Target: I have to do at least 1 direct approach every day for 30 days in a row.
I will also do many indirect approaches but I will not count them unless I get a long conversation going.
Day 1 18/09/2015
Shots taken: 1
Today I was being a pussy, I backed out of so many good opportunities. And the one approach I did do, I ran away as soon as she hooked.
Target for tomorrow: stop being a pussy.
Day 2
Shots taken: 2
Today I didn't back out of as many, but I took to long to get to them. The only 2 I did approach I took ages to approach and was lucky they didn't go into any shops. I wait to long for the perfect opportunity where no one is around. I am hoping after 30 days I won't care who is around.
Neither of the approaches went well, both the girls tried to get out of the conversation as soon as possible, I felt I did well to not run away until they did
Target for tomorrow: approach faster.
Day 3
Shots taken: 7
Today I was being a pussy for 1 hour, I kept walking up to girls and backing out at the last minute. Then I approached a hot girl and that changed everything, after that I didn't care. My last approach, I did infront of people and didn't care that they were watching, the girl told me someone just said the exact same thing to her but I stould there and ploud through. I ended up taking her on an instant date. I hope this means I will always be in state now.
Target for tomorrow: approach faster.
Day 4
Shots taken: 4
Today I came across a herdel. What to do when it is raining? There was much less women in the street and the ones that were walking fast and not stopping. I struggled for my first 2 wich took me hours and went no where. Then I had an ok one. Then my last approach was the best I ever did. The italian girl told me she will not come for cofee or give me her number because she had a boyfrined, at this point I would usulay leave but I kept trying. 20 mins later we were in costa together
. and she gave me her facebook. So far I feel just as much approach anxiety as before, but once I am in set I feel much more comfortable and don't feel that need to run away any more
.
Target for tomorrow: approach faster.
Day 5
Shots taken: 3
Although 3 approaches doesn't sound like a lot, I really feel like even my aa is dispaearing. The first approach the girl was in a rush so nothing happened. But I didn't need to linger outside for very long, as soon as I went out there, I approached the first girl, I was going to go direct with no warm up. Then I went and studied for an hour. Then as soon as I went outside again to apporach, I did so. A turkish girl was giving me nothing to work with but I didn't leave. Then the 3rd time I suggested we go for a cofee, she finally came. Because I was with her for a while, I didn't do any more approaches for the next hour, I had studying to do. Then I felt like finally I could approach anyone, so I missed loads of oppertunities because I wanted to make sure the next one I dowas one that I am usually scared of. Usualy if the women is english or really hot I back out. So I saw one and approached, she was stunning but it turns out she was austrian. Still I felt no different then if she was ugly, my brain is finally working around hot women
. finally after 1 year!
Day 6
Shots taken: 5
today I was a happy man. I realized that I hardly had any aa and I spend much less time lingering around waiting to approach. My third approach got me an instant date. So tha'ts 4 days in a row now. I was a happy man for hours until I realized. EVERYONE OF THEM FUCKING FLAKED!!!! unfucking beleivable!
Target for tomorrow: approach faster.
Day 7
Shots taken: 2
today there wasn't many girls out to start with. Then as soon as I would spot one and start to follow, she would go in a shop due to my slow walking. After this happened 3 times in a row, I felt like my aa was coming back. Then after a long long time I finally approached, I said the whole “I saw you and I thought you like nice” thing then realized I am talking to an old women so I ajected as soon as possible. I went back in to my cofe shop and a turkish girl I instant dated 2 days ago was there so I had cofe with her. I thought she must think I am following her. Then a long long time later I finally went in for my second approach, I walked along side with her and tapped her on the shoulder, the woman litteraly screamed in the middle of a busy street. Everyone there looked at me. I have had women jump before but not like this. Then my aa felt even worse. After this I started to feel demoralized, like all this work and I am getting no where, so I started to walk home. Then suddenly I bumped into that same turkish girl again, I convinced her to come walk with me around for a while. Then I told her lets meet up tommorow and she seems up for it, so they may not have all been flakes after all
. also later that night another girl finally messaged me
. I was getting worked up for nothing.
Target for tomorrow: approach faster.
Day 8
Shots taken: 1
Today I was having a date with the same turkish girl, so I only wanted to do a quick approach to not loose the challenge. As I only had one hour to approach, I knew I had to fast or it would all be for nothing. This made me approach the first women I see. I wish everyday I had such an excuse to push me. Anyway now I am waiting for this girl.....
later that night: Wow that girl was amazing. She wouldn't fuck me because she is still a virgin but she has mad me so horny that I feel my balls are about to explode.
Fuck the 30 day challenge!
Fuck the game!
I am in love!
Game over
CHAT
