FR: FINALLY SOME ACTION
Frustration has been piling up the whole week. The Game took over my life. Not out of enthusiasm from successes but out of frustration from failures. It is now my full time job to read, write, think about and practice the Game. I always wondered why flies roam so aimlessly. Well, just like a fly I now buzz endlessly around town locating anything of a female nature. Still often without a word uttered.
Nightgame sucks. Loud music shatters my verbal game into pieces. But it has to be done. Bars and clubs are wild mating lairs. Friday night it is. Build-up frustration transformed into motivation. Neediness is sky-high. Let's do it:
B4
First bar. A girl (4) opens me at the bar. The conversation is pleasant. I eject.
With hindsight I should thank her for triggering a missile.
HB8
I zoom over to a lone peacocked HB8 and chat her up about wherebouts she is from with a couple of jokes. Her male friend interrupts with a drink for her soon. I turn to talk to him but leave them to it soon after. Am I a chicken? Should I wrestle him for her? At least I should have asked how they know each other. Perhaps there was a chance. I'll never know.
B6
I pat her on the back. Nothing. I pat her harder. No response. I grab her and turn her around. Finally! She (6) fires a interview question right after my Hi. I then get carried away talking about my favourite sport and we part ways. I did not hook her. And I wonder if I really wanted. If I do I have to lead the conversation. Have a few topics at hand.
B7
I am practicing letting loose on the dancefloor as I exchange glances with two girls next to me. We did a little dance and one of them jumped around my neck. Her friend was pushing us towards a kiss. I did not comply. That is cheap. She smiled and left her friend (7 but slightly chubby) hanging on me. We danced, I made her laugh, she particularly enjoyed groping my abs and pecs and told me she was in town for just one night. Kiss window opened widely. This was 3 minutes into the interaction. Perhaps I would be up for it if I had to work hard to get her. I let her loose on the dancefloor and soon she was in arms of another bloke. Good for her.
Missile finds its targets but never blows up.
Another club is still only half full. It will fill up soon. 'Just get comfy and warm up in the meantime.'
B5
I approached one girl (5) and let it slip into boring interview. I think my scripted routines are too long for a club approach and a bit childish but this sort of interview is no better - tedious and dull! Let's be rather a bit childish!
HB8
I reatreated to the dance floor and bumped into a super-cute HB8. Within seconds into the conversations I imply she is 'pretty'. Damn, beginner mistake! Of course she chuckles, thanks me and leaves. Not only I hate the choice of the word - 'cute', 'decent looking', 'not ugly' would go down much better - but if I had to compliment I would on something very specific. On top of that this was a situation begging for a neg not compliment.
HB7
Moments later I am working on this aloof HB7. It takes a lot of bossing her around as she is so passive. I make her dance, drag her out to talk and squeeze words out of her. She seemed to be comfy in my presence but did not particularly seek it. I push for isolation as she tends to bounce back to her boring friends who are having no fun. She did not take my offer to change venue and leaves home with her friends. She was not 'in the mood' according to her friends.
As a little intermezzo in the previous interaction I came to rescue one lone cutie (6) from boredom. She was grateful and I managed to pull a few tricks and games to hook her. She too left with her friends but hugged me and there was regret in her eyes as she was leaving. This girl I should have number closed even though she was in town for just one more day.
All in all, finally some action. -> Self-pat on the back.<-
LESSONS
- Speak the hell up! Everytime you have to repeat the opener, which is a bad way to start. Say Hi to get attention first.
- Compliment girls 5-7 more than you do, 8-10 less than you do.
- Make girls feel good about themselves, you tend to neg too hard. (my insecurity?)
Peace
Beast
