If you want to skip the long story, my question after tonight is: How do you handle a girl who seemed interested at first, but then picked up a phone call and refused to talk to you after that point?

Tonight we hit up the MPD bars in NYC. My wing and I arrived around midnight and walked through the bar. We spotted a group of girls next to us, and one of them looked hot, so I told my wing to open them because they were closer to him. He opened with "Hey ladies I'm (name), and you are?" After the girls introduced themselves, he introduced me to them. A few minutes into the conversation, I started talking directly to the girl that I was interested in, and he started talking to the girl he was interested in. We ignored the friends after this point. My girl was a 21 yr old brunette undergrad student in a tight black cocktail dress with some amazing tits hanging out. His girl was a cute blonde with a less revealing dress, but she was obviously plastered and very receptive to his touch.
There was a foozeball table in the back, so we challenged the girls to a game of foozeball. We let the girls win the first game, and bought them drinks because they won. Then we talked again for a while. Later, we challenged them to another game, again betting on drinks. We won this time, and rather than buying us drinks, they disappeared downstairs to the bathroom. After we won the game, we gave them hugs and said they played well, but my brunette looked a bit disappointed. After waiting a minute, I walked downstairs to the bathroom, to find out that their friends were there waiting for them. The cute drunk girl was in the stall, and my sexy brunette was blabbing on her phone. I tried politely asking her "hey Kayla, I have a quick question for you." She proceeded to ignore me, even when I touched her to get her attention. Her friend told me that she was on the phone with her boyfriend. When the girls came back upstairs, they acted like they had lost interest in us and hopped in a cab.

I tried to keep this brief, and I left out a few details. My personal analysis of the night was that we started out strong, and the girls liked us for a while, but then they got bored. She was definitely into me after the first round of shots, because some other guys came over to hit on them, and after a few minutes she came back to me and asked her friend to take a picture of her with me. I acted confidently and in a challenging manner when I asked the girls to play against us, but I think I may have taken it too far when we won the game (because her reaction was disappointment, she was no longer having fun). I did not handle the girl talking on her phone correctly, there must be something that I could have done to get her off the phone and to focus on me.
In addition, I did not touch the girls enough. My wingman touched them more often than I did, and he did not receive any resistance. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I think non-resistance is equivalent to compliance.

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My #1 MONEY line to pull sets: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NkHjnZgCP18 (0:25)

Stop being "perfect." It's time to evolve.

Your question gives away a lot about where you currently are with women.

Allow me to explain:

If a girl you're hitting on loses interest... then ignores you while she's on the phone... then doesn't come back around after she's done on the phone... what you should NOT do is keep trying to win her back, show her more interest, talk to her again, or think about her for EVEN ONE MORE second.

And no, the reason I say that is not because doing any of those things is the best tactic for getting her to become interested in you again.

I say that because you should NOT GIVE ONE SINGLE FUCK about a girl who behaves this way. Let her go and then move on with your life.

You should not care about her at all after this point. She's not into you and at this point, almost nothing you could do will get her back (unless you have 10 inch cock that tastes like chocolate and cums diamonds... I think that might work haha)

Why waste your time worrying about some fickle, rude girl who most likely has a boyfriend?

Especially when there are way better uses of your time and mental energies.

Would you try to befriend a guy who you met and did that? Or would you hire someone who did that during a job interview? Of course not, because that person is an ASSHOLE.

Same thinking should apply here. Girls don't get some sort of pass on behaving rudely, or with entitlement, or whatever... just because they are hot. There are a lot of hot girls out there and every second you waste on an idiot like this is a second you're not finding one of the awesome ones.

The faster you learn to simply let thoughts, worries, and memories of girls and interactions like this blow away like sand in the wind... the faster you will get what you want when it comes to women, and life in general, because this is just a good stance of self-respect, nonchalance, NOT GIVING A FUCK, and having boundaries.

Sure, are there things you could have done PRIOR to the phone call that MAY have saved this? Of course.

Perhaps she was just in a fight with her BF and he called to apologize. Perhaps she was just feeling flirty and then felt guilty once she started talking to her BF. Perhaps she just does this to every guy.

A lot of this is out of your control. Stop worrying about it and just go hit on the next girl. Or hang out with your boy. Or go give a homeless guy on the street a sandwich. Or go home and beat off.

Really anything is better than worrying about how game could have gotten you a girl who is no longer interested in you. Because the truth of the matter is, it couldn't. It was out of your control.

Focus on what you can control in life, and let the rest slide away like water off your back. You'll be a lot happier, you'll worry less, and you'll bang many more hotter, cooler, easier-to-tolerate women.

(BTW - if any of this sounds harsh, it's not meant to be. I actually know exactly what you're going through. But the truth I found is that most guys will not take a lot of the difficult truths of game and life to heart unless you tell them with a little bit of tough love.)

agreed that she's rude and has an entitlement complex. I think the mistake occurred earlier though. In hindsight, the brunette seemed to lose interest after we won the game. Almost like she was butt hurt from losing. Then the phone call came and we were ignored. I believe that there was something I could have done earlier in the interaction to hook the girls in a better way. I'm just not sure how that should have been done.

Following up on your point, this was kind of an unusual set for me because we hung with them almost the entire night and they were especially hot. In normal circumstances I would say fuck it and move on to another set, but the bar was closing by the time these girls left.

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My #1 MONEY line to pull sets: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NkHjnZgCP18 (0:25)

Stop being "perfect." It's time to evolve.

It happens dude. Sometimes you put in hours of effort and get screwed. But like I said, it you get screwed and it's out of your control, so as Jay-Z would say... onto the next one. And sure, the bar might have been closing but when I say onto the next one, what I mean is just dismiss it and move on. The next one is coming, I can guarantee you that.

Sure... Maybe you could have consoled the friend or let them win or whatever... but honestly, who the fuck cares? She's a baby. Don't change who you are or how you behave to accommodate a baby. Be a fucking lion and live by your own rules.