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PostPosted: Sun May 03, 2015 4:20 am 
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Enough is enough! It is time to unleash the BEAST. Now or never. And it will be done. And it will be recorded for you to enjoy and laugh...


The club is throbbing. Hundreds of bodies thronged on the dance floor and adjacent bar area. Clouds of hormones swirl in the air. The mass pulsates to the beats of the loud and mediocre dance music. The bar is inaccessible. Not that I would want a drink but an activity - any activity - would be helpful. Standing there in the crowd like a prick during a dry spell is a waste of energy.

The clock is ticking. With every passing minute my social value is plummeting. Soon everyone in the club would have noticed and perhaps wonder: 'What makes him come to a club and stand there the whole night like a coat hanger?' 'My penis, people, my penis.'

Three cute girls are dancing hesitantly in the crowd looking around - begging for attention. One has looked at me way too many times and every time saw me just standing there like a lone fence pole. 'Not a good starting position, bro.' squeaks the little shy idiot in my head before I picture a number of brutal medieval ways to kill him should he ever crawl out of me. An exotically attractive Asian girl in a screaming red dress shakes her body frantically. No doubt she is a stripper. She flashes her skills right in everyone's face. I contemplate an opener around the idea of recruiting girls for a strip club. I see her rejecting a cool guy right off the bat. Case closed. Then she bumps into a shy guy in the corner - another lone fence pole - and started rubbing against him right away. Case reopened ... 'but not now with the frustrated look all over your face, buddy'. One spanish boot, please!

Hours later, not much has changed apart from most of the girls have already exchanged saliva with numerous guys. Mine has not made it further than the drip on my shirt, I am leaving.


That was yesterday's field report, but all the numerous attempts to meet girls in past months and years have the same dynamics of action! Exciting stuff!

So am I a difficult case? Well, guess what, in almost a decade since my teens I got a couple of lays, a gorgeous girlfriend (8-9) and few make-outs and a whole lot of friends (although usually fairly shallow). All that purely because of either my 80kg ripped physique, decent looks, adventurous lifestyle, prestigious jobs and education, financial means and perhaps a bit of a sharp mind too. So imagine how crippling my approach anxiety is! I am only one step from unleashing a social beast but it looks pretty high from down here.

Let's see how I mock and humiliate myself next time.

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Enough is enough! It is time to unleash the BEAST. Now or never. And it will be done. And it will be recorded for you to enjoy and laugh...


The club is throbbing. Hundreds of bodies thronged on the dance floor and adjacent bar area. Clouds of hormones swirl in the air. The mass pulsates to the beats of the loud and mediocre dance music. The bar is inaccessible. Not that I would want a drink but an activity - any activity - would be helpful. Standing there in the crowd like a prick during a dry spell is a waste of energy.

The clock is ticking. With every passing minute my social value is plummeting. Soon everyone in the club would have noticed and perhaps wonder: 'What makes him come to a club and stand there the whole night like a coat hanger?' 'My penis, people, my penis.'

Three cute girls are dancing hesitantly in the crowd looking around - begging for attention. One has looked at me way too many times and every time saw me just standing there like a lone fence pole. 'Not a good starting position, bro.' squeaks the little shy idiot in my head before I picture a number of brutal medieval ways to kill him should he ever crawl out of me. An exotically attractive Asian girl in a screaming red dress shakes her body frantically. No doubt she is a stripper. She flashes her skills right in everyone's face. I contemplate an opener around the idea of recruiting girls for a strip club. I see her rejecting a cool guy right off the bat. Case closed. Then she bumps into a shy guy in the corner - another lone fence pole - and started rubbing against him right away. Case reopened ... 'but not now with the frustrated look all over your face, buddy'. One spanish boot, please!

Hours later, not much has changed apart from most of the girls have already exchanged saliva with numerous guys. Mine has not made it further than the drip on my shirt, I am leaving.


That was yesterday's field report, but all the numerous attempts to meet girls in past months and years have the same dynamics of action! Exciting stuff!

