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PostPosted: Sun May 11, 2008 3:55 pm 
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Yeah, if you couldn't tell, i am quite pissed. To break the story to you, last night i got hit up to play some beer pong at my friends house. Once we get going this is this HB7-8 with a fucking great personality (one of those keepers) that i have been building reputation with over the last couple of weeks. It has been quite tough because i was just initiated into a Fraternity, but as a pledge, all of you social proof gets thrown out the window when you are around brothers. Well, last night consisted of one of my initiated pledge bros (M), his girlfriend(C), her best friend (K), and another pledge bro that has not made it in yet (B). Well the reason why he did not make it in is becuase he has been known to make stupid choices and make rediculous lies (I shot a man, and so on). Well the entire night, I played around two games of beer pong and got a tiny buzz going, but I was keeping up talk and much kino with my target K. Well, so was (B), unfortunately he was going AFC about it and she was making him jump through so many hoops, which, just like any afc, he thought was an invitation. Well, i let him have his fun, because it was just making me look better. Finally, we got bored of beerpong and i went outside to smoke. K came running out after me to bum a cigerette. I pulled a little C&F on her by saying she was nasty for smoking. Well, soon comfort building started, and it turns out we have a lot in common. About 5 min into our talk, B comes outside and starts walking towards us, and i am giving him that, Im-working-this-girl Stare and he kept on coming. Well, seeing that we were together outside, he must of felt jealous and bam, started trying to impress her by pulling all of this bullshit lies out of his ass. I got him to leave for a min, but he kept coming back until he finally brought a chair with him. I told them that they bored me and I was going to get some food, because 1. I was getting really pissed about B and 2. i already got K's # and i knew i could call her later and continue comfort building. Well, as i was leaving, B told me to "Fuck Off" and i had to ask him to repeat this because i would never expect a pledge bro to say such things to me, and he repeated it, plus other stuff to tear down my social standing. I was close to fighting him, but did not want to look like an ass, so i went back inside. When i got in, i talked to his Big Bro who just showed up. (We will call him A) and after hearing the situation, A pulled us aside, away from earshot of the others so we could talk to B. Well, after like 5 min of talking, i called him out on everything: cockblocking, lying, and disrespecting me. After that he ran back inside, butthurt as hell, and told K what happened as he was leaving. Well, after a while, K left with her current BF (whom she hates) and i never got to talk to her in person. I sent an email, not apoligizing for myself but for the drama and she responded that it was ok.

Where my desire for help comes in is, can i fix this and of course, HOW? Sure i could get other girls, but this one is cool and i would like to try.
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PostPosted: Tue May 13, 2008 1:43 am 
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thanks guys, hella views but no replies...


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Casually build comfort with K under the bfs radar, completely forget about B, but make sure he has no idea your still hanging out with her. Build comfort to show that she has a better time with you than with her bf and take her as yours. And if just for kicks, you can hook up with her in front of B after you got K, as payback for that night.

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Alright, thanks. As for setting up a day 2. I dont really know how to go about that. Most girls i set day twos up with i have either done that night, or didnt have some crazy ass drama happen as the last mode of seeing her.


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Just keep emailing until you get a number, and with the number invite her to see a movie or something with you, but dont make it to obvious that your hitting on her, otherwise she'll bring up the bf

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Oh, I got the number, that was easy. But ya I think i may invite her out to something. Its tough with finals next week...


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You should do it over summer then, when ur both free, and you've got more chances. Make sure not to mix her with studying though, it screws you up, and ull do worse on finals.

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Being in a fraternity cockblocking is bound to happen. One of my brothers as a pledge cockblocked a brother. Its commonplace in college. As LAMaverick said, keep building comfort, and try not to worry about B. If she is making him jump through hoops, chances are nothing is going to be followed through. Good Luck, and I hope things work out for the best. I hope she lives in the same state as you, otherwise a long distance acquaintance is going to be difficult, anything can happen during the summer.

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