I end up texting the HB8 Brunette about 2 to 3 hours later on that Thursday, October 13, 2016. She did not flake! She actually responded back! This was a solid number. Even though my full interaction with her was probably no more than 10 minutes long. I've had 20 + minutes of conversations with girls before, that ended up in flakes. So it just depends on if you and the girl have a genuine connection and chemistry in the initial interaction..no matter how short it may be. I don't have a record of exactly how the follow-up text went that day, but i'm assuming it probably went something like this:
Me: Hey HB, this is GFRESH2DEF. It was cool meeting you earlier today, however random it was. Lol
HB: Hi, how are you GFRESH2DEF? It was random, but it was nice meeting you too! lol
I think that i just continued rapport & breaking rapport/teasing type of text with her. She pretty much mirrored my text back to me..meaning that she was also sending me rapport & breaking rapport/teasing type of text. She may be shy in person, but she is definitely not shy in her text to me at all! LOl We ended up texting each other throughout the late night for several hours. And we both agreed to see each other again on Saturday, October 15, 2016 for a tea date at noon. And guess where? No other than the 7 Eleven. LOL In front of the same 7 Eleven (from the Street Pickup
field-reports/hb8-shy-introverted-brune ... 99945.html). I set up our meet-up at the 7 Eleven, because it is a familiar place that we both shared a moment interacting with each other. So she will logically feel comfortable meeting me there.
Day-2 Meetup (7 Eleven)
It's good to note that i call her about a couple hours before the actual date, just to get confirmation that the date will still happen (i've also done this in the past with another girl that probably would've flaked me on the date, if i didn't do the "date confirmation" call. She was actually still laying in her bed
, and the call got her up and moving). I was slightly late. She's a pretty punctual girl. But she lets me off easy, as i was no more than 10 minutes late. And she was just getting there as well, coming from the train station. I meet her at that same 7 Eleven, and she was smiling ear to ear. She was looking just as cute and hot as i had remembered the day i first saw her on the street. She was bundled up in a dress coat, a scarf, navy blue skinny jeans, high heel ankle boots, and long brown hair. I start by giving her a hug, and i take the lead by grabbing her hand and start walking. I was taking her to the tea location near my apartment. We were on foot. So to get there..we would have to leave downtown, cross the river bridge, and keep walking a couple more blocks before we would reach the tea place. While on our way there..i re-assured her that i knew exactly where i was taking her, and i knew exactly where the tea place was located. That put her mind at ease, since she was pretty nervous about meeting me. I laughed, cracked jokes, told a couple stories, and we had conversation about some trivial topics, to take her mind off of her being nervous..as i was pulling her to the Day-2 location.
Day-2 Location (Tea Place)
We get to the tea place. I open the door for her, and even offer to pay for her tea drink (kinda chodey), but you still should work with some socially conditioned rules of dating. Certain things are still expected from the guy when he's taking the girl out on a date. If you go completely against those rules, you end up breaking social faux-pas and shoot yourself in the foot..coming across to the girl as insensitive or socially clueless. Funny enough..she pays me back, because she doesn't like people to pay her way. How freaking awesome is that! If i hadn't offered to buy her tea..that whole thing might've gone differently, but who knows?
I interact and joke around with the cashier lady and her assistant (they both were young) for social proof, to make myself look popular..even though i didn't know them at all. I remembered that she had mentioned in her text to me the night before, that she wants a guy who's personality is more outgoing than hers (even though i'm also introverted myself). I tried to use that information to my advantage on our date..by being slightly more loud, obnoxious, gregarious, and friendly than usual, to make a good first impression on her. I order some lemonade tea (it was good!), and i think she orders some raspberry drink. I suggest we both sit in the stools by the window (it was a sunny day outside..and more sunshine lifts my spirit). I subtlely kino her (slight touches on her leg, hands, back, and shoulder) while i'm interacting with her. I carefully time my kino in direct correlation to my teases & jokes, just so she thinks that the kino is just a natural part of my personality. And that it isn't just coming out of no where, just for the sake of me trying to touch her. So my kino on her is very calibrated. Plus..small kino like that breaks the physical barrier..so it becomes a common thing to her. Then i can get away with doing more of it, further down the line on our date. We mention art, which she is also into (but she's more into the arts & crafts). I took this point of the date as the perfect opportunity to talk about my portrait drawings, which just so happens to be up in my closet, up in my room, at my apartment (i'm seeding the pull). And my apartment was just around the block. Perfect logistics to bounce her from the tea place back to my apartment. She said that she would like to see my portrait drawings, and she said it with a smile on her face. So from that..i knew that i had her compliance to pull her back to my apartment. I looked at her drink and saw that it was all the way down to the bottom of the cup, so i suggested that we leave. I get up first, walk over to the door, open it up for her, and we leave the tea place. As we approach my apartment door..i'm talking to her to distract her logical mind, and to interrupt any type of anti-slut defense mechanism that might come up right now. Specifically saying key statements to make her feel more comfortable about the situation. Things like: "My apartment is pretty comfortable and chill", "Don't worry, we're only going to be here for a few minutes and then we'll leave", "We're going to get comfortable and relax for a bit while i show you my artwork". I open the front apartment door, and we go inside.
