I failed so far. Some 28 year old blonde in our friendship group that I know (not too well). Told her I was going to Huntington Beach and said she could come if she wanted, but she said she wasn't going to do anything.

Not sure how to approach this girl. She's a bit weird, but very horny. Very hot too. Being Asian and 23 isn't helping the cause, but WHO CARES!

I need suggestions guys. Thanks!

1. Stop thinking being asian is a disadvantage

Be confident in yourself and those thoughts will disappear, take it as an advantage that you are unique

I fully agree...

In fact, there is a freaking hot honey blond HB10 that takes that bus with me to work every morning. Some stupid AFC like character was actually talking to her when I first noticed her on the bus and he was explaining some dumb shit about how people in Singapore can speak english or something like that...

I saw her again the next 2 days later but couldn't game her cause the bus was too full. I couldn't position myself close to her unless I wanted to start yelling my openers right across the bus...LOL...

So I'm gonna try again real soon and make sure I really time it right. And yes, I never thought of myself as being disadvantaged cause I'm Asian

Instead, I reverse the thought and think that I'm hot because I'm Asian!!

This HB10 looks a lot like Czech supermodel Petra Nemcova...And I'll be damm if I let this HB10 get away from me...LOL

very detailed. nice. (sarcasm)

But, yeah, I'm Asian, too. The "official" girlfriends I've had relationships with were all white blondes. Beautiful. Fuck all that limiting belief crap. It's all about being centered.

I must say that being asian has some advantages depending on how you peacock. They say that asian is the flavor of the month and for me, even though I mainly had asian girlfriends (and a short term asian ex-wife) I would have to say that women in general will be attacted to you if you open correctly. The whole asian thing gets blown out of the water unless you actually keep telling yourself that being asian is a disadvantage which it is not. Keep in shape, smile, dress well and smell great. And of course, keep approaching women of all creed and color until you feel comfortable

i wish is asian those honeys are damn fine lol

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There is Plenty Of Things To Think About.

But Nothing To Worry About.

How about asians and Fresh off the boat!.. unique accent and less cultural match..for the conversation.



PS: I did go out with a blonde and red recently but..it is kinda tough. it was all close on the first..but don't think there will be a repeat!..
The red so politely said during the entire evening and even when I left, call me.
calls but no response

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any characteristic u hold should always be looked at as an advantage, just see the glass as half full instead of half empty. for example im a marine, i know we curse alot and most women automatically believe we are natural born assholes and stupid jarheads. but our advantages are that we are stereotypically percieved to handle our liquor, we're tough, and we have traveled to places they can't imagine. Bottom line, deploy ur strengths, work around your weaknesses.

I understand that part.But to hold a conversation,sometimes, u look for common grounds , which i find missing!...looking to learn that..

my greatest wonder is what the hell are these people talking about ..

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...I have to learn to crawl before I learn to walk

In high school, being Asian is kind of tough. Because of my Asian ethnicity, I sit with other Asians at the lunch table. As you can imagine, it creates a negative social image and thus hampers my game.

Furthermore, I can't really sit anywhere else since my friends are Asian. So what's the solution towards getting any girl I want?

Popularity? With only a few months of high school left, that's not an option.

So maybe I should just tell myself "Fuck it" and just go with the flow.

What do you guys think?

Oh and one more question. Do you think the whole stereotype that all Asians have small dicks hampers the gaming of a girl? And furthermore, all the negative stereotypes of that nerdy, socially awkward Asian in the media doesn't help me either. What do you guys think?

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"Veni, vidi, vici."
"I came, I saw, I conquered"
-Julius Caesar

rrrr u only have a few month left? thats hard to do man, talk to freshmen girls? idk, i was goin to say join the football team or some other sport team to make more friends... just start being more social, dress better if u r not, so when u get in college, u will be ready to go

as for media stuff about asians, yeah there might be some effect, but IM AN ASIAN LIVING IN IOWA, and what i find is that as long as u have social proof or just speak confidently when approachin, there shouldnt be any problems... i mean I SAW THIS SHORT CHUBBY ASIAN GUY WITH AN HB9, i was just like WTF, not b/c he's asian, but b/c i always go WTF when i see some hb w/ some nerd and then i just want to learn from them haha