So am I a difficult case? Well, guess what, in almost a decade since my teens I got a couple of lays, a gorgeous girlfriend (8-9) and few make-outs and a whole lot of friends (although usually fairly shallow). All that purely because of either my 80kg ripped physique, decent looks, adventurous lifestyle, prestigious jobs and education, financial means and perhaps a bit of a sharp mind too. So imagine how crippling my approach anxiety is! I am only one step from unleashing a social beast but it looks pretty high from down here.

Let's see how I mock and humiliate myself next time.

Adieu
Beast :twisted:
Try day game if you are going out solo. It's much less weird than going to a club yourself.

Also that stuff about your social value plummeting is mystery method bullshit. No one is even noticing your existence much less judging your value. People are doing whatever the fuck they are doing. Don't worry man.

Sounds like you have some natural advantages. Good for you.

Those will get ground into the dirt so many times you'll wonder if they're worth having at all. Your ego is going to get ripped apart. Enjoy the ride :)

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PostPosted: Tue May 05, 2015 2:00 am 
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Thank you for the advice Hisoka. I am certainly blowing the social value thing out of proportion in my head. Daygame is a way to go for me. That will also give me some friends to take to bars in the evenings.


It has been two days since I slammed the table and said 'enough'. Since then I dedicated most of my day to learning the game. So far my effort has not been very fruitful though. Check this:


Had my routines and theories be guns and my words be bullets I would be the most intimidating and respectable bandit in the streets of Acapulco. With this arsenal I walked the streets like a cheap hooker searching for potential targets. Although I doubt that even the dirtiest sex workers do so much walking with so little success. Even they must have more grace then me. Hours passed without a single shot fired. If my guns were real, I would shoot myself in the foot.

I gave myself an ultimatum - you have to speak to at least 5 people every day or you have to take a dip in the lake (8 degrees). So far I managed to stay out of the water only because I count as little as asking a clothes shop assistant a few questions about a jacket, helping a tourist find her way around or talking to my friend that I bump into outside. The most successful cold approach I pulled off so far stretched into a few minutes of general chit-chat. Shame it was a guy!

Monday night was dead in many places but one bar. A bunch of unusually hot chicks was scattered around the place - all fairly approachable. One smiled at me and I smiled back only to pass her by. Are Martians controlling my body or what? Another gave me a good two-second look accompanied by a little seductive hip dance. My head involuntarily steered away from her. She did not repeat that*, I did not approach. Too hot material to touch. One cute girl stood by a group of her friends but obviously suffered from being slightly excluded. I hesitated until she left the place.

*I guess it was her - very bold - way of inviting me to approach her. As soon as I overlooked her, she interpreted it as a rejection and retreated into her shell. Ouch! If only she knew. I am not making this world a better place by being so f***ing shy.


So it seems all the hopes, motivation and 'just do it' advice leads nowhere with me. I decided to go around saying hi everyone I make eye contact with. Silly, but it is a baby step I need to take I guess.

Any ides guys?

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I gave myself an ultimatum - you have to speak to at least 5 people every day or you have to take a dip in the lake (8 degrees). So far I managed to stay out of the water only because I count as little as asking a clothes shop assistant a few questions about a jacket, helping a tourist find her way around or talking to my friend that I bump into outside. The most successful cold approach I pulled off so far stretched into a few minutes of general chit-chat. Shame it was a guy!
Haha so now you see how hard this can be in real life when you're new. :D

Don't ever be hard on yourself while you are learning this, it's why people fizzle out so quickly after tons of action.

Try to be proud of every small step you make. It won't take long before you are approaching and getting results. This is just all part of the progress.

Make it a daily thing you do for at least 30 minutes, don't take extended breaks otherwise your AA will return to full force. Just keep gradually working away at it.

When I started it took an entire week to get the courage to talk to someone. I literally just walked around my tried to talk to people but no dice.

Keep going out, keep trying to approach.

Here are some things to keep in mind:

The longer it takes you to approach the first person you see, the more excuses you will make for yourself. You want to talk to everyone, even if you just throw a random comment at people walking past or say 'Hello.' You want to continually feed your mind with evidence that nothing bad is going to happen if you approach, nothing bad is going to happen, nothing bad is going to happen! The first person you see you MUST approach as you walk out your door, be it a hot girl, old man, group of girls etc. It sets the precedent for the rest of the day.

