Hey there,
So 2 days ago I was out working on a festival (I cook spaghetti) when I meet this really hot girl. In my break I go up to her and talk for a bit, we go get beer and have quite a lot of fun. I then go in for the #.
Me: Hey, 2 questions, 1: Do you have a boyfriend?
She: Ehhm, noope (kinda hesitant)
Me: Okay next, what's your #, I'll text you and we'll go hang together sometime
She: Hmmm risky... (very playful, I guess playing hard to get)
Me: Okay, you can do two things. It's a fact you're going to give your number, the question is what you do afterwards.;
Me: 1. You respond to my texts and we have very kinky messages
She: Very sexy laugh out loud
Me: 2. You block me, and then you won't be able to get free spaghetti anymore
(this was a joke, and she knew it was, she could also get free spaghetti from other workers there)
She: Well alright
*** reading up her number, she took real long pauses between every set of numbers like she was overthinking everything while handing me the number and she was unsure whether she should give it.
She did seem happy though, had a smile but she might've been 'ashamed' towards her coworkers for giving out her number. (they were not directly there, but they could've heard it, atleast one did.)
So I stay a bit longer to talk with her, and also with her coworker (HB7) and then move off. When leaving I gave her coworker a hug, and her just a playful handshake and spin her around.
I was kinda proud of this approach, it was very leading, very confident etc, and well, she was hot af
Next day I text her.
Me; Hey I'm robbing a bank tonight and in search for a partner, are you in?
She: Too bad, tonight I'm counting my salary because this girl will be on holiday tomorrow. You'll have to look for another partner.
Me: Well you got that wrong there, your salary will be in my pocket tonight. I'll have to send some other girl to you.
She: Shit, I hope I'll still have my money tonight
Then I didn't reply, to wait her out and see when she'd text me again. Texting her would come across as needy. Turned out she never texted me again in the 2 days, might be because she's going on holiday, but it's not what I was hoping for. 19/20 girls I opened and #-closed would've re-initiated the convo after keeping quite, this is a test for me to see if they're into me. This girl apparently is not (or has a strong game aswell).
What do you think guys? She's single, I had a very confident and leading approach, but yet it (probably) won't work out. What're some flaws I made?
Kind Regards,
David
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