Any thoughts or opinions are great. Tear my game to shreds. Idgaf. Ive read the mystery method, halfway through the game, and watched tons of seminars on youtube (obsession?) I'm trying to learn.

Today, I went to a gym, planet fitness, (black card) that I'm not a regular at. I go to this location aprox. 3 times a month. I rolled up with a game plan. I was going to use a standard opinion opener, "I need a female opinion, a girl just texted my friend. The issue is that he dated her sister around 2 yrs. Ago. They don't live together. Do you think this is alright?" I warmed up with the hired guns at the front desk. 1 male fc and 2 females scale:6.5 and 7.5. I used body rocking, time constraint. Blah.Blah.Blah. Jokes. Good mood. Great. I'm warm.

I then approached a HB she was a solid 8.7. Used the say opener. Time restraint. "I'm really busy, gotta get this cardio out of the way..." It worked pretty brilliantly, she was emotionally effected with a disgusted face and said no way, and peppered me with questions. "Did my friend meet the parents? Was it serious?I would never want my sisters sloppy seconds. I used body rocking and a back turn and she took a step to follow me. IOI, (cha-ching) She even called her friend from across the room to come over and assist in the debate. I told the story again to the friend, (who I tried to pay particular interest in). The consensus was " No, its not OK. I slung a shotgun neg to the target "those sneakers (solid bright pink) are cool, but they draw way to much attention." HB says, "thank you" with a smile. Used another False time restraint and continued with another story, then left and did cardio. As I was on the cardio machine I tried to pay little attention to her and watched mystery's Hollywood project on YouTube. More of her friends came and I could hear them continually debating over the 2 sisters opener. IOI?

So here are my questions. I came out empty handed, but I feel like I planted a seed and could approach and chat with her next time I see her at this gym. Is this ideal? How do you handle pickups at spots that you frequently go to? Is it better to time bridge these interactions and not rush to close? I'm sure to see her again in the future, kino escalation and compliance tests are the next step. Any ideas?

Good job hooking the set and giving that slight neg on her shoes. I'm not a big fan of opinion openers, especially if they are not real and could come off incongruent, but they could work. No matter, what opener you use though, you need to transition into a regular conversation quickly and start building commonalities with her and have her qualifying herself to you.

Next time you see her, go situational and then start qualifying her. Find something fun she likes to do outside of the gym and plan an activity around that and go for the number. Have her text you for the number close so she starts investing first and just remain light and playful over text and solve logistics for the day 2.

_________________
Elevate Your Game | Check out my blog for attraction and dance floor game advice!
willedward.com
-> PM me for Coaching and Personal Training <-

Thanks Will. Do you think it was an error ejecting from the set? Is it better to number close during the initial set? Or, if your in a position where your likely to cross paths again, escalating more slowly?

You didn't do anything that blew yourself out. I always go for a number at a high point in the interaction on the first meet in case you guys don't see each other again, but it's no big deal if you see her again and just get her number then after building some more rapport.

_________________
Elevate Your Game | Check out my blog for attraction and dance floor game advice!
willedward.com
-> PM me for Coaching and Personal Training <-