My Bedroom
We're in my room and i don't touch her right away. She was standing around until i told her that she could sit down, and chill. I show her my real portrait drawings (i didn't just make that shit up LOL). She went through them rather quickly. So i quickly went to put some music on. I have cable tv, so my personal preference is to always turn it to the Music Choice Channels. I usually always start with a takeaway with any girl that comes over..whether it's by going to the bathroom, or into the kitchen to get something to drink or eat. In this case..i think i went to the bathroom. I came back and we talked, but there was still an awkwardness in the air. She's sitting on my bed with both legs together, both arms wrapped around both her legs, her head kinda down (her body is kinda in a ball) and looking very tense. I think the only thing that she put down or took off after several minutes of being there, was her purse. Her coat, shoes, scarf and everything was still on. She was clearly still nervous and uncomfortable. I forgot to mention that she is 24 years old, and probably not very experienced in the dating department. But boy is she cute! She's maybe the cutest girl that i pulled home in some several months.
I tell her jokes, DHV stories and tease her to relieve some tension. And it worked to an extent. I grab her hand and periodically hug her. Still awkward. She leaves to go to the bathroom. While she's out of the room..i'm telling myself that i need to escalate more for anything to happen here. She would not let me do any overt kino escalation beyond a hug or hand holding. But as we intermediate and advanced PUAs know..that if you grab and hold a girl's hand (even if the girl is shy and nervous) and she does not pull away or lets go of your hand, which she didn't..that means IT'S ON! So while she was still in the bathroom, i came up with the idea to dance with her a little bit. So when she came back and sat back down on my bed..i grabbed her hand and got her to stand up and dance with me. She complied. I got her to spin for me a few times. I did as well. And at some point, i picked her up and cradled her in my arms like a baby (this is called cave-manning type of kino in the PUA community). I moved in for the kiss on the lips and she kissed me back. I put her down. We danced some more. Now i'm grabbing both of her hands now. I move in for the kiss again, she kisses me back again, and it turns into a full blown makeout this time. She's smiling and blushing at the same time, quite a bit. We both sit back down on the bed. Now she is visibly quivering uncontrollably. She tells me that she is very shy and is feeling very awkward about what just happened. I start doing this kino move where i slip my hand underneath her hair and massage her scalp. I did this same scalp massage routine to a girl that i was dating a couple months back. It was very relaxing to her, so i figured that it would work here, and it did! She closes her eyes and her body completely relaxes, and stops shaking after several minutes of doing this. Several minutes later i leaned in for a kiss again and we makeout even more intensely this time. I lay her on the bed. I go downwards to kiss her neck, and stomach, while squeezing her left boob underneath her bra. My right hand then moves down to massage the area where her pussy is, while her pants is still on. I hear her let out a loud moan. I was starting to pull her pants down when she shook her head and told me to stop several times. So i decided to stop.
She had to work at 5:00 pm (she's a waitress at a restaurant). It was about 2:30 pm now..so we decide to leave my apartment and walk back to the train station. While we're walking back..we're talking, i'm holding her hand and still leading. We stop in front of the train station, and before she leaves..we hug it out and have another intense makeout session. Dude, it was awesome! To think that i was still able to go this far with a shy introverted girl, was the real story here!
Even though this date did not result in a lay..it was still probably the best 1st date that i had been on in years. We saw each other again for a 2nd date at a tai food restaurant (on a weeknight this time). But the 2nd date was more platonic and hands-off than the 1st date. Mainly because she was not complying to any further kino escalation. Me and HB8 still text each other, almost on a daily now. We shall see where this goes to from here.
-G
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