. Her friends were calling her she ignored them. I stood there looking in her eyes watching them twinkle in the moonlight, and then a wave of emotion overtook me. I realized that these moments are what its all about. The moments that take you out of this world to some far off place where only joy exists. In life, in love. Now I make each and every moment a time to be cherished. A time to be fully encaptured in whats going on. Fully present, and fully aware of the beauty that is because if you are not looking closely you just might miss moments like that.

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That's what happens when you live in the moment.

thats.. beautiful dude.. =P

seriously tho i like how in touch with your emotions you are. i cant say iv had those moments very often but every now n then it does happen to me and surprisingly enough they turn out to be my most successful sarges. the sarges where i barely use any routines or material and just naturally talk about whatever comes to our minds. thats when you really feel that sense of connection.

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I guess behind all the hard work, rejections, struggles with AA, analyzing and improving your own moves, there is a place where you can say "This is what I've been doing it for." Guess you found it, Anutharound!

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great post man..

these moments happen when you're so in the zone in your game, its not even game anymore, its natural..i love it....great post...hope you took a lesson away from it

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Great post ... responding to her is what made it different here. I like the talk about mundane stuff.

Reminds me of when I met an HB7 in my street the other day and as luck would have it, a cat was strutting by when I stopped her:

"What you think is it's name?"

"Marmalade."

Build on stuff like the best pet names and sickest stuff and you're on your way.