So I don't really know how good the title of a topic is, but I will be writing my field reports here, from a view of a person being gamed and also a view of girl who games.

I will start with a yesterday night.

Me and my friend went clubbing to some club where mostly turbofolk and dancing music is played. There can be seen all kinds of people, young, old, poor, rich, etc. Basic female - male contact there goes this way: 1. guy asks a girl to dance with him, 2. girls go there to dance or party so they usually accept a dance, 3. guy buys drink to girl, 4. guy is not getting laid, unless they meet girl that went there to get laid. That is lame so most of guys end up buying drinks, girls getting drunk, and guys in best case end up with easy slut that have been fucked by everyone else there on previous party.
From all guys that asked me to dance with, i danced just with one...the one that didnt ask me, he came to me confidently, touched my hand and starting to dance with me. As soon as he started acting in a way wanting me to be naughty with him, i said: I have BF btw, and what he said back: So what, that is his problem, not mine or sth in that way. That is not even good bf destroyer, but he let me know he doesnt care, so good enough for me...no drama...Soon he got a chance to join me outside for cigarette so he didn't even have to care about how to get me private. Unfortunately another guy outside stole my attention, and he was standing by me there because he didn't react the right moment, and because he was less alpha then this cool guy who probably unconscionally used DHV. had great way of talking, and he didn't even give me the feeling that he wants something from me. He acted in friendly way making me comfortable.
I went back in with a first guy then, but later friendly guy came in and he invited me to VIP for a short drink, I dont remember how he removed me from first hot dude, i said to him that i cant let my gf there and totally ignore the first guy. but when i asked the friend second guy disapeard somewhere. So i stayed with the first guy who seemed to be my plan B. Maybe it would be better for second guy that he would start to ignore me or go to some other girl and then back to me, not that he waited for me like puppy while I was considering to left with another guy. If he was not able to be more interesting to put second guy out, he shouldn't hang around because that was totally beta. He should get control over not that I had it all. We ended up dancing again, I give him points up for kino, but he went prety sexual with touches so I said to him that he shouldn't touch that...but if he understood more my body language he should know that he should continue doing that just elsewhere. So then soon after he left.
I saw the VIP guy again when i went out for a cigarette, he came to me and we started to talk. He was super cool, but then my friend came out with her guys-friends so he asked me secondly that night if this is my bf abt one guy. And then my friend said that we must leave.

Mistakes that guys in general did:
- asking girls to dance, because every single guy there does that.
- buying drinks, is lame - that doesnt get u laid, it just makes u look more desperate and easy to manipulate with

Mistakes and good stuff that guys that i gave them chance did:
1. guy: good is that he didnt ask me for a dance,he had great looks, he made me feel comfortable, he had great kino, used boyfriend destroyer,
- bad: he didnt use that moment when we were alone smoking, till that second guy disturbed it, he was not confident enough to oust the new guy, he standed by like puppy waiting a bone,
2nd guy: he made me feel comfortable, he instantly evolved alpha behavior, DHV, used not obvious kino,
Ohh, what about me gaming girls...Heh, there was just one girl that i liked, and i did actually like only her dress nothing else. But I did come to a friend, come close to her and went true her hair and gave her special intense look, just to play with her, making her confused, because she claims to be 100% straight..but she surely isn't...because she liked what i did to her.. I am sure:D

I agree the way that a lot of guys ask a girl to dance is not good. There are good ways and bad ways to initiate a dance with a girl. If a girl is already dancing, it's important to make eye contact first before you approach and to make sure you have good body language and you are enjoying yourself. If you approach her confidently enough and maintain eye contact and groove to the music you will have a much higher chance of her being receptive.

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Lately I was lazy/busy, so I didn't post, even if I had some good cases. Anyway, I might abstract them here some time BTW.

So this Saturday was crazy!! I went to a party to another part of my country with my friend. We were picked up by two of hers friends at the capital, so that they drove us there and we could get drunk.
Because I am going true some changes in my life, I decided recently that I will get drunk one last time in my life, and this Saturday was the day without limits. I could say yes to anything that I wanted, no control, not caring for anything, except having uncautious behaviour.
I am usually rational girl (but not boring), so this was big change.

