Hi, I'm Teen Spirit and I'm going to be posting every single field report I go through. If you guys could teach me how to upgrade my game and tell me the things I do wrong, that would be great.

My very first approach was yesterday, when I approached a girl who was all by herself.

'Hey, can I ask you a question ?'
'Sure'
'But you have to be honest'
'Okay'
'Do you think Elvis Presley is handsome ?'

She laughed

'No, I don't. Was that the question ?' She laughed again
'Yeah, because I always thought girls found him handsome, but I was with some girls last night and they told me they didn't find him handsome'

We talked for like 2-3 minutes, and then I showed her The Cube. She imagined a big, purple, opaque cube.

I thought 'Shit, what does purple mean ?' I couldn't remember, so I just came up with something.

'Yeah, I guess' She said, she didn't seem conviced, or maybe she felt I was hitting on her and started feeling insecure.

Whatever it was, I had screwed up. She would eventually find her friends.

I think that what went wrong was: I didn't neg, I didn't Kino, I did The Cube way too soon, since we had only talked for 2-3 minutes and I didn't give her time to feel attracted to me.

Thanks for reading.

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Just by your user name I'm guessing fairly young. Congrats little Bro.

You are doing things men twice your age don't have the balls to even try.

There was no fail here.


-Only feedback. And what you choose to do with it.

I think she would easily given you her number should you asked?

Routines like the cube are just training wheels anyway, it's the ability to recover and maintain frame that sets you apart.

Remember this - "I am fucking awesome and i'm doing girls a favor by approaching them."

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Keep all of your posts in the same thread. You learn so much through corrective self reflection.

Forget about negging, kino and the cube right now. You're just at the start it seems so just try to speak to and interact with as many girls as possible for now to build up your social intelligence with them.

2016 is just around the corner so start thinking about where you want to be by 2017. If you commit yourself fully throughout the entirety of next year, get enough reference experiences and be consistent you'll put yourself on a good track for future successes.

It is not easy though and nobody else can do this for you, just like most things worth achieving in life, only the guys with the right attitude will succeed at becoming good at this.

I couldn't personally give a correct judgement because I didn't witness the interaction. Use your head though, what do you think the more attractive sexier version of yourself who was good with girls of done in this situation rather than what you did to make her go back to her friends?

Well done for making the initial effort.

Yeah, I'm only 15 years old, but I want to dedicate as much time as I can practicing this hobby. I'll keep in mind your advice, and you just gave me a huge self-esteem boost. Thanks.
Thanks for the advice.

I'm might be mistaken, but don't you think that's kind of a slow rythm ? Don't get me wrong, I want to commit myself as much as I possibly can, but working on my social intelligence for 2 years and only in 2017 start working on my game ?

I think I'd learn a lot more approaching and working on my game 4/5 days a week than first working on my social intelligence, then working on my inner game, then working on my body and clothes, and only then start working on my openers and approaches.

I want to be a good/great PUA by the end of 2016

Don't get me wrong, though, I really appreciate your advice.

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You got this. Keep what you're doing.

I am reading some of my posts recently and I just sound like an angry dick. But I think I am nice when I finally find a thread that has a glimmer of hope.

Do it all. Work the fundamentals and keep talking to new women. Learn this now and it will become a reflex. By the time you're my age (15 years older than you) you will be a lady killer.

Just don't ruin your life by getting a girlfriend.

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+1.

That's what I had been trying to tell in other threads (with good intentions of course).

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Shut up you dick sprout

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Lol. I Had no idea you were 15 years old mate. Thought you'd be atleast 18/19...

Social intelligence is a huge part of game. Being able to read girls emotionally and feel them intuitively is a sense that every good player has. This can only be developed by spending a lot of time with hot girls.

My advice was to work on your game right now and start interacting with girls, but actually set some goals for yourself so that you actually take the action and start to gain that exposure...
Like that. That's brilliant. Something like that will give you the initial motivation you need. Now which steps and actions do you think you need to take to achieve this?

My point was that this is a LONG journey where you keep on developing and getting stronger. You are at the very beginning of this. The first year is just a warm up, you're going to have many experiences that you'll need to learn from that you'll need to carry into the rest of your development.

I actually lost my virginity when I was 15. I didn't discover the pick up community until I was 19 and by then I'd dated a number of girls and fucked around about 10. I probably experienced what would take the average guy until they're 35 to understand all compressed into the space of four years. It set me an amazing foundation for game and pick up, which I've now carried on from and had success in pretty much all areas of pick up over the last three years (I've just turned 22) that the dudes in this community are aiming for.

As I said, social exposure, being around girls and flirting with them is your key to developing a good foundation right now. You're young, so enjoy being around girls. You have a lot to look forward too.

Exactly. (Missed the dick joke though)

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Thanks, that's my plan: working all-around and keep approaching and keep talking to new girls.
Thanks, well, I wanted to get a wing, but as you can imagine, there aren't many 15yo PUAs. But I'd love to get one to occupy the obstacles and to share with me his ideas and his experiences.
Wow, that's actually a pretty amazing story.
Yep, that's what I'm going to do, thanks for the advice.

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So the girl I approached Tuesday came to me and said:

- Hey, I really liked your Cube thing, can you teach me some more stuff ?

I was shocked, I hadn't fucked up so badly as I had imagined.

- Hey, let me show you some stuff - she said - think of your mother, your best (girl)friend, and your best (boy)friend. Now, you have to kill one, kiss one, and marry one, who would you kill, kiss and marry ?

"Wow" I thought "That sounds like a bad-prepared opener, but okay"

So we talked and talked, and then she asks me:

- So, do you have something to show me ?
- You know, The Cube and other stuff like that, are a pretty dark art.

She laughed. We talked a little more and then I noticed she was a little upset with something, so I asked:

- Is everything okay ?
- Yes. - She made a pause - Well, my throat hurts a little, I need to take some medicine or whatever

I laughed

- Yeah, your throat hurts because you talk too much - I negged her with a playful tone of voice.

I made sure I didn't reaction-seek.

I think this actually went pretty good, and when I show her some new routines, I'll make sure I kino.

Thanks for reading

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