Second thing is that you can fall out of this talkative mood or 'State', easily, so reduce time between interactions so you don't get into a logical headspace.

The third thing is that people are not judging what you are doing. They will think about your approach for maybe a few seconds after it's done, and then they will go back to whatever the fuck they are doing. The same applies if you think people are noticing you picking up and judging you. It's simply not true.

If you want an exercise to prove this, go down your busiest street and start clapping really loudly. Most people won't even acknowledge your existence, let alone start pointing and laughing at you. People are way too focused on themselves.

Keep going out. It gets easier. I know the advice of 'Just do it', is kinda useless for most people, but it's part of the progressive desensitization. So keep going!

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Thanks again Hisoka. The first two points are very helpful. I'll make it an imperative to talk to first person I meet after leaving the house as a warm-up exercise and a talkative mood booster. Then I'll aim to stay in that state by jumping from one conversation right into another.

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Right, finally some interesting action...

The club has a fairly good vibe although the it is nearly empty. Three young girls are having fun on the dancefloor. I walk past carrying myself as the greatest pimp in the world with my jacket just hanging on my shoulders covering my bright-colored T-shirt. One of them dances towards me and pins her eyes on me. The miliseconds fly. She maintained the eye-contact way too long. She is interested. I acted as if I was not and looked away. I fail in these split second decision. Well done for acting as the too-cool-for-her pimp till the end, looser!

My favourite club with an open fire. A lone lamb strayed away from her flock. The Beast attacks. The conversation ball is rolling until interrupted by calling of her friends. She joins them and I have not yet finished tying the string to make her bounce back to me like a yo-yo. I move on, indulge in a conversation with some friends who I happen to bump into. But the lone wolf never stops monitoring the place. There she is again - little lamb outside the crowd. Her friends must be pretty boring bunch. The wolf jumps over. Having exchanged even a single grunt or a nod with someone does it for the approach anxiety. I spun some small talk while I noticed her friend staring at me in disbelief. Immediately I realized he was prone to cockblock although he had no guts to tackle me. That was the moment a social beast would sneak into the group, pickup the dropped chin of the guy and throw a little show to befriend, amuse and win over the target's group. I missed that moment and she was pulled back to her herd before I managed to clasp her with my claws (the hook point).

Another club, another chick momentarily isolated from her friends by a wall of bodies passing by. I fire a situational comment to open. She responds but retreats to her friends afterwards. 'Fine, I'll wait for another chance to follow-up.' goes through my head. Wrong, should have grasped her right there! That is what I had to do anyway after wasting half an hour waiting for an opportunity which never came. She had way too many friends and big guy who accompanied her every time she left the safety of her friends' circle. I approached two more times but only to see her slip between my fingers. I pride myself to cunningly chat-up the big guy (just her SPAM) and ask him if he is okay with me talking to her. He was, still I gave up after she took shelter in his embrace while we were talking. She was scattering shit like peasants on their fields. I guess all the rushing around and then sheltering herself with her big friend was just a shield on unworthy guys. 'Make it through and you might get me' was the game. I did not. But hey, I tried and persisted - much better than just ogling her from afar like I used to.

Finally I was approached by a girl who I was briefly introduced to by friends some time ago. We chatted a bit and I left her. I was not very interested - although she had a fun vibe around her she was only around 6 and I know I can do better. I will approach girls who are 6-7 but only to practice the game with no intention to seduce them. I however give them a chance to impress me and win me over, which happens sometimes. She kept approaching me on the dancefloor and we had some fun dancing together. Then we moved venue and I escalated with her for the lack of other targets. As soon as I got the doggy dinner bowl look (you may lick my face now) I pulled the brake and voluntarily missed numerous windows to kiss her. They were countless and would make a whole skyscraper together. I was not attracted anymore. I did not want to take her home. The interaction went downhill from there and lost momentum. Half an hour later. I gave her a hug and a little kiss that I felt I owned her after fooling around with her for so long and left leaving her disappointed. I made many little mistakes and I am glad it did not happen with a girl with which it would matter more.

