Men,
About 4 months ago I was really hitting it off with this older women at work ( she = 35 years young )
I kinda met her through my job since I had to explain something to her.
At that time I had no idea what PUA was, but without me noticing I chatted her up.
Eventually after bumping in to each other when we were both leaving our building.
I did some small talk and asked her out, She replied with ' ye, sure send me a mail next week so we can go out next friday.
I mailed her to meet up and she replied that she has a boyfriend who she lives with.
I completely dissarmed the situation by telling her i'll be a good boy and she has nothing to fear.
That friday we had some drinks and we made out in her car. ( btw she payed for the bill , 50 euro worth of cocktails )
The week after that we went on a lunch date and was kinda uncomfortable since it was during the day and we both had to get back work and we share some colleagues.
SO nothing happend, no kiss, no touching.
Eventually she let me know that her boyfriend was going to be out of town and I should visit her.
We set a date..and at one point she asked me what we were going to do.
Like I said , I had no idea what pua was back then.
SO I replied something like ' what do you think
, two people alone
'
That scared her of so badly
( I know I should have just said ' watch a movie, have a drink, coock something )
after that I couldn't recover.
I asked her out again afterwards and she replied it was to dangerous for her to meet me
Now, 2 months ago she changed employer and I haven't had/made contact with her since. But yesterday I saw her walking down the street.
She didn't saw me so i didn't initiate anything.
But, guys, I so wanna have sex with this chick. I kinda like the women who are in their thirties
Any idea how I can turn the tables and spark that attraction again. ( Do know that seeing her in the streets was a rare occasion, since her new job is located far away from mine )
I do have a her facebook ( her # got lost when I lost my phone )
CHAT
