Ok I'm in New Orleans partying on bourbon st. In this club playing classic 80's music. This really HB 9.5 is dancing near me with her friend after a while she come up and starts dancing with me we danced forever she pulled me up on stage and we danced in front of everybody. She was obviously really into me. Later we go to the bar she buying everything for me shots, beers, etc.. all night long. a married couple at the bar say that we make a great couple and the HB tells them we just got engaged and starts kissing me.

through out the night we went to more clubs and danced with each other, she was showing me off to people like I was a prize she was bitching out girls that tried to talk to me. I felt like the shit.We made out all through the night and had some deep talks about children and how she want to have them and she tells how she is a great cook, basically selling herself to me.

Through out the night I picked up that she is very wealthy. Supposly she owns companies and is worth millions. On top of that her parents are millionaires. Then we go back to her Hotel, which happens to be the ritziest in the french qaurter. F-closed in amazing fashion. She said she wanted me to give her babies and all this crazy talk!


We live about 100 miles apart and her parent live in my city. She says she goes there on the weekends. I get a text from her the next day saying hey cutie, thanks for the great night. I write her back saying last night was amazing, see you in Sarasota. the next day texted her to send a pic of herself via Text. Haven't got a response. Not sure if that was a good move or not. I wanted a pic of her because we were drunk that night and wanted to have a fresh pic of her in my mind.

So I would like to pursue this, even if it was a one night fling it was amazing, but if I could do more with this that would be awesome.

Any advice on further pursuing this HB?
Have I made any dumb moves if so can hey be corrected?
Thanks guys.

Read the rules to the forum.

I'm pretty sure somewhere in there it says something to the effect of "Don't post across forums."

You put the same exact damn post up in NLP Seduction.




Sorry if I'm coming off as strong, but seriously, the people in this forum are getting ridiculous.

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Other threads were deleted. Don't double post, especially when that post had nothing to do with NLP (you double posted by posting this in the NLP section as well).

Seriously, don't double post.

Oh, and I'm moving this to FRs. Don't mispost.

By the way, if you're in NOLA you should hit me up. I go to Tulane.

Ok Guys I get the point.

Now can we stop all this arguing in my post.

Some much appreciated feedback would be awesome.

Thanks!

I'm not desperate for a relationship but I would not mind hitting it a few more times. I guess I'll wait a couple days and then give her one more call.

Next time you call or text her, do it around the same time of night the two of you were having some fun. She will be closer to that emotional state in that time of night and her responses will be more congruent to the positivity she anchored to the state.

If you call or text her during the day, she will be in a different state, and therefore will not want to deal with things from the night scene.

I have never heard a more AFC statement in my life..

What if somethig happened to her in that day.. she could be pissed.. the fact is, she will never be in the same emotional state as she was at the point where you met her.. i now have to go through comfort and building rapport so she and you have identical value..

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So then calling her during the day would be even worse, cause she would be right in the middle of that thing.

The point is that you can't control shit like that, you can only control your own actions and what Chief said is perfectly right. You can control the time you call her at and the extra effects incurred by that will be benificial if things work out well. If not, then that's not something you could have controlled, so that doesn't make it a bad move, just bad luck.

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