Finally I am piling up some experience. Also I need to speed up the whole pickup process and move to stage after stage as soon as it is possible. Missing a kiss window makes the following conversation just awkward.

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FR: The first date since learning the Game

There she was. A lone girl. It was daytime and I was out practising my approaches. I hesitated a bit. Her hair and body was decent but I could not see her face. 'Relax, perhaps she is ugly. If so why bother.' my rational brain was humming. I watched her from afar until she noticed me. Now I had to approach. Thanks to the Game I made two things differently: Firstly I told her an interesting fact about the area in an animated and entertaining manner and followed up on that with texts. Secondly I approached her. She responded well, gave me her number. I fired a text next day suggesting we meet. She agreed and was sweet about it. My head started spinning and I started imagining a perfect date. I am such an AFC.

As soon as we met I started rolling leaving no space for initial awkwardness. Situational comment + DHV, opener, a game/bet, story, getting to know each other, more DHVs, emotional connection building games, push - pull. She loved it and I felt like the ultimate dating machine. That is what happens when you accumulate tons of material without using it. She commented that I must do something with people because I am really good with them. That struck me - THIS was the first time I was good with people! Hours flew by in an instant. I changed venue and started escalating.

But not all was roses. She was a shy girl and I was the dating machine. The contrast was too stark. I entertained her and demonstrated heaps of value but failed to build comfort. I found it difficult to do kino and her body was closing off. Towards the end her arms were crossed most of the time and she was fidgeting. I went for Style's evolution phase shift anyway with perhaps too much talking. Even a freeze-out failed.

All in all it seems I made a great friend where a hug is the limit.

Lessons learned: Cut it short! Talk less, listen more! Do not regress in sarge (bringing up an opener during escallation phase). Remain more mysterious about yourself - do not give much detail about myself until she asks and even then be rather brief in answering. Work on the Style's evolution phase shift - it was far from perfect.

What I am confused about:
How to build comfort? How to open her up?
Was I not genuine/needy/outcome dependant?
How to steer the conversation to sexual topics?

Any help welcome, guys.

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 Post subject: Re: Unleashing the BEAST
PostPosted: Tue May 12, 2015 3:48 am 
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I like your writing style. You are correct you need to talk less and listen more. Some guys try to offer continuous value by talking a lot, DHVing, etc. but this is not necessary and can actually work against you, just like what happened here. In fact, you shouldn't need to talk all that much or DHV yourself to the girl. Don't qualify yourself to the girl. Get her qualifying to YOU.

You can get her to qualify herself by asking deep opened-ended questions. Ask about her hobbies, passions, travel, family/friends, etc. Make a relevant statement to build a commonality and ask another question. Ask emotional questions. "How did that make you feel?", "What was that like?", "Tell me more...", etc. You can game a girl a lot more effectively by talking less and having her qualify herself.

If you want to talk about sexual topics, any easy one to ask now is, "Have you seen 50 Shades of Grey?". Though I don't really bring up sexual topics because I'm continually escalating while talking about "innocent" topics to cause cognitive dissonance and having her let me escalate further without realizing it. You don't need to get sexual verbally, escalate and getting the kiss is enough, then all you have to do is solve logistics and pull.

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Thanks WillEdward! Your are right, I run way too many DHV. It is my default way of talking when I wonder what to say. My stories filled with DHV. Need to cut that. Perhaps leave a bit of mystery so that she can ask if she is curious.

I will grill her more on her value next time. :twisted:

Fifty shades is a great sexual conversation starter. Will use it for sure. Thanks!

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FR: LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL

Friday night out. I steer away from my favourite bars just to mix it up and make sure I am not remembered as the always alone regular. New bar, cosy but almost completely empty. My autopilot commands a wide U turn and a walk out. Second thought stops me in the door on my way out. 'Come oooon, looser, there is a group in the corner!' (You see, there is now the BEAST in my head although still a baby.) Two guys three girls, all looking spectacularly bored. Minutes pass as I amass the courage. Next I am at their table. Music is too loud to talk to all of them so I settle for a chick closest to me. She loves it. The group leaves soon though.

