I commute a lot via public transportation and well, you'd be surprised how many HB's do the same...

Let me break down a scenario that kicked off just this past evening...

I board my train heading back home... Packed as usual, shit loads of people standing, cluttered, ipods galore, some reading books, others falling asleep, and then..."they" walk in...Two Set both very cute one short blonde HB7 another HB8 brunette...No eye contact was made and I was out of sight, but right away these AFC's start gawking away...
I wanna say three stops into the train ride I managed to get some eye contact with the Brunette I kinda ease dropped on their conversation and they were talking about some psych class they had earlier in the day... I was a big fan of Plato and Socrates, I did my minor in Psychology and well it was basically an invitation... So I managed to wiggle my way thru the AFC's and made like I was getting ready to get off the next stop... It was a lil over three seconds since I made contact with the Brunette so I went in to see what would happen...Asked them if they are taking Psychology as a major and they both said no, the blonde then stated that they were trying to catch up with credits for the next semester...
They were both discussing a project that was coming up and they didn't know what to do or what to research, so I asked the Blonde what the project consisted of totally ignoring the Brunette, but the Brunette kinda mumbled a response by saying "anything that has to deal with the analysis of study or interpretation..." so then I kinda just smirk at the Brunette and say "Sounds like yer not too sure what that means huh?" and I focus my attention back to the Blonde, and I say that should be kinda easy, and I give them the dream interpretation scenario, and ask the Blonde to think of a couple of recent dreams, the Brunette says..."Oh, I just had a dream last night..." I say..."Well I don't think we have that many stops left, so let yer friend say her piece first, then maybe we can get to yer dream..." She kinda frowns... So the Blonde tells me of two of her dreams, one with Puppy dogs and some weird color, another very vivid and abstract...I honestly don't know two shits about dream interpretations so I just winged it from here, I know from some bullshit I read a while back I found out that if you dream in color yer not really in a deep sleep yer in an altered state of sleep and yer close to being a wake than rather being asleep, so in turn the Blonde wanted to see those colors, so I fed the Blonde that bullshit…At that moment one of the gawking AFC's makes a comment and says "Thats so true, I read that some where, I guess if yer saying that it must be true..." Talk about perfect timing HUH? Anywho, So I just took a quick analysis of the Blonde, she was 5'6" about 100- 110lbs, cute lil face, blue eyes, and she had a nice figure to her...She wasn't dressed crazed or very flashy, but she was cute in her moon boots, jeans, down jacket and her brown coach purse... So I just took her vivid dream and described her being misunderstood, she is really a nice person, it's just that people get the wrong idea, and people think she is stuck up... The Blonde goes "Oh My Gawd...That is so true..." At this moment the Blonde grabs her notebook out and starts writing some notes down, and then the Brunette makes eye contact with me once again for a lil longer...So I kinda approach her right side and I whisper to her "You know I"m about to get off this next stop and well, I really wanna know what yer dreams are about, maybe you can share that with me, plus that way nothing is rushed, and I know you won't be as cheesy as yer friend here…" With that said I get off my stop, number close, the Brunette is named Venessa and she is going to her parents home for the weekend so she wants to know if I can visit her on Sunday when her parents leave out of town... This was the best 15 minute train ride I had all week... Not only that I posed to make her think that was my last stop, but it wasn't, I actually got off like 7 stops too early... I had to play that roll, so I waited for another 25 minutes until another train came by...

Feed back anyone, the things is I dunno if I should see this bird on Sunday, her parents live like 45 mins away, and I dunno mang, I want some ass, but shit driving that far, isn't really worth it or it is?

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45 minutes for ass ain't worth it. But if she is completely alone, and I mean no friends and any of that bullshit. Than you should go. Other than that, make sure to tell her to meet you half way (the bitch does know how to travel taking the subway I assume). Hell you can take the ride back to subway ride back to her place now already escalating your kino and relationship on the ride to her place. Heck you even get bonus points for being a man and telling her to meet you half way, because most GUYS would jump to the chance of "OH YOUR HOME ALONE, PARENTS AWAY!!!!". Fuck dat, be all nonchalant. That shit doesn't phase you. This hoe needs to meet you half way. This way you can even know if she has someone tagged along with her too.

The fact that she invited you on a Sunday is a genuine thing. If she said Saturday or Friday well thats like whatever.. Congrats on that you did something special. I think you should lay out your values and tell her what you feel!

What do you feel? by reading your post your a little intimidated maybe by the high HB or your damn lazy either one of those, or both .

Thats the values you go by now. Tell her to either meet you half way, meet her for lunch somewhere, or take her shopping you need her opinion on guy shit and than later once you've done your thing you can go up to hers. Don't jump through her hoopes before she jumps through yours first.

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Back, starting over as of 2012.

The Follow up:

So this is what I ended up doing...

I called her Saturday night, and she didn't pick up the phone, so I left her a voice mail stating if she is available on Sunday, I had mentioned that I was willing to stop by for a few but I had work to finish up...

Not even a minute after I left the msg, she calls, I let the phone ring till my voicemail picks up... She sounded so shy... She states that she was bored and she didn't think that I was going to call and now she is all cheesy and if I can call her back, IOI???

So I call like an hour later, one ring into the phone call she picks up and she says "Hey you, when you coming over???" Mos def an IOI...

So I asked her I'm coming from the City and I don't really venture out to her woods, so if she could give me the best directions... She states she needs to go to the mall to pick up something for her mother and its the half way point to her house, so she will meet me there and then figure what we will do after words...This ends our convo on Saturday around 2am...

