I know this girl for a year now and initialy I wanted to date her , she didn't have a bf and she wasn't ready on having one . Eventually time has passed and I started convincing her that she needed a boyfriend ( myself in mind of course ) . Now she met this guy and she keeps telling me that she wants him to be her first . The pain can't go away .I just feel like crying , I just can't cut her off . In essance I am a nice guy and she tells me practically everything so she is pretty attached to me . But I just can't stop thinking about this .. I wanted to be in his place but I am just not what she wants ..How can I get rid of the pain ?

Stop convincing her. It doesn't work.

Also, stop leaving threads open and never closing them:

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I know you're being annoyed by me, but the fact is, you making these friggin threads every week by talking about your problems, brushing them under the carpet, then making more problem threads and doing the same again and again and not actually tackling them

You got some decent advice on this thread: post926867.html#p926867 and you just completely ignored my post entirely.

You haven't even kissed a girl and yet you're going around convincing girls to have boyfriends. To be her boyfriend why don't you try gaming them?

If you learn basic game, you will know to do this. What are you doing? Seriously? At least follow a structure or something, instead of winging it. What a nightmare

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Look the other threads are different subject and no I am not ignoring them , in fact I 've been rejected numerous times since those threads . I'LL update those when I notice I am doing something wrong or I get it right . Now for this thread I have gamed her before , I've done all the routines i know or used to know on her . My kino got rejected by her on so many occasions and yes even the touching the arm kino . This girl got me thinking that maybe the rich guys ( she wants to date a rich guy btw ) and hot guys do get all the woman and eventually game isn't realy a sure fire way of getting everyone . I 've started looking up nlp ..

My lord, it's the same girl isn't it...

It's been a year bro, perhaps that is a good reason why she is rejecting your kino. You have just done the cube on your friend and passing it off as game.

Get in the trenches dude, you're wasting time with these girls that you know. Use strangers to really hone your pick up skills. It is the key for you.

You are an orbiter. She isn't interested in you. I am afraid 'game' doesn't get you any girl. Don't believe the marketing.

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No not the same girl . I don't talk to the one I just did the cube on anymore .I did read her hand , did the strwberry field routine , tried the cube , tried an nlp where I evoke her emotions when she meets a hot guy , shook her hand and explained the trust routine to her , tried the vin dicarlo escelation lader on her and the only time I physically escelated is when we were hiking and she was exhausted . I tried the one where act all exited and funny at the same time I forgot the name of the routine . Really if you have any other thing I can try be my guest , I am convinced I tried to game her .

Do all this on more girls.

Again, you're thinking game is this magic that get's you any girl that you use it on. It's a numbers game and you haven't put in the volume required for doing so. You have to do this on hundreds of girls to develop any sort of consistency.

The most important thing is that you made your move, you did all you could, now keep doing it till you find a girl that digs it. That will be more fruitful for you for sure instead of making a thread per girl that rejected your move.

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1. Stop relying on ONE woman for your validation
2. Talk to other women

Problem solved
You can. Stop being a pussy.