Wasup to all Pua's, I am Frost, I live in Montreal and I am 19 years old. I have read many journals of Puas that have inspired me to start my own. Today, my journey begins to become a Pua. I am not afraid to say it I only FC two girls in my life but I was always in a relationship with them.( not to brag myself!). I had some success with women introduced to me through social circle in the past but I am totally not satisfied with my current situation. I really want to become comfortable at approaching any woman that I am interested in. I still have a lot of approach anxiety and I am tired of never know what to say next. There is a moment in life when you get really pissed and you tell yourself f*ck it If you keep saying "SOME DAY" these will be nothing more than two words you will take to the grave. So I have reached this point. I will start doing this for ME and I hope I will give the motivation to anyone who ever wanted to start but didn't have the determination. Thank you for following me it promess to be exciting.

*Reminder: A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step.

Goal #1 - Get rid of Approach Anxiety
             - Approach at least 10 sets ( guys, girls or both)
              - Learn to say "Hi" to people and have a short conversation (2-3 minutes) without seeking any reactions.

I will keep you up to date folks.

Frost!

Simple tips:

For AA, its harder to start with strangers so there is 2 exercices to start with.

1- you can start with talking to people that you never talk to in your class or at your school. (if you go to school). Talk to people at your work that you never bother talk with (if you have a job).

2-Approch girls only to give them compliments and dont stay for their reactions.
EX`:
F: your hair look amazing today!
then turn away, dont wait her to respond.

If you have a good heart, see people who are down or sad approch them, say something nice about them, make you happy and make them happy.[/b]

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Let change the world
One smile at time

Member: Frost

La shop field report #1 (15 march 2012)

Approach #1
- There is not a lot of people inside the bar...  I stop being a pussy so I open my first target a guy saying I'm not from here and what type of music they play in here.

It's his first time in this bar as well and he came with his friends.

~ we start having a small conversation everyone is sitting in the bar.

Me: Hey do you know what type of music they play in this bar because it is my first time here?

Him:  I don't know me two it is my first time here.

Me: ok do you know if it gonna be a lot of people coming soon?

Him: not sure but you try the fouf electrique there is a lot of girls plus its ladys night

Blablabla I asked for the direction I shake his hand. That's it.


Approach #2

I immediately initiate the conversation with the barmaid asking when the place gets full and we start talking about how crowded its going to be a few minutes

Me: do you know at what time it usually get crowded?

Barmaid: usually around 11:30 but last week there were a lot of people.

Me:Cool,  do you know how many level there is in this club?

Barmaid: two but only this one is open 2day.

Me: thanks have a good night. I eject.

Approach #3

I see a guy wearing a t-shirt "I'llest" so I am asking if he is a hip hop dancer cause I am one as well

Me: Sup I saw your T'shirt so I was wondering if I already saw you at some dancing event? Are you a hip hop dancer?

Him: Yes it is possible, I am a hip hop dancer

Me: That's really cause I am one too.

Blabla I introduce myself I am frost, even his friends came to introduce themselves to me! He they told me if I grab a fat chick they will buy me 4 shots lol! Hell no.

The place was pretty empty so I left after, I wish I could have done more approaches. I wanted to go to the fouf but it was full because of the strike anyways. I am planning on going out 2day again!

Positive: I was not expecting any outcome from anyone and all the interactions went pretty well.

Negative: I need to open more people around me because I am still having a hard time to open bug sets. but I'll work on that.

* thanks for the tips Froggy.

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Good to see someone from Montreal! And a hip hop dancer aswell! Have you been dancing for a while? You should be aware that being a dancer is an amazing plus to your club game. You can basically just go to the dancefloor, mind your own business and dance and you will eventually get approached by girls who wants to dance with you.

But anyways, keep approaching people to get rid of this AA, but you should also open at least 1 set of girls every time you go out!

I'll def. follow this journal!

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Thanks Matt I really appreciated the comment it is motivating! I'll definitely add this to my list of goals to approach at least 1-2 sets of girls when I go out. I been dancing for quite a while now about (1-2 years) but I had to stop because of school. Now I am back in the game! I am going out tonight so lets see how it goes! No failure, only experiences!

Frost.

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"Women need to feel desired, not loved.".

foufein electronique has a lot of younger quebecois crowd mostly from CEGEPs around and UQAM. it is a super-french environment with a lot of skater boys and girls. and yes thursdays are their big nights.
what kind of target group are you looking for? i might be able to help you with places to look.

In my opinion, Fouf must be the best place for sarging in Montreal (For french people) since it's so huge. 3 floors, 4 bars, a huge dance floor (with a huge stage, which is an amazing DHV for someone who dance hip hop likes you. You can basically go do your things on the stage and eventually, some girls will come up to you (Happened every single time I went on the stage)... Pool and baby foot tables, etc....

In conclusion, a great place to sarge!

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Well it is, but depense again on which type of girl he want.

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Let change the world
One smile at time

Field Report: 12 October 2012

Members: Frost249 and My wingman

So, My wingman called me around 6 pm he wanted to know if I could come to Light Ultra Club with him. So we met there at around 12:40pm. We get inside, I have a lot of AA when I first get in. There is like a bunch of French girls coming for a party (HEC de Montréal). So my wing point me a girl next to me that I have to open.

Set #1

Me: Hey, you look like you having a lot of fun dancing alone.
Hb: I am with my friends… Just waiting for them
Me: I start talking about the music and the techno… blablabla
Hb: Me too I don't like the music that much.