Chatty momentum is great. I smoothly transfer to the next table where a couple of guys just sat watching the bar gradually fill up. Funny logistics have me end up sitting between the guys like a grand puff. But I keep my cool. The chick I took on the date the other day shows up with her friends. Instant eye IOIs. I feel like I own the place. I chat her up and kino heavily. Her (male) friend stares at me enviously. Have to get him involved. We hit off really well about sports and my girl begs to be included. I tease her that our conversation is private and that we are gossiping about her. I am finding out more and more that entertaining your target's friends is super powerful. In fact I plan to approach them first before my target. Suddenly I had balls of an elephant and approached a chick at the bar but let the convo fade away. That happens too often! How to get the ball rolling more steadily? I regret not pushing my girl on the dance floor to grope her some more. I left in search of a better venue.

I an a busy club I tend to hide on the dance floor and scan the place for chicks. Target locked but she has way too much energy. I'd be like an engaged formula 1 brake on her wheel. Target lost. But lucky me as I do a round-walk I found her sitting alone in a quiet area. Gorgeous human being! I felt this >.< small and walked past...
.. NO, I DID NOT! I am the BEAST now! In fact, I approached within seconds. She was way cuter than I though. I fired a couple of questions and she demonstrated a hefty tonne of value. I was blown away and went completely blank just smiling in disbelief and repeating 'wow' like broken record. The only response I came up with was 'MARRY ME'. Shame it was an hour after she left.

Another friend-I-would-like-to-fuck (FILF - I hereby coin this term ;) ) comes into the club. I greet her and chit-chat fleetingly leaving her dancing gently on the dance floor but not enjoying herself very much. I come back to her later on to dance with her a bit. The kino is very pleasurable right off the bat. I left her once again partly in search of better targets and partly to build more disinterest only to find out she went home later on. Shit!

LESSONS:

Go for a follow-up/close way sooner. Even when you feel you haven't demonstrated any value yet. Better than leaving a conversation fade away. Suggest going to the dance floor / getting a drink / going to get some food / exchanging numbers.

Do not leave sets opened for later. They will close, someone will take over or they will leave. Demonstrate disinterest way more subtly than leaving the set physically for extended time.

When you go blank, just share it. Wouldn't it be fun if I had said to the girl in a joking manner: 'Wow, I am absolutely blown away and don't know what to say... Can you add anything to this?... Really I am stunned... Marry me ;) ... How can we continue this? ... OK, when I become conscious again I will text you... Bye'

Also, do not wait for a perfect situation to approach. Approach rough - even from behind, even with a rough touch to get attention. Opportunities vanish so fast and forever!

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FR: TUG-OF-WAR FOR A GIRLFRIEND

To remind me of my ACFness I get minicrushes all the time. Take any better than an average-looking chick, have her give me a couple of smiles, touch me up and then abruptly leave and you have me hooked. Cat-string theory reversed. I turn into a guided missile. Target locked. That is what happened this weekend. It was not a straightforward game due to many external obstacles but rather a series of brief encounters on the dance floor. It has however resulted in great kino - tho sort of you would do casually with your girlfriend - holding hands and hugging. I felt all that needed to be done was 5 minutes somewhere quiet to build emotional connection and k-close. She never gave me the time and left despite me trying to physically stop her. How needy! I hope and believe it was just because she was so shy not because she would not want to take this further. Her friend was not helping - firstly she would not let me talk to her, later she would force me to kiss her. I seriously lack understanding of people's motives. Their behaviour often seems erratic and illogical to me. Understanding thereof is first and foremost what I am in the Game for.

I am making progress however. I opened a couple of girls in the course of the night which is an achievement compared to coutless of night without a single approach. I am way more chatty and entertaining than I used to be. The difference is the art of flirting. The explanation for serious-topics-only nerds like me is chatting about utter rubbish (suggesting she is stripper when she removes her winter jacket), blowing it out of proportion (I've got some moves too, we could do a show together) and firing pre-prepared bogus answers to her questions (e.g. I am a professional hopscotch player... I get invited to VIP children's parties).

NEXT STEPS

Get the numbers in. Chat to dozens or girls not single digits. Don't cling to certain girls, spread your 'portfolio'.

Expand your collection of funny remarks, bogus answers and funny topics to talk about.

