A few weeks ago in school, I've had my eyes on this girl. Seen her a couple of times but never had class with her before. She doesn't know me nor do i know her. She followed me on IG, so i took that as a chance to follow up as a approach. I approached her 1 week later and did a little short conversation. Introduced myself, and told her to meet me at lunch later since she was in a hurry. She gave me her number, and her friends saw. They were like "ooooohhhh i see you", and the girl said to me "Dont worry, just ignore them". So I thought that was a good sign. I text her in few hours, and she seemed like a very slow texter (here is the text exchange)

1 http://imgur.com/1d6Is5r
2 http://imgur.com/GxTKlNI
3 http://imgur.com/a6dL0ce

Few days later, I've approached her again and here is how it went.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PXdum_7k1lY

A few days later, I approached her again, during lunch. Hoping to establish a connection.
https://www.dropbox.com/s/beknznzhuryvg ... 2.m4a?dl=0

(Note: She was sitting with a friend, her friend was asking me about the teachers. She sounds a bit further away. Do notice that the girl I am going for, barely talks after i playfully confront her about the slow texting. I was also conversing with her friend, so try to not get confused)

After that lunch approach, I thought she was hooked... Well kind of. Since she reciprocated when i asked questions and made statements. Well... Unfortunately not...

After a week later, I approached her after school. This was parts of the conversation. Teases, push and pulls. I did however, manage to have a logical conversation with her, but also included teases.

https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/ ... d_signals/



Weeks has passed and words got around... One of my friends told me that she called me a creep and weird. She also quoted from her "He's a creep, and hes kind of weird, I know that he tries to come and talk to me, but no."


I'm a beginner, and so the only way i can improve is to approach more girls and learn from my mistakes. How can i learn from this one? As can't find any flaws on the approaches with this girl, besides the overgaming (extensive teasing, push and pulls which are not needed)

Well I can tell right away from your initial text exchange that you seem to come off as too needy by right away complimenting her and making her seem like the one with all the value. Next time you should definitely open up with something more confident or cocky-funny that playfully negs her at first instead of saying "your the most interesting girl I've talked to" right off the bat. And also NEVER mention that your own conversation is boring, that's just shooting yourself in the foot there.

If you were to come off as non-needy as if you were the prize to catch instead of her, then things would have probably gone different. For more specific tips just visit the link in my signature.

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1 super great post with the txt and vid proof...

2 know what you wanna do / and plan ahead

3 since your in this forum, you will see the term alpha and amog. For the current girl try to resemble them. Be more active.

so 3 key tips above JUST FOR YOU, cause i was in the same boat... in a bigger ocean with smaller oars. You're in good shape.

afc homework: (YOU need homework to get better) is to 1 play / look at how chess is played (this worked for me, but it can be anything that is trying to accomplish a goal in as short amount of time. ex. video game speed runs, gambits, professionals, etc...) what to look for is how planning / strategy will help you.


afc homework will help you with the 2nd and 3rd tip, the 2nd tip will make you look less weird and the 3rd tip will help you look less creep-like(stalling and not saying much)

So what I would need to do is better strategize my plans? And to do that, I should consider checking out how chess is play, correct?

Sorry, I am a bit befuddled

Don't over think, or worry about this text exchange young pussy slayer. It really as a whole wasn't bad.

Young guns such as yourself, tend to seem 'weird' or 'obscure' at first to some, because you actually have the balls to approach with this level of confidence.

The part were you say 'your the most interesting girl I've talked to in the past Hr.' IS very good. It imply's you've been talking to many girls.

Your going to do well.

Just don't get all caught up on one girl. For every girl who doesn’t like you, there’s another right around the corner who will.

This IS the perfect time to get this down. You have many more choices of beautiful girls, in high school and college than at any other time in your life. True story.

Keep doing what you are doing, learn as you go, be fearless, girls are nice. girls are not going to get mad at you when you open them. In most cases, they’ll be happy to have the attention.

The more times you do this, the more it becomes natural.

You will see, you'll be the one pulling all the hot girls, while the other guys will be standing there holding their dicks wondering how the fuck you do it. Because it will be the simplest thing in the world.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

You should probably check this out if you have time. This became a chaotic post on reddit.

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comment ... d_a_creep/

Exactly my point. Michael Jordan likely looked no better to the pros, than an ambulatory retard on muscle relaxers the 1st time he dribbled the ball down court.

But you are doing it.

How old are you?

I even saw advice on there where some fucktard suggested you don't game girls at your own school. WTF? Seriously?

The sooner you develop a skill, the longer you get to enjoy it.

This thread has been picked apart like a frog in junior high science class. So I'm not going too.

My advice is to see that you start a journal.

Depicting;

-Goals
-Fuck ups.
-Success.

And continued posts.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

I'm 16 sophomore. I totally agree with you on the Michael Jordan concept. The guy on there said that gaming girls at my school and getting rejected would possibly ruin my reputation and lower my SMV value. Which im befuddled about.

But yea, a large proportion of the guys on there gave me advice and basically told me what i did wrong. Meanwhile the other proportion are just there to hate. I even received private message telling me to not learn pua anymore because all it will do is hinder my chances with girls, which i doubt is at all true.

lol I was trying to come up with a few ideas, the chess isn't the main thing to do it was something that worked for me. The key is to think ahead, if you want to end up on a date, make sure you know a place that will have a lasting impression.

I would recommend going to living social or groupon and looking up things to do. It's part of my current activity set and would recommend it instead of the typical going to the movies cause 1) it gets expensive for everything in that dam place now lol and 2) you could go to the online bay and join the "pirates" lol tor-rent reference. Also the activities are cool and I've gotten a few activity cheaper than the movie tickets and worth more in value than 2 hrs that some people sleep through.