This field report is nothing special and I'm writing this just so I can see what happened this weekend in my archive of field reports. I attached a video, you see Rince open a set and I wing him, to this FR so any feedback on subcommunications and body language would be appreciated.

Friday 3/21
In my FR "Blue Balls Hurt" I met this cougar, 32, who I had great sexual chemistry with and failed to pull a SNL. We texted back and forth during the week and I made her come to the same club again so we could meet up. This time, I wanted someone to occupy the obstacle who prevented me from pulling. So D would take on this job for the night. Well, he didn't have to because I found out that she was rollin' that night and she couldn't handle it. Yeah, one obstacle less, but cougar came with 2 other female friends which had to be taken care of. Anyway, my plan was to ABS (always be in set) and whenever cougar would see me, I would be in set. I wanted to create a jealousy plotline and see how far I could take it. I was willing to lose her to experiment with this.

So yes, I was ABS and at the beginning I made sure she saw me in set by looking over at her group. STUPID. The obstacle glansed over and we had eye contact for a little bit, I got caught. I brushed it off and kept talking to this lonewolf. Sometimes I really underestimate how social savvy women are, they really are social intelligent. DO NOT UNDERESTIMATE THAT! They see everything and have this built in radar for this shit. After I realized that, I stopped from looking over and just kept opening sets. She definitly saw me in a few sets and I hoped that made her jealous.

Then I see her group and walk over, greet her and try to win over her friends. We went to the dancefloor and I triangular gaze her, she is licking her lips so I mimic her. I went 90% and the she pulled out, "I can't do this, you're too young" and then I just left her on the dancefloor. Good idea? I think so, she wanted it but somehow her logic came in and pulled her out. So I just left hoping that she would feel this fear of loss. Turns out to be....

I reopen her later with some IOD and then I go in again for the kiss.

Cougar: If I was a few years younger, I would be all over you.
SS: Come here [pull her body against me]
Cougar: You're too young, by at least 10 years
SS: Sssshhhh [put my index finger on her lips]
[makeout]

Everytime before we kissed me, she always reminded me that I'm too young for her. What's the logic behind this? She wants plausable deniability? As if it just happened? I kept seeing this as a congruence test and I ignored the question and just kissed her. After several makeouts she stopped saying that and started sucking my neck again. I love that.

Once a while I would eject "to look out for my friends" and open some other sets. I didn't want to be around her the whole night, I still wanted to practise. After some more sets, I came back and we sat down at a bench next to her friends. We kissed some more and then her hands went down in my pants. She grabbed my dick and started stroking, but my jeans were so tight that she couldn't work it. At the same time, I put my hands on her pussy and start stroking it, not down her pants but just with her jeans on. This happened while everyone could see us with the lights above us. Oh well, it felt good.

She told me that I should drive her home tonight; I could have pulled that night. But there were some problems with this, logistically. Also, I drove Maui so I couldn't leave him behind with no one to drive him home. Also, I wanted to play it safe. If I would drive her home, we had to walk 10 blocks first to get to my car and then driver another hour, at least, before we were at her place. In my mind, I don't think I could have kept her BT that high for that long. I played it safe and made plans with her to see her the next day at her place.

Saturday 3/22
Me and cougar texted back and forth about setting up a dinner and movie at her place. Turned out, she was overworking and was too tired at the end of the day to do something. So I just texted her to relax and I would go out with my buddies. Then few minutes later she would back saying I should hang out with her at this lounge. Too bad, I already made new plans. Also, she thinks I'm 21 while I'm not. So she assumes that I can get into bars and stuff, while I can't. Now this sucks when you lie about your age. I should told her I'm 20, what difference does one year make! No more lying about my age from now! Also when I tell her the truth right now, she will probably freak out. Hmmm, dilemma. I want to close her first and then tell her about it down the road. We'll see.

With the cougar in my mind the whole day, I went out with my brain stuffed with scattered thoughts. I wasn't really focused that night so my sets were so-so. I kept running sets and tried to do most of them without a wing, just to see how far I can get while I'm not feeling it. It actually went really well and I could handle 4+ sets really well for at least 10 minutes. I practiced a bit story telling, something I'm pulling off quite well I think. I try to talk emotionally more now instead of logic while at the same time talking slow. It's lethal.

I did have one kiss with a girl who had a boyfriend for 6 years. I just kept push-pulling, false dq-ing myself and negging her in front of her friends. When I mini-isolated her I ran my stack and started grounding. I kino escalate and she reciprocates, so to me that was a good compliance test. We keep talking and she then mentions her bf, I ignore, and keep talking about myself. I love talking about myself, I'm so interesting Then I ran robotlove's k-close routine.
[during comfort story]
SS: WHAT?! Are those eyelashes fake?
HB: No!
SS: Lemme see, close your eyes.
[makeout]

I ejected out of all sets that I ran without a wing just so I could open some more sets and practise my push-pulls, negs, and new kino routines. I could have #closed several sets and I should have just for the sake of closing. Especially since I never #close in front of groups, I always do it in isolation. I will have to do this next time in field and find out how this works out.

Oh yeah, I love my new Hello Kitty necklace. It's money and I get opened with it a lot. You can see it here below. Also I'm winging Rince and I would love to receive some feedback on that.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TTUDvjB2eN4[/youtube]

Happy Easter.

Good stuff all around man, seems like you've got some pretty tight game.. In the vid, you occupied the obstacle and allowed your friend to get the target's attention to him so you did your job. Now, what was that little hand game that you played at the end to lock your self in? I might have to try that if your willing to let me in on the secret

When looking back at the video, I should have kino'd more and uncrossed her arms.

As far as the lockin shake goes, it's a pirate handshake robotlove showed me one time.
ROOT: Do you have many nieces/nephews?
I have a lot of them and you know how little kids can always teach you really cool things? Like today she showed me this pirate handshake. Go like this...
ROUTINE:
You make a circle with your thumb and index finger, lock hands, (spin if you want to lockin like I did, not necessary), both people close one eye, look into the circle, and say "haarrrrrr"

When she laughs, "Thank you 8-year-old niece" and clap your hands to see if she mimic's it. It's a little test to see if it created attraction/rapport, because when you do have that people mimic each other's body language.

Wow...Good video...Your BL was good, thats how i opened my first 5 sets when I went clubbin, over the shoulder and looking away..

But yeah good shit...Lol and the obstacle you were occupying mimic'd you and clapped right after you did, thats good...ooh and I Love your priate handshake, im definitely stealing it...Thanks!