Set quantitative goals with deadlines.

Cheers guys
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 Post subject: Re: Unleashing the BEAST
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FR: The first date since learning the Game

There she was. A lone girl. It was daytime and I was out practising my approaches. I hesitated a bit. Her hair and body was decent but I could not see her face. 'Relax, perhaps she is ugly. If so why bother.' my rational brain was humming. I watched her from afar until she noticed me. Now I had to approach. Thanks to the Game I made two things differently: Firstly I told her an interesting fact about the area in an animated and entertaining manner and followed up on that with texts. Secondly I approached her. She responded well, gave me her number. I fired a text next day suggesting we meet. She agreed and was sweet about it. My head started spinning and I started imagining a perfect date. I am such an AFC.

As soon as we met I started rolling leaving no space for initial awkwardness. Situational comment + DHV, opener, a game/bet, story, getting to know each other, more DHVs, emotional connection building games, push - pull. She loved it and I felt like the ultimate dating machine. That is what happens when you accumulate tons of material without using it. She commented that I must do something with people because I am really good with them. That struck me - THIS was the first time I was good with people! Hours flew by in an instant. I changed venue and started escalating.

But not all was roses. She was a shy girl and I was the dating machine. The contrast was too stark. I entertained her and demonstrated heaps of value but failed to build comfort. I found it difficult to do kino and her body was closing off. Towards the end her arms were crossed most of the time and she was fidgeting. I went for Style's evolution phase shift anyway with perhaps too much talking. Even a freeze-out failed.

All in all it seems I made a great friend where a hug is the limit.

Lessons learned: Cut it short! Talk less, listen more! Do not regress in sarge (bringing up an opener during escallation phase). Remain more mysterious about yourself - do not give much detail about myself until she asks and even then be rather brief in answering. Work on the Style's evolution phase shift - it was far from perfect.

What I am confused about:
How to build comfort? How to open her up?
Was I not genuine/needy/outcome dependant?
How to steer the conversation to sexual topics?

Any help welcome, guys.

Cheers
Beast :twisted:
Hi Beast,

The way I look at it is like this.

You are not there to (directly), demonstrate value or show her that you are cool, or get to know her or build a connection or anything like that.. you are there to FUCK her.

Your verbal game by this one short report looks amazing. Polarize her more, make her feel like you are going to pull her into the nearest broom closet at any moment. She should feel that you are a sexual threat.

On a practical level: slow down, more eye contact; give her the 'Judgmental eyes', less focus on fun and positivity, more dominance, be the BAD dude, whisper in her ear, more SENSUAL/dominant kino, pick her up (literally), move her to another part of the bar. Be the silverback gorilla.

Assume that escalating = demonstrating value. Don't focus on stories or games or stuff like that, not that it's bad but it doesnt help her get wet. You just become that interesting friend as you discovered today. Polarize her into either fucking you or you leaving her.

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PostPosted: Sat May 23, 2015 1:44 am 
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Hi Beast,

The way I look at it is like this.

You are not there to (directly), demonstrate value or show her that you are cool, or get to know her or build a connection or anything like that.. you are there to FUCK her.

Your verbal game by this one short report looks amazing. Polarize her more, make her feel like you are going to pull her into the nearest broom closet at any moment. She should feel that you are a sexual threat.

On a practical level: slow down, more eye contact; give her the 'Judgmental eyes', less focus on fun and positivity, more dominance, be the BAD dude, whisper in her ear, more SENSUAL/dominant kino, pick her up (literally), move her to another part of the bar. Be the silverback gorilla.

Assume that escalating = demonstrating value. Don't focus on stories or games or stuff like that, not that it's bad but it doesnt help her get wet. You just become that interesting friend as you discovered today. Polarize her into either fucking you or you leaving her.
Thanks, Hisoka. You nailed it. Acting sexually is what I lack for sure. I find it however hard to grasp still. Most of the girls I deal with are that sort of unexperienced shy girlfriend material. I feel that if I do not build enough comfort first I cannot be sexual.

