I've noticed in my short experience with pick up that I really dont like talking to drunk girls and going to regular clubs. last time I went to such a club I just couldnt seem to connect with any of those girls. Ive realized it where not the girls I didnt like it was the alcohol.

The next time I went out I decided to go to a techno party, most girls there dont drink that much(actually most use drugs like: speed ,xtc,coke and other designer drugs). Ive noticed girls were a lot more down to earth in this kind of venue and also a lot less physical and more verbal.
I started the evening by just dancing a little bit and a bit of small talk. after like 30 mins in I saw a really cute girl with glasses on so I told she looked like a hot middle teacher where all the kids would fall in love with. she started laughing and said she hated kids and was more like sexy secretary. then we went outside to smoke a cig and we started kissing intensely. after a while i got bored and said i needed to get back to my friends. then I saw this small pretty blonde girl dancing really weird so I started imitating her for fun and she laughed and got sort of mad at me. we started talking a litlle bit and she gave me her number. after that I went outside for a cig and a white girl with an afro came to me and said I looked like a happy clown.(guess it was a shit test but I really thought is was a funny line). I said she could make me even happier.if she gave me hug so she did. when she hugged me she said I was really muscular and she seemed totally in love with me(she probably used xtc or something haha), her openness kinda scared me away. so I went further on my path becoming a girl magnet. 5 minutes later a girl came to me to ask if I did crossfit. And we started talking about lifting and things just a normal convo I could have with a guy friend. but suddenly she turned around to show her 'SPAM'(butt) and asked me to touched it. I tried to play it cool but really felt a bit awkward when I touched het butt. Then I got her number as well and decided to go home.

P.S. had sex with the sexy middle school teacher a few days after

How about try some day game so you don't have to rely on being smashed or high. Might actually make you confident too

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The cool thing about meeting women in non bar environments is that you do not then feel the need to use alcohol as a crutch so you can basically do the same thing in the bar - you go in 100% sober and get into state and are completely lucid etc.

Actually didnt use drugs, only drank some redbull to stay awake

and yeah I wanna try some daygame but it doesnt feel right... I know its not an excuse and everytime Im about to do it I have some stupid basic convo on the street and then I chicken out without getting a number, and decide to do it another day. I really feel like I need a wing to get started in daygame

You don't need a wing for it at all. Do the newbie mission and gradually escalate until you've got the balls to go for a number. Fuck it, maybe even think "I'm never allowed to ask for a number" to help with the whole freedom from the outcome shit. You'll eventually cave and ask, though. I guarantee it.

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