| This is kinda of a journal of sorts breaking down kinda what is going on since so much went down today you cannot help but thank Pick Up and where I have come. I mean srs!
Let's get started
Started out a Player and mostly at Church. I know I had the typical white picket fence dream of finding a Christian Wife. But because this was the only place I was meeting women I quickly became known as the creepy guy who hits on all the hot chicks or whatever.
This escalated and eventually the "chicks" got with the "guys" in Church to talk about nothing else but ME.
So my I had my biggest ever Church circle going in one congregation and about 5 guys and 5 gals some of who the chicks I was trying to get with. Well my guy friend who was an Usher came up to me and said and I will never forget his words because it potentially scarred me for life....
"The Girls don't want you talking to them, approaching them, or touching them."
DAYUM. It was like pwnage/epic fail/schooled like I had nothing. Like I mean total defeat. And total collapse of my social circle. All the guys abandoned me and of course the women avoided me. So I was stranded and this was at Church. The ideal place to meet a wife! I was outraged. So I was scarred for life. This pattern happened in other Churches too I felt very awkward about approaching women because of my bad reputation and bad experiences.
So against my best intentions I decided to let Church be Church but not a hookup joint. I haven't abandoned God nor do I blame him but however this event leaves me grief stricken and frustrated completely by Church Women, I see myself as having no alternative but becoming a Pick Up Artist. Not to thrwart God's Plan for my life but simply to make a life of my own. I mean hell if I have salvation already no point in trying to earn it. So I decided on nothing else but to meet women on "more mutual terms" in the Secular World ie anywhere where large numbers of bodies congregate.
Just so happens that included Bars, Clubs, Holiday Events, then so be it. I feel blameless because I already tried it God's Way and feel that I cannot be damned for that since that way is bunk or whatever.
Anyway.
Fast forward to today.
TOTALLY DIFFERENT STORY.
Still living out that same dream my friends. Leave Church for Church and meet women in the world. This is such a refreshing perspective let me explain. I go into Church and sh!t gets awkward quick like why the hell is this guy talking to me and makes a big scene with bunches of drama. However at a Bar for instance HB10's are approaching me now.
Let me say that again.
HB10's approach ME.
Yes me.
Total redemption man.
So here's my journal. It started out 3 years ago. I began approaching. I started the easy course and approaching 6's and 7's. Getting numbers was difficult! I got little to no progress year 1 mostly scouting where the most hot chicks seemed to gravitate towards and went to lots of different places to go scouting and just carried over that information to year 2. I guess I did okay but after getting to the 8's or whatever I got told "Go to the Gym you skinny little snot". I was doing push ups at this time I think but only about 155lbs. So then I finally decided to hit the Gym to kinda help my game. So I bumped up to about 165lbs pretty quick and my confidence shot up. 100 Approaches and 1 date.
Year 2 hitting the Gym helped me approach higher end targets. Went from playing around with 8's to approaching 9's. Approached my first 10 what a disaster. Complete and utter disaster. It was a set of 2 HB10's! I was ignored the whole time but never told to go away. AWKWARD.
So the 10's from the Bar that night changed me. They still to this day refuse to talk to me but I was studying them and they both love buff guys with tattoos. So what did I do? I got tattooed. I got a full sleeve and planning on a second. This is where the story gets interesting. Not only was my game getting better, my body getting buffed out, sleeved out, but my Inner Game was soaring at the same time with all the changes and reference experiences. My tattoos were looking kinda weird so had to get the sleeve finished.
Year 3 hit the ground running. Working on the sleeve and here we go. Got a handle on the 9's I mean 100% success rate when I "actually" try to close them. Had 6's and 7's regularly approach me. Got an HB9 GF after a K-close and N-close from a chick at the Club. That relationship lasted 3 months until I ENDED IT. ME. Because she wanted me to settle down. That's right I dumped her cuz I thought crazy as it sounded that I could do better! Like bag a 10! Boy was I on the money.
Year 4 barely began and my full sleeve is filled out now. 180lbs and the sleeve is random stuff but my next sleeve will be my redemption. What does my body/sleeve tattoos/gym/inner game do for me today? Not crediting ALL to the tattoos.
But been hit on 15 times this year alone! My bosses love my tattoos and just today one of my female bosses was marveling at my sleeve asking if I was finished I was like heck no I gotta do another sleeve and she was like whoa that sounds so awesome. Been approached by 3 10's in a row at the Bar I go to.
Had a creeper stalker chick HB7 who strait up tracked me down at work. She FB me, Emailed me, IG me just to get at me! Had 5 work GF's last year and promised myself I would never date anyone I work with and she totally orchestrated it all herself. She tells me all the time and even told me today she was/is creeping on me hard. I think she is obsessed she is snapchatting me, texting me, and emailing me like crazy. I think the new look has a lot to do with this and some of the confidence and Inner Game I have of course.
I haev 3 HB10 numbers I can use at disposal and might I say I can close 10's pretty easily now since I mostly deal with them they see me and go holy sh!t and say the tattoos make me approachable, say I am looking sexy as hell, these women man. They are obsessed with my tattoos!