So comes Sunday morning and tell me why this bird is calling me @ 9am??? I had two missed calls no voice mails and they were about two minutes apart...

So I wake up a lil, roll outta my bed around 10am then get ready to head out... She calls again... Its a lil after 10am and she wanted to know when she can meet at the mall because she is taking a cab to the mall because she couldn't find the keys to her parents SUV. So I said I should be there by 12ish... She said that was cool...

I get to the mall like quarter till 12 and right away, birds are all over the place, I mean sets of 3 and 4, HB's of 7-9's, shit was amazing how many girls were out in the cold to shop on a Sunday afternoon... I parked in the complete opposite direction from where I was suppose to meet her just incase I could do a couple more of number closes... I did, two more birds on the way to go see Vanessa...

We meet up at a Nordstroms... She looks cute as fuck... She has some tight jogging pants that say "pink" on her ass, with a matching moon boots, and hoodie, and a girly puffy jacket that is cut off right at her ribs and her naval is showing... What a fucking flirt man... But the whole time I didn't pay much mind to that just kinda made some jokes about her...

She picked up some shit for her moms, then we walked into the Food Court, she wanted some Hot Coco from the Starbucks and asked If I wanted anything and I said, sure get me one as well...We walked around for a lil bit longer and we eventually made our way back to my car...We get into the car, I turn it on and turn the heat on and I wait a lil until the car warms up a lil. She says is cold out side and she puts her hand on my hand to show me... Then she says that my hands are nice and warm... So she move my hand towards her naval... She says that her belly button is cold... At this point I tell her if she would have dressed for the winter, she would have been fine, and she wouldn't be get cheap feels, and I told her since she bought me the hot coco we were even...
Perfect neg, at the perfect time, becuase for the next 15 mins as I drove back to her parents place, she tried her harderst to try to make me touch her... Talk about a fucking tease, but I kept my cool...At one point I told her if I get into a car accident I finna put my foot in her ass and ditch her... She liked that!!!??? I was totally having fun...

We get to her parents pad, shit is nice, 4 car garage, sits on a half an acre, hardwood floors, the works ya know... From the entrance of the house we go into the living room, a fireplace is there and she has a shit load of covers on the ground, this bird been setting up for this... So we joke around for a lil bit and she asked if I would like to sit near the fire place for a lil bit, and I say sure, but honestly I don't think I can stay here long... She frowns and says why do you have to kill it, and I ask kill what and she begins to give me that lil girl look with the droopy eyes and she is like well you leave when you do...So she grabs my hands walks me to the living room and she leads me into the middle of the room in front of the fireplace... She motions to sit down, but I don't budge... She asks whats wrong, and I say, yer gonna have to pay me for getting my clothes wrinkled...She laughs, she says she will... So she gets Comfy and wraps her self with a couple of the covers and there is a lil table in the middle of this area, so she kinda is brushed up against it and I just ask her about the dream... She gives me a dark discription, shit wasn't a nice dream, more like a nightmare, something dealing with her parents, her running, blood, and her crying... I was like WTF? So I asked her if that was the dream she wanted to tell me about when we were on the train on Friday and she said that she didn't even remember... So judging how the mood changed, how she kinda got all serious, I was pondering... I made an attempt to describe her dream, and well what I said was this... There is struggle, confusion, and yer very scarred...You love yer parents a lot, but I don't think they love each other, do you fear them leaving? She begins to get teary eyed...Then with a lil sigh, a tear falls from her right eye, and she says she is sorry... She tells me that her mother has been cheating on her father, and the father doesn't know, and they just went on this trip together, and she doesn't know why her mom with her father if she doesn't love him anymore...I had no response for this shit and I felt kinga like an ass whole... I just wanted to fuck and leave, so instead, I just chilled with her for a few hours till she fell asleep... We ended up spooning by the fire place, and I just watched her... She slept like a baby... She even smiled as she slept, this was just a lil girl... I needed to leave but She was wrapped all over me...

So I kinda just rubbed my nose on hers, and she woke up smiling...
I said I had to go... She said no, I said its snowing pretty bad, and I have work in the morning... She asked to stay a lil longer... Then she kissed me... Then started kissing more and more... Next thing you know... She is butt naked and she is sitting on top of me...

I just go to work... I'm an two hours and some change late...

Already my first attempt on a close that I can't even label properly, this is a very good girl one you marry, but not for me... She needs someone that can baby her, and I can't do that...

Pondering...

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I'm impressed.
Looks like you made all the right moves.
Cheers to you, Custom.

I tell you what.
That had to have been the most uncomfortable situation in the world,
when she started telling you the dream, and you interpreted.
Going from fun and playful to that?
Takes me completely out of my element.

But things ended up alright, and you learned all you needed to know about her in one day.

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Thanks Kid...

What part of Indiana are you from?

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Hahaha, kid.
I say that kind of stuff to women, teasing.
Are you trying to seduce me?
lol.

I go to college at Purdue University in West Lafayette.

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Ace, simply an ace move on your part Custom. Respect. The parents divorcing part was damn near odd. I'd probably say something stupid and ruin the whole move looking heartless. My first reaction to that was Your mother probably isn't being satisfied by your father. lol good job Custom.

LOL, naw um I forgot to put the no homo sig by it LOL...

Just wondering, cuz when the summer hits, I wanna sarge with all those that are close to the midwest...

Thanx Jacked, but honestly I think that was a very random evening...

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