I run out of things to say. Fuck I eject. That was a good warm-up.


Next, I approach another set on the dance floor. (4 girls) They looked bored.
I just come and approach one of them.

Set #2

Me: Hey wasup, Can you teach me one of your moves (This girl was dancing like crazy)
Hb: She talked to her friends and we started to dance together.
It was really funny she seemed really happy to dance, music is so fucking loud so I just eject from the set.

We approached a bunch of girls but nothing really solid. So around 2pm we decided to go out of the club (Too many dicks inside) to do some street game.

So I see a two sets smoking. So I go open them.

Set #3
Me: Wasup girls, you’re not going out tonight?
Girls: Yes, actually we went in Churchill it is just so boring
If you want to get some girls that is the place to go.
Me: Alright, thanks have a good night girl

I ejected.

We started to walk around the second cup on crescent. My wing sees a set in the front of a bar and he opens them.

I overheard that it is the birthday of one of the girls so I just give her a hug.

We start gaming both of them.

Set #4

Me: Oh so it is your birthday that’s really cool (she was drunk as FUCK)
Hb: Yeah I just turned 18.
Me: Oh fuck, that mean you can be legal everyhere.

I then started to talk how cool it was when I turned 18 me too.

Her friend the blonde girl was actually pretty cool. Anyways they have to go.


I approached another girl on the side walk. She was walking pretty fast.

Set #5
Me: Hey wasup, you look like you are in a hurry. You’re not going out tonight:
Hb: No I just finished working.
Me: I work in a restaurant near st-laurent
Small talk, I should have taken her number FUCK mistake. I could see she was surprised when I approached her and interested.

Set #6 We see two girls standing in the front of the club. They are not very good looking but FUCK IT we want practice. So we open them.

Me: Hey wasup, what are you guys doing outside the night is not over.
Hb: We are tired and we are waiting for our dad to bring us home.
Me: What are you guys celebrating tonight.
Hb: My sister just turned 18
Me: Nice give me high 5

Then we started to do some small talk and we stayed there for like 10 minutes and then eject.


Overall Strength: - I approached a lot of sets

Overall Weakness: - Need to learn to stay longer in sets and past small talk

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"Women need to feel desired, not loved.".

A good way to stay in set for dancefloor game, its to mimic the girls dance move and then ask her to teach you a move and ofcourse compliment her about it.

You did great by opening the most energitic girl in a dance circle but you dont need to talk first. you can play with the back and forth of the dance to whisper a few words in between.

Also you want to make sure to dance with different girls of the group. open your target at the end.
Usually after 5 minutes of dancing, you can take your targets hand and isolation take care of itself.

After you dance with her for a while, 4-5 minutes, (make sure you are not just dancing, talk in same time, dont need to do anything fancy, asking boring question is fine, ideally find out how she is going to leave to take care about logistic later on, wast much less time that way.)
Isolate her at the end of a song, (usually I do it by the bar, by simply asking her to keep compagny while im buying a drink, or simple get some water. Use that time to talk more intimate things, you have like an extra 10-15 minutes, depense on the bartender.) Bring her back to the group. At this point, the group trust you. Redo the patern of dancing with each one of them. The next time you isolate, you can bring her outside or by the bar again, either NC, KC or pull her home.

hope the tips will give you more advantage on the dance floor.

Thanks mate, that's some really great tips that I will take into consideration next time I go out. I'll keep you updated.

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"Women need to feel desired, not loved.".

I live in Montreal to. Following! +rep

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Easy to dream a dream, but much harder to live it.
I learned working with the negatives could make for better pictures.

Cool to know some people are around montreal around here. Im looking forward to know some people who can share their knowledge with the different venues or approaches theyv made successfully around here.

Small Field Report: 19 October 2012

Members: Frost249

So I was not really eager to go out tonight because of the mid-terms coming soon... So I called one of my friend and we decided to go to cafe campus around 11:00

Overall it was a ok night. Not a lot of people because I guess people have school.

Here is the funny part. The night was over. I was on my way home with my friend and I see this girl from really far walking alone. I would say she was a HB 7. I apply the 3 seconds rules and I started to run really close to her.

I opened her.

Me: Hey wasup, I had to come and stop you to know your name.
Hb: Hi (at first she was really suprised)
Me: You have a little accent let me guess where you from...
Hb: Im actually from Ontario.

So I was walking with her and we actually talk about how her accent was different from the people in montreal.

I complimented her about it how sexy her accent was. Gave her a hug and I number closed.

Let see where it goes from here. I do not think that it was really solid however it was pretty good overall.

Thats it. Thanks for following. Have a good day Folks.

Frost

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"Women need to feel desired, not loved.".

Been busy for a while because I just started university. But I am almost done with my finals which means more field reports to come. Guys, I've watched the movie FIGHT CLUB for the 10th time and I WOULD recommend this movie to anyone who wants to improve his inner game. It is like the best movie EVER. It helps you to understand that you are the one who decide which kind of man you want to be. Stop looking for fucking excuse of why you can't do something and take action. It pumps me up because it is true that if you die tomorrow would you be satisfied with the life that you have today? You can be a pussy all you life or decide to be a man and make your own choices. So I'll be posting very soon thanks for following me folks.


Frost.

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"Women need to feel desired, not loved.".