The night started around 22:45. Me and my buddy started walking to a dance bar in which to friends were. We arrived around 23:00, danced a bit, drank a bit. While dancing I got two numbers with the line "you're pretty cute, so I had to come over and talk to you" if they smiled or showed authentic appreciation you just go "look, I have to go back to my friends but give me your number and we'll hang". Anyway, we switched bars and while walking to the second one I jumped in a bar that had salsa night, went over to an HB7.5 who was sitting at the bar and asked "wanna teach me how to dance" followed by some small talk about her being a dancing teacher and wanting me to come down to her studio to learn how to dance. I ended it with the line "Actually I dont really want to know how to dance, I am trying to hit on you, so can I get your number?" And she gave it to me!
Last interesting encounter was at the third bar. When you go in there's a stage where people sit and it's a bit higher then the rest of the bar. I saw aome girl up there amd did the firat line, she gave me her number and saved her self with the name "mystery". After half an hour I texted her "I wanna solve the mystery, and I have 1% battery left" ( when I reached home and plugged my phone I saw she texted back "let's solve it, what's your name "), sovI went up to her and she told me she have a bf, I answser "I have a goldfish who doesn't like when I talk to girl, but I just don't tell him" we talked a bit afterwards but nothing helped and I had to go but she said that if they'll break up she'll text me.

So that was my night out and I think it was successfull enough for the firat time in months.
I have a two goals after that night: 1. Kiss someone. I just cant get toctje point from taking the number and kissing her.
2. Get self confident without drinking.

Anyone who have tips I would gladly try them (and post the results)

SunChimp

Hey superstar,

First of all congrats on a great night there. Well done you! It definitely get's easier and easier from there on out. It feels like your well on your way to elevating your game.

On Kissing:
When you isolate to escalate it's a great opportunity to initiate touch. To often we are sitting next or with a hot girl and the idea to go into kissing her is there - yet how do we start. If we just go straight in the is a higher chance she would reject it. So the best way that generates a deeper connection + sexual connection is to initiate and escalate touch. You do this based on her acceptance of each escalation. Build up to her lip's and she will start to get turned on more deeply for you.

As your aiming for her lip's the face is really sensitive - to transition easily you can start with a more sensual part of her body that is close to her face - her hair. When you take her hair ( gently ) you can say "wow your hairs so soft" just lightly then go back to what you where doing before. So it's just put in there without making it in any way the main event. Then if she accepts it you have a green light ( green to escalate further ).

What your doing her is 2 things: your escalating the pleasure of her being touched by you - your also escalating and progressing the sexual tension between you both. Getting used to sexual tension means you can re-create it on the fly when ever you want. Bonus!

This is just an example. I would actually put more levels within the escalation - like starting with hugging, use it as a challenge - "something that's really important to me with all my friends is that they all have to be good huggers... So if I was to rate you on a scale of 1-10 what would it be?" She will usually say 10 - so you respond: "A 10! Alright I gotta see this 10 hug..." then you hug her, say: "actually that's not so bad about a 7.6", let me show you what a 10 hug feel's like..." Then you give her an awesome 10 hug - it's outside the scope of this reply to talk about that; I'm sure you can do that super well ninja!

So you've broken the touch barrier then you can move to her hair, also smell her hair as well - this is really primal for her. Compliment her on the smell as you do so slow down your voice so it's super smooth and deep. Lean in further and whisper in her ear - this is hyper tender and sensitive; if she's already accepting your touch to this point it's all green light's bro. Then what you whisper is something like: "There's something I've been wanting to do for a while now...", she will most likely ask what - then you gently slide over and kiss her.

Why this works:
A) your building up to gradually so she can feel the sexual tension herself
B) your giving her the chance to qualify her touch with you sexually
C) your generating a hyper kino ( or intimate ) vibe between you to

If you want to maximise this further - let yourself feel totally horny at the same time.

That's a start anyways.
To be honest sounds like your getting this handled so well already. Look forward to hearing more successful night's from you!

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Elliot Rey
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