Also what I do not understand is why you say I am not there to demonstrate value. I had couple of interactions where I opened and went straight into this confident 'so who the hell are you mode' asking questions like 'Tell me something interesting about you.' or 'Are you adventurous?' expecting her to start qualifying herself. Never did the girls put much effort into answering my questions. I even got: 'I am not interesting.' couple of times.

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FR: FINALLY SOME ACTION

Frustration has been piling up the whole week. The Game took over my life. Not out of enthusiasm from successes but out of frustration from failures. It is now my full time job to read, write, think about and practice the Game. I always wondered why flies roam so aimlessly. Well, just like a fly I now buzz endlessly around town locating anything of a female nature. Still often without a word uttered.

Nightgame sucks. Loud music shatters my verbal game into pieces. But it has to be done. Bars and clubs are wild mating lairs. Friday night it is. Build-up frustration transformed into motivation. Neediness is sky-high. Let's do it:

B4
First bar. A girl (4) opens me at the bar. The conversation is pleasant. I eject.

With hindsight I should thank her for triggering a missile.

HB8
I zoom over to a lone peacocked HB8 and chat her up about wherebouts she is from with a couple of jokes. Her male friend interrupts with a drink for her soon. I turn to talk to him but leave them to it soon after. Am I a chicken? Should I wrestle him for her? At least I should have asked how they know each other. Perhaps there was a chance. I'll never know.

B6
I pat her on the back. Nothing. I pat her harder. No response. I grab her and turn her around. Finally! She (6) fires a interview question right after my Hi. I then get carried away talking about my favourite sport and we part ways. I did not hook her. And I wonder if I really wanted. If I do I have to lead the conversation. Have a few topics at hand.

B7
I am practicing letting loose on the dancefloor as I exchange glances with two girls next to me. We did a little dance and one of them jumped around my neck. Her friend was pushing us towards a kiss. I did not comply. That is cheap. She smiled and left her friend (7 but slightly chubby) hanging on me. We danced, I made her laugh, she particularly enjoyed groping my abs and pecs and told me she was in town for just one night. Kiss window opened widely. This was 3 minutes into the interaction. Perhaps I would be up for it if I had to work hard to get her. I let her loose on the dancefloor and soon she was in arms of another bloke. Good for her.

Missile finds its targets but never blows up.

Another club is still only half full. It will fill up soon. 'Just get comfy and warm up in the meantime.'

B5
I approached one girl (5) and let it slip into boring interview. I think my scripted routines are too long for a club approach and a bit childish but this sort of interview is no better - tedious and dull! Let's be rather a bit childish!

HB8
I reatreated to the dance floor and bumped into a super-cute HB8. Within seconds into the conversations I imply she is 'pretty'. Damn, beginner mistake! Of course she chuckles, thanks me and leaves. Not only I hate the choice of the word - 'cute', 'decent looking', 'not ugly' would go down much better - but if I had to compliment I would on something very specific. On top of that this was a situation begging for a neg not compliment.

HB7
Moments later I am working on this aloof HB7. It takes a lot of bossing her around as she is so passive. I make her dance, drag her out to talk and squeeze words out of her. She seemed to be comfy in my presence but did not particularly seek it. I push for isolation as she tends to bounce back to her boring friends who are having no fun. She did not take my offer to change venue and leaves home with her friends. She was not 'in the mood' according to her friends.

As a little intermezzo in the previous interaction I came to rescue one lone cutie (6) from boredom. She was grateful and I managed to pull a few tricks and games to hook her. She too left with her friends but hugged me and there was regret in her eyes as she was leaving. This girl I should have number closed even though she was in town for just one more day.

All in all, finally some action. -> Self-pat on the back.<-

LESSONS
- Speak the hell up! Everytime you have to repeat the opener, which is a bad way to start. Say Hi to get attention first.
- Compliment girls 5-7 more than you do, 8-10 less than you do.
- Make girls feel good about themselves, you tend to neg too hard. (my insecurity?)

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Also what I do not understand is why you say I am not there to demonstrate value.

confused Beast :twisted:
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Good question.

I said you are not there to DIRECTLY demonstrate value.

In other words, you not talking to her for the sake of making her like you.

You want to get to know her.. see if shes cool, if theres chemistry, and you want to fuck her.

Demonstrating value is just the consequence of that.

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