| I'm new to game, although I am old. I'm basically someone who has only had a few bangs in his life, ans is desperately trying to see if he can get 1/3 of the way to catching up with his friends! Girls just aren't interested in me!
Anyway, i've read a few books on game. I only do night game. Here's some interactions (over the course of a few weeks) for your amusement:!
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APPROACH NUMBER 1 - SIMPLY UNEBELIEVABLE BEGINNERS LUCK. F CLOSE!!
2 girls sitting at a table in a bar. Friend dares me to approach them.
I walk over to them and sit down and pretend to recognise her from a ridiculous event. I think I said it was a 'midget orgy' or something. They both laugh. I ask them the usual questions (where are you from, what are you doing tonight, what do you do for work bla bla bla) (NOTE: I'M STILL NOT SURE WHETHER I AM SUPPSED TO ASK THESE SORTS OF QUESTIONS?! I THINK IM' NOT SUPPOSED TOO, BUT WITHOUT THEM, I DO'NT KONW WHAT TO TALK ABOUT)
Anyway, I soon transition into pretending to be her blind date for the night. Then soon after, my friends joined the table and I sat close to her and told her that the reason I came over was because I thought she was hit (AGAIN - DON'T KNOW IF THIS IS 'CORRECT' THING TO HAVE DONE OR NOT)
Her friend gets up to go and to my surprise the girl i'm with chooses to stay.Things were looking good nOW.
Then my friends left and I led her to the bar, bought her a drink, and then basically told her we were going back to my place. We went back and had sex with zero resistance.
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NEXT NIGHT OUT
approach 1:
girl by herself standing near to the table where me and 2 friends were drinking. She was nothing special, but I wanted to get my feet wet/practice
Looked at her, but couldn't think of anything 'clever' to open with based on oservations. nothing 'stood out'.
So, I just went with
''Hi! What's up?? I'm sub'' (and smiled)
(she looked a bit grumpy)
her: ''hi''
me: ''are you here alone?''
her: ''my friends are just coming''
me: ''what's your name?''
her: ''claire''
At this point, 2 of her friends turned up, and she turned her back to me and kind of positioned herself so that her friends were kind of making a barrier between us. Obviously not interested in me, so I just kind of played it off, and smile and said
me: ''Ok, you take it easy, Claire!''
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APPROACH 2
I'm in a trendy kind of cocktail bar in the outside area, and 2 gorgeous girls arrive and stand near me and my friends, drinking their drinks.
Me: Hi! (smile) (I couldn't think of a good opener, so just went with the old 'just say hi' advice.)
At this point one of them turned her head away from me, and the other one just blanked me. I immediately felt a bit bad, because the look they gave me was one of ''we are out of your league!''
me: How's it going? (to both girls)
(one of them carried on blanking me, and the other one pretended that her friend didn't speak English.)
Her: She doesn't understand English.
Me: Oh? where is she from?
(at this point the 'one who can't speak English' (which was a lie, lol) kind of grabbed her friend, and they both walked back indoors in the bar)
this was extra bad, because my friends I was with (who also NEVER pull) told me that I was wasting my time trying to chat up girls who are so good looking. 'Aim lower!!'' was the advice
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APPROACH 3
In a different bar, and a girl is taking photos of her friends. I tap her on the shoulder
me: ''You're friends always make you the designated photo taker?''
her: ''haha...thinking about it, it is always me taking the photos!''
me: ''that sucks. Do they at least tag you in them on facebook?''
her: ''NO! I have to do it myself like a loner Sad''
me: Lets find you some new friends tonight.
her'' haha''
me: Where are you going tonight?''
her: My boyfriend is taking me out for a meal later, but gonna be here until he gets here''
me: Oh. Boyfriend?! (made a pretend super sad face. She laughed and touched me on the shoulder)
her: Awww...what sort of girl are you hoping to meet tonight? what willl she look like
me: Like you!! but with blonde hair! (this girl was brunette)
her: HAHAHA (She seemed to find this VERY funny for some reason)
At this point, some guy (not her boyfriend) completely cut in between us, and started talking to her. i tihnk he was a friend. It was a bit awkward and rude, but i didn't feel lke doing anything about it,m since I knew i wasn't gonna be able to get her anyway, so I just craned around him and said ''I gotta get back to my friends, see ya later''
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APPROACH 4: Girls on dance floor in loudish club, so no tlaking.
In a club now and my very good looking friend has joined us. Girls are staring at him. We go on the dancefloor together, and dance. Just me and him. Neither of us can really dance, but we are in time (have rhythm) and are just having fun.
Every few minutes, a girl will come over adn flirt with my friend. He is not really interested as he has a stunning GF and doesn't want to cheat on her. He just smiles at the girls.
Now a group of 3 girls come over, and all of them are kind of circling him. One is trying to touch his chest.
They're obviously close to me too, so I try some sort of RSD hand of god type thing, but she looks at me and shakes her head and says ''we like your friend!!!''
ouch.
