Heres is my first field report.

Field report Sunday September 3rd to 10th

Sunday SE 3rd

Mood: So I was tired, well my brain was tired this day from a stressful week at work, so I was going into this in a kinda “Out of it” state and could not fully get my self into state, however I just forced my self out to do it to gain more experience. Also my sex drive was pretty low on this day as well.

Location: I went to Toronto, and was going to focus on the western part of Toronto and work my self eastwards.

Approached:
Trinity Bellwood park

Girl 1:bellwood
I went to trinity bellwood park, a decent place to find women to approach. She was sun tanning and reading a book, so I asked her what she was reading and if it was good or not, we chatted for about a minute and then I basicly forget what to say(from the state I was in), so I broke off the conversation and left. I think I did get some weak IoI from this girl, however she was wearing sun glasses and was hard to pickup on her body language as she was laying on her stomic..

Girl 2: I approached her and commented on her necklace and asked her wear she had got it, then I ran out of this to say. I should have said something along the lines of “You must be an artist” or something

Girl 3: Asian girl on the bench. She was sitting on a bench, in the park, I kinda notice her looking at me when I walked by the first time. I was about to leave the park to get some coffee so I approached her. I think I made some random comment about the whether, and not being humid, the conversation did not seem like it was going anywhere. She then said “It feels really hot”, I responded with “Yeah, no wonder you're wearing all black”, then then kinda lite up and I we chatted for a few seconds before I broke off the conversation.

I think I approached more women after this but can't remember

Starbucks:

Girl 4:
I decided to get a coffee and went to the nearest Starbucks(Toronto has a Starbucks almost on every corner), when I entered I noticed a girl sitting by her self along some kinda bar like table long a window, ideal for me to go sit next to her.. So I got my coffee and sat next to her, waited a minute then started talking to her. I opened with “Enjoying people watching”(The window over looked an intersection), she responded to her, I can't remember what she said, then I said, “its pretty fun, analyzing people and making predictions about their personality” at this point she seems kinda disinterested in what I was saying, so I decided to just break off the conversation and go back to drinking my coffee. I then noticed she was kinda looking at me out of the coroner of her eye and preening, IE, stroking her hair a lot and siting up straight, At this point I probably should have said more to her, but I was not feeling well so I did not feel like trying again..

After Starbucks I walked down to the Eaton center and approached a bunch of women in the book store. I think I approached maybe 4 or 5, but I can only remember one interaction.
Girl 5 She was in the history section of the book store, sitting on a bench, she was reading some book and I noticed a tattoo on her hand, and commented “Nice tattoo”... it turns out it was just a drawing she did on her hand in pen, I then responded with “You must be an artist”. I notice she was giggling abit, but acting nervous.

Girl 6. She was sitting at a coffee shop at Ryerson university, wearing a colorful dress. She was packing up about to leave, so I had to move now or never(I don't like chasing girls down to talk to them , especially in an enemy territory, I will some times however) I went up and said “You just be an artist”(Side note I need to use this opener less often), she started giggling a lot and said “thank you”... I then said “Haha, why are you giggling, I must be a comedian, like Dane Cook” she asked “Whos dane cook” and I said “A very unfunny comedian, who is so unfunny he is funny”:p.. She seems like she had to go somewhere, and I broke off the conversation.

At this time, it was getting late and I had to go home, I did approach a few more women before I left Toronto, but can't really remember what happened.

Monday SE, 5th

Girl 1: I was at the grocery store getting some random thing, and then I noticed a cute looking women enter into the store. I approached her and said ”See anything good at sale, and said “I thought you were cute looking and thought I would say hi” she said “Thank you and bye” and walked away really fast.

Tuesday SE 6:
Girl 1:
She came into wal-mart and I walked up to her and said hi, how was her day going” She said good and walked away really fast”

On this one man... That one should have been so easy! She basically gave you unlimited things to talk about, and you said she was doing some slight IOIs. "Look at that guy, I bet he's making his monthly rounds from his mom's basement."

Yeah I'm kicking my self not escalating with that girl, but like I said, I was now feeling so well that day.

Can't honestly say I'd have done anything different, depending on how bad you felt. Though looking at it as an outsider... Just be real with them. Put a smirk on your face and say "I feel like fucking shit today. *hahaha*" I don't know about you, but when I feel like shit, a hot girl can usually turn that around pretty quickly. Get lost in the interaction, and you forget about your other problems. How it is for me, anyway.

Some days I can do it, other days I can.. However i'm working on adjusting my strategy, i'm going to focus more on being silly, and joking around and displaying sexual interest, instead of trying to relate to women.

I was going to say that yeah..add in self-amusement to your approaches and watch your results improve dramatically!


If you use sexual intent only..you will come across as creepy to the girls that you approach, and you will get blown out of the sets.


If you approach with self-amusement only..although it will get the girl's interest at first..it's not enough masculine polarity in your approach to keep the girl's curiosity and interest in you going.


So you need both - sexual intent & self-amusement. Also combining these two parodoxes will keep you more engaged in your sets, and more "in-state" (even if you were initially tired and "out of state" when you first started) than if you just applied only one of these concepts in your approaches.


-G

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LEARNING GAME IS LAME!..Right up until the point when you will eventually see a hot girl standing or sitting right in front of you. In that moment..you will wish that you had learned game!