I've been really trying to work on approaching lately. I used to have bad AA so I just been saying "fuck it" and going for it lately. I've noticed it's getting a lot easier, so I'm making progress. Last night I saw this this hot girl in the restaurant I work at. She was so hot, I normally wouldn't even have approached her, but I said "fuck it" She was surprisingly really receptive! She just moved to the small town I live in from Miami. We talked for 10 min or so(good convo) so I said "We need to hang out sometime. Give me your number and I'll give you a call" at first she said "ok" but before she gave it to me, she said "give me your number" where did I go wrong? How do you come back from the dreaded "just give me your number" reply?

Not all girls are sexually available.

Because you have a commonality, does not give you access to a sexually unavailable girl.

This is a numbers game. A girl around the corner could dying for someone like you to ask for her number (sexually available) Find those girls instead. I know it's tedious especially when you meet some chicks that are on the same wave length. But you never know, they might be happy with their situation and she doesn't need anybody new in her life at that moment no matter how cool you are.

This is life. This dating. This is how it goes i'm afraid.

Never get your hopes up on women. Especially before the 1st date. Do what you did on a daily business. You will get girls that dig you eventually. If it takes 50 women for 1 girl awesome girl. Then so be it. Put in the time, understand the numbers game.

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