So on the way there I was already drunk, which I am not proud of. So when we reached the club i was walking unstable, but i didn't care about it. All that bothered me was that people could see it, so I was ashamed. But anyway I got drunk intentionally, so I shouldn't really care about it, because that was my plan at the first place.

Back to story, strange thing is, that people usually dislike drunk people (I was not annoying drunk, I was same me just unstable walking), but in my case people LOVED ME, I don't really know what was the reason, but much more people talked to me, were nice to me, usually people are much more distant. So I think, that as a drunk person I didn't looked like egocentric bitch. Not that I am egocentric bitch, I just look high, because of my way of dressing when I go clubbing.

So, if i am suspecting properly, being tipsy made me look like kind relaxed girl. It was not just me looking relaxed, somehow I must have looked super cool, because some dude came to me, talked to me and said that i am a legend so he will give me some really expensive substance that I cant mention here for free, but I said no. Because I say no to substances like that. It was not just dealing trick, because dude knew he will never see me again, it looked more like friendly gesture that creeped me out.

Ok, now to my game. At some point my feet hurt because of my 13cm heels so i sited about 1 metre from some blonde chick, and blondes aren't really my type. She must have been about 22..She was sitting on hers boyfriend lap. And I checked her, looked her directly and said: HEEEY, you have you are really cute.(I know i shouldn't be mentioning girls looks, but anyway i am chick, so rules are different for me:D) She started to look super happy and said you too. Then I said something, that Blonde really looks good on her, because usually girls look bad if they dye hair blonde and i touched her hair. We did like 2 mins of talking, then she wanted to take pics with me, and have my contact and totally forgot about her BF:D. She was soo cute:D. I dont know why i went away and I talked to some guys that had introduced their friend as some famous sports person, but i didn't believe, but guy actually spoked german so it looked real. I started to speak german to that fake sports person, so he had to admit, that he taught just few phrases for act:D.
Then I started to drink with them, and at some point that cutie came back to me, but i was bad person so I didn't pay her much attention so she left.
It was awkward because those guys that I started to drink with were about 20 years old, maximum 24. They were all short, all light brown hair and all skinny..not really my type, but fake sports guy got me interested, and the guy that represented me to him too.

OK, so that is a part of all party, it was much more, but unfortunately it would be too long. It is too long already.

So now lets concentrate on good and bad stuff:
- dude that offered me substance: he was cool until he offered me stuff, because he creeped me out. I taught about him: this guy is probably capable of doing something bad to me, or this guy is offering me that because he would like to fuck me in exchange. Don't offer stuff to girls even if they look super relaxed about it if you don't know how they are IRL.

- guy that came to me and said: have you seen /name of popular sports person/, and said let me introduce you to him..That was good, because he looked fun, got me interested, got me analysing and even have conversation with him.
If i wouldnt caught that guy on not knowing more then 5 phrases in German, he could get laid based on being famous by some naive chick. Because before she would found out she would already be interested in him well enough.

- i also noticed in club one cute dude who was there not dancing, standing by the table, not smiling, ... he was totally fuckable, but guys, if you look like a statue, and if you never smile, there is less chance that you will get laid.

So this is all for tonight, i hope my next post will be better. That day i couldn't overanalyse because i was not in a condition to do it well.

ooh, i forgot...I also met a ginger, that didnt have a looks, he kinda looked like Tyler Durden, but he had best game that I have ever seen. He was natural, that got chick instantly, and he gets laid a lot. He was totally not my type but i would definitely do him.
He was one of friends friends that i came there with.
His kino with girls and how he got them to dance was amazing, the energy that he showed, i don't really know how to explain.
But huge minus about him was that he picked up my not finished beer when we came there, because he wanted to get more of alcohol in his system...WHO DOES THAT?!? no meter how cute he looked, drinking after random people that you don't know is gross, especially because friend told me that he does drink from unfinished glasses all the time.

Anyway this is a part of it:)