Hey guys,

I haven't been back on this site ever since I became a member in the early part of last year. I signed up and basically gave up after about 2-3 weeks of motivation to learn what this is all about and attempting to step foot in A club never mind more than one.

Went through some personal stuff that I had to deal with before I could rise from the ashes like a phoenix (cheesy comment I know). This whole renewal of my journey socializing with girls and growing balls to attempt for numbers and conversations really all started when I got my life straight. I ended all bad habits, went back to the gym, started eating healthier, started pursuing my interests in the greater community etc etc. Okay enough of my story cause that is not why you opened my post I'm sure.

I started by chatting up older women, not old old, but rather women who are in their mid 30s-40s. And yes I went for attractive women (MILFS). I was very comfortable talking to them because they didn't play games with me. As i started talking to more and more of them, my natural personality was starting to shine through this insecure and once low self-esteem guy. I realized that I am a pretty funny guy with clever short, sweet, and to the point comments. That is how I have been rolling with all women nowadays. I keep it light-hearted at first and then become more serious and deep as the conversation progresses. But I am still a work in progress and by no means pro at this. In fact, I am as newbie as they come.

I joined an online sex club and connected with like-minded people. Almost made it to an orgie but that fell through last minute. PM to hear that story it is pretty funny. And this past Sunday, I was referred to a Prostitute who would do the job to get my feet wet. Yes I became that desperate because like I said, I still don't know what the hell I am doing.

So I leave it up to you to ponder: What do you think about gaming older women and then progressing to gaming younger women? Is it even necessary to treat the natural experience of talking and attracting women like a mathematical equation?

I would love to get your opinions and always looking for a wingman to hit up the clubs and bars cause this is an exciting journey that I think many of us don't want to end anytime soon.

-Alex P