Me and my friend go back to the bar. I feel like shit, lol.
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Late now and i'm on my own and looking to get a cab. There is a gorgeous girl standing near teh cab rank and she is holding her shoes in her hands and is barefoot.
My brain can't tihnk of an opener for some reason. I was thinking ''she has no shoes on!! There must be a funny comment/opener you can make!!'' but nothing would come.
I was also feeling a bit shit about the action my friend could have gotten and LOOS THEORY was taking over my emotions and I was getting in a bad state, so in the end I didn't even bother approaching that girl -
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NEXT NIGHT OUT
First approach in the outside area of a nice little bar by the seaside.
There's 3 girls on the table next to us. I'm with my friends, and I don't want to start talking to them in front of my friends.
My friends disappear to the bar at the same time so now it's just me and the girls.
We are sitting fairly close to a scary looking rollercoaster type thing.
I look at one of them, smile and say
(me)''Hey! I've got a ticket for that ride up there. Fancy it!?'' (I was lieing here. I didn't have one)
(her) ''Nahhhh.''
(me) ''Why not? You're not scared are ya?!!''
(her) ''lol, no. We've got these bands (showed me her wrist) so we can go on any rides , anyway
(me) Ooooooh. You're just showing off now!
(her) haha
(me) So what are you up too tonight? Going anywhere fun?
(her) No. nothing planned.
(at this point, the really hot one who was closest to me turned her back to me, the other one was kind of looking away, and the one I was mainly talking too was giving me the vibe that she didn't want to talk)
It went quiet, and so I started telling them why I was out and stuff,
''Yeah, so me and my friends are out for a mates stag doo. We're going to Xbar later on''
but at this point it got a bit weird, because they all basically ignored me, lol.
i'm not sure if I done something wrong or if I was just unlucky in terms of the girls not being that friendly.
It got a bit weird at this point, because they all kind of turned there back on me and clearly didn't want me talking to them.
I think I tried to break the SPAM and said something like ''why do yuo hate me!?'' but whilst smiling/laughing at the same time, but they carried on looking away.
I just gave up trying to talk to them, and left a few minutes after. Awkward.
Next one.
I'm in a different bar. There's 2 hot girls sitting on a table next to where I am standing.
I can't exactly remember how i opened unfortunately.
I THINK it was something like
''hey guys! What's up?! Just you 2 out tonight?''
I asked their names and noticed they had an accent and then asked where they were from,
They said they were from Switzerland.
I then asked them what they were doing here and stuff.
I then found myself struggling as to what to say.
I could tell that they weren't overly interested in me, though. They didn't ask me any questions, either.
One of my friends came over to us and stood next to me, and I said to him
''Hey, meet my new friends. This is claire and this is kelly'' (these weren't their names. I was just amusing myself )
Girls: ''Haha! they're not our names!!''
I told them I was just messing around. My friend didn't contribute anything, and I felt like I couldn't think of anything to say, and then the girls were like ''Anyway, Nice meeting you'', and they went inside. I didn't see them again
next one:
This was maybe the most successful one in terms of I felt as thought there was some attraction.
Again, unfortuntely I can't remember how i opened Sad
I possibly just commented on something she was wearing.
They were standing near me as they were queueing up to get to the bar.
My brother was being served and he kind of gave me an in, because he looked at me and asked me what I wanted, and then I think he asked the girls what they wanted!
They were kind of polite and I think they were reticent to accept his offer, and then I was like
''Get in there quick, girls, before he changes his mind!''
They asked him for vodka lemonades.
Then we got out drinks and I just basically lead them onto the dance floor. My brother dancing with one, and me dancing with the other one.
It was kind of loud so hard to talk, but I remember just being a bit flirty. Lots of kino. I told her she was cute. We got kind of close and I feel as though I could have possibly gone for the kiss, but I don't think enough attraction had been built, and my instincts told me that it wasn't a good idea.
I wish I could remember how it fizzled out so that maybe I could learn from it, but after a little while, they both disappeared. I don't think my brother was really flirting with the other one, so maybe that didn't help? Maybe she dragged my one away, but I can't honestly remember!
Still, no really painful rejections right after the opener which was nice. I've had quite a few 'go away' type reactions after saying 'hi' in recent weeks, so it was a mild confidence boost, even if I didn't 'get anywhere' as usual, lol. On tihnking back though, i'm annoyed about the first interaction.
I can't work out of I done something to creep them out?!! They were just so kind of rude, but at the same time they weren't bitches. Lke they didn't say anything cruel to me, but they made me feel like I must have looked like a weirdo for talking to them by their reaction. As if they'd never had a stranger speak to them before! Always makes me question my looks.
Oh, and I made a last minute direct approach on a hot promotions girl who was giving out flyers. Doesn't really count, though. She was working and it's basically her job to flirt with people! Super hot, though :
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