Anyway after 8 months of rotating the hairstylist HB9 she called me today and told me strait up she is quitting, she called me on her cell so she dropped that hint big time give me a call boi, and was totally like setting this whole thing up for us to have a secluded relationship.
The Hairstylist told me she could never give me her number (I was only joking she should text me not actually asking) or she would get fired. So I thought for sure I was done. But I kept going to try and build intrigue and did I ever.
Do you have any idea how it feels to rotate some hot Hired Gun at a Hair Salon for 8 months having no contact with the outside world and her one day go.
"Jack PUA?"
"Yes"
"This is Moon Goddess from XYZ Salon I was super pissed when you got your hair cut from Jealousy Plotline."
"Yeah I knew you would be pissed."
"Well today is my last day and I am getting all my things but I was wondering if hopefully you would want to come with me?"
"Yeah totally"
"Great here is the name and location. AND I called you from my personal cell so you can call me if you have ANY QUESTIONS."
"Yeah cool see you soon."
I am very transparent with this woman, I tell her all the time I have multiple GF's and how I can pull 4 numbers a night. But to out of the blue be called up and have her go all creeper status on me that was an Oh Sh!t Moment for sure. Tell me this is not totally fixed. My question is would she have ever quit had we never met?!!!
So my progress has changed dramatically just through some simple decisions and changes I made. I sacrificed a lot for Pick Up so like Karma I am getting a ton of it back. Oh an an HB10 Sun Princess I am obsessed with me finally Snapchatted me back a crush I have had for 1.5 yrs since POF. She even got at me today and said she adores me! The HB10 with a mansion!
Like crazy right.
So the HB10 blocked me on POF so I got at her on FB and she blocked me there. Then I got REALLY far with her on IG and crashed and burned again and got blocked. All over the course of 1.5 yrs and then today on Snapchat she opened up like never before!
Because I have been blocked from her on so many avenues I decided just go all in. I confessed my love for her and told her she was the Queen of my heart and her words make me weak. No use in trying to be a tough guy with her she has eaten me alive for not being congruent! So I was feeling that way in the moment so I ran with it. So far no rejection!
Anyway all I am saying is Summer for me begans in June in a couple days so the progress from where I used to be and where I am today is like WOW. Got about 7 numbers I could call, text in a moment and get validation. Also and still going out. Until someone bangs down the door to my heart offering me everything I want in a woman I am going to play ball!
Lastly I used to never understand how to really juggle sets (oneitis) or juggle GF's (emotions) but now I juggled 3 chicks today like a boss and ready for more this weekend so my tactics have become very advanced and you can bet your ass I will back at the Bar approaching 9's and 10's or in this case of late having them approach me.....
Wrap Up
What I am saying is that in other words I have reached what I consider a state of abundance. Have 3 HB10's on hold. An HB7 from work uber creepin. Now the HB9 Hairstylist. Also I have Snapchat going with the HB10 Sun Princess from Snapchat.
Now like I said....
I hibernate in the Winter.
Warm up in the Spring.
And during Summer play ball!
Summer is in a few days for me starting in June when I UNLEASH THE FURY. Sh!t I barely been approaching/going hard. Chicks have mostly been creeping on me. Hell some chick was screaming she wanted to have my baby when I took my shirt off with all the muscles and tattoos came out all Hell Broke Loose in a good way. I got hit on 5 times in about 20 minutes!
So going into Summer I got a lot of steam. As I been saying this year is about the 10 which surprisingly I am seeing a lot of success with 10's having them approach me at the Bar and getting far on Snapchat. So sh!t is going good. This is why I love abundance because if one girl freaks out, flakes out, or goes AWOL I got girls in line and they get bumped up. In the Winter I am hard up because I am not dating or going out but that's the name of the game. But now that it is my time I think I am about to have my best year in Pick Up hell Summer hasn't even began and I am already having my best year so I think I am just gonna roll with the punches and come out swinging!!
Again no rules with the HB10's so I can say anything I want. Whether super creepy or super dumb as long as I am congruent it is okay but if I am regretting what I said then I failed.
I used to take 30 numbers to get a date.
30 numbers
1 date
Now?
Got 13 numbers last year and....
7 dates
5 GF's
I mean I am so successful I close less, approach less, but been getting hungry so anything is possible.
This year
5 numbers but these are all really really good numbers that all want to date me, be my GF and such so they are on hold till Summer then out comes the fun. I have about 5 chicks to take with me to the Brewery fest so I am sure I am not going to be lonely.
When I get a number now....
It is not even really about them flaking. It is about me flaking.
It is about me flaking. So when I do wanna talk I get way more validation. The way I am playing it the interest levels are so high they are like relationship levels even before the damn date. I mean like maybe too soon to say but the Cat is in the Bag Mate.
"The Girls don't want you talking to them, approaching them, or touching them."
I heard those words and cringed with every fiber of my being, I thought "It is over I am ruined. I will never have a GF it is impossible"
Then I began to rise from the ashes. Every time I closed a HB9 at the Club I was saying like see there I just did the Impossible! Now I am hunting Gazelles/HB10's my greatest challenge as a PUA Hunter. Let the games begin.
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