TODAY I DID SOMETHING THAT I HAVE NEVER DONE BEFORE IN MY ENTIRE LIFE.

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN MY EXISTENCE, I WENT SUPER HARDCORE DIRECT AND JUST FLAT OUT ASKED HER FOR SEX.

I CANNOT EVEN BEGIN TO DESCRIBE THE THRILL AND ADRENALINE PUMP THAT THIS DAREDEVIL SOCIAL STUNT GAVE ME.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mXO4pY6LvXU

What I learned most is this, "If you're not pushing yourself to the absolute limits, to do things that you've never done before, then you've never experienced life."

I could read her body-language and knew she wasn't interested. Once she told me she was busy I could tell that I would almost certainly not be able to recover and that's why I was like: might as well have some fun with it and ask her for sex. I was training myself to live outside my comfort zone. Plus when you ask girls for intercourse, - even if she says NO: she'll admire your brutal honesty and balls.

I spent sometime thinking about ways how I could have countered her "I'm really busy right now and can't talk response" and the best thing I could think of was "Oh I'm busy too..." then plow right away (to not give her a chance to object) with "Funny thing is you remind me of blah blah blah" or "I couldn't help but notice blah blah blah artistic vibe..."

here are some comments that i got from FB:

Why not push the limit with people you actually have a chance with? You had nothing to lose so it's not really "pushing the limit". Asking uninterested girls straight out, unless PROPERLY CALIBRATED, will not get you admiration, but more their disgust. What would show more balls would be to ask that of someone who actually may be interested.

Again, you shouldn't think about "countering". Said girl was obviously engrossed in whatever she was doing. You had little chance of breaking her state, and an even smaller chance of creating attraction. If there was anything you could have done to break her state, it would NOT be in the words you said, but by creating an attractive and confident energy that would suck her in to your state (pun not intended) and pump her emotions.

Again, it's great that you're approaching, but you definitely should be looking to actually escalate and be willing to get physical rather than just approaching for approaching's sake

You're an idiot. Pushing an interaction with someone who DOES NOT WANT TO INTERACT is harassment. If you had lead with the proposition, not giving her time to show interest or a lack thereof, fine. You're just acting stupid and justifying it after the fact. It's not bold, it's creepy. Learn 2 play.

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"No, walk around and talk to somebody else. I have a boyfriend."

Holy moly man, judging by this response, I think she actually may have been interested!

Good job man. Even though she said she was busy you stuck to your MO and got to the point.

Only thing you did wrong was believe that she did indeed in fact have a boyfriend. She could have been lying just to test you.

Next time respond with something like "I don't want your boyfriend, I want you" or "You can have 10,000 boyfriends and I will never apologize for what I want" and see if you can get a laugh out of that at least.

Are you blind? That's why I left.

lmao
Good point. I should have replied with a funny disqualifier - instead of taking it seriously. Next time, I'll say something "Oh no I'm not interested in a threesome."

She wasn't shit testing him. She simply wasn't interested.

99.9% of the time if a girl tells you to go away in a non-playful manner, she is serious and wants you to go away.

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I'm increasingly convinced that OP is mentally ill.
None of us can help him over an internet forum.

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I'm thinking it's just trolling...in which case he's a genius. If this stuff is real then...

I'd wager that she was interested. If she just said "no" or "no thanks" or "go away" after he asked if she would like to have intercourse then it would definitely mean she wasn't interested. However here it's not that clear cut.

You can actualy tell she was possibly interested before that as well when she told him her name. "I'm Sophie but I really don't want to talk to you right now". Why would she give him her name if she didn't want to talk to him? In fact, Boris could have implemented that into his response: "You just gave me your name but you don't want to talk to me?"
Depends. A stern "go away" or "fuck off cunt" or something like that then yes. In this case hard to say. Despite Boris thinking otherwise I actually think he was close to success in this approach, even more so after he plowed through and asked for sex.

We'll never know for sure though as he ejected too soon. This girl was pretty cold but I think her last statements were actually quite warm. If I had stepped into the OP's shoes as soon as she said "No, go walk around and talk to somebody else. I have a boyfriend" I would have definitely taken that as a "go" signal and tried to hang in there.

I talked to a pretty cold chick at the club the other night. After a bit of small talked she told me that she wanted me to leave as she needed her "space", and she kept saying that. At one stage I asked if I could get to the point to which she said "sure". So I told her that I was trying to figure out how to get into bed with her. She responded with "Well, that's not gonna happen" to which I said "Um, it might...".

Anyway, during that interaction I think she tried to get rid of me four times. Only on the last time it worked because I thought maybe that I could give her five minutes and then get back to her. When I left I actually said "Sure, I might talk to you later". Trouble was when the five minutes were up she already left.

She probably wasn't interested. I kicked myself a little bit for ejecting but I'm sure not what I would have said had I stayed at that point. Maybe I could have just shut up and stared at her or something.

The point is even though she told me to go away multiple times there was no harm in effectively ignoring her. I wasn't at any time aggressive.

Because women don't generally WANT to be rude. She gave her name, and to her that gives her a defense against anyone saying that she was a mean bitch. This guy needs to learn to not be a creep, and part of that lesson is learning that there isn't always a comeback or a smart-ass response to be had.

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So your example of a girl telling you "I"m not interested in you" and you "plowing" ends in her running away from you the moment she gets the chance, after you've wasted the entire night trying to win her over, when she was telling you the entire time, she wasn't interested.
Wouldn't it seem like a better idea to leave her alone and go talk to another girl, who may in fact be interested?

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+1

This persist/plough thing has fucked up people's game by wasting so much time. I wish I could delete that shit from the internet.

If a girl says maybe but she is giggling and you can tell that she likes you, by all means 'plough'

i just don't get guys when they are clearly being told to move on by an uninterested girl and yet they still waste their time.

There is a different between neutral and not interested girls. Baffles me but that people tend to go with the latter

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YES^

If people would learn to not waste time and to move on they would get laid a lot more often. Instead, they have this idea of some "master" pick up artist who can approach any girl and get them to wanna fuck. LOL, doesn't work like that.

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