Hey guys,

I 've been texting with this HB8 for a couple of weeks.
Last week sunday we went to the movies and she brought me back to her place where we just did some chitchat.
Eventually I 'manned up' and I kissed her...after the make out session I went back home.
We didn't see each other until friday ( we live in the same town but I have a really busy professional life ).
Friday is party night ( duuh )so me and my boys went out as did she with her friends.
We came across each other near my favorite bar and we left to this party together with mine an her friends.
At that party I had to say 'Hi' to alot of folks and at one one point I received some miss calls from this HB8 and txt msgs 'where are you ?'.
At that exact moment I saw her and to make a long story short ..we left together.
No F- close happend, to drunk for that. But we did oral though
Saterday night I was doing a barshift (@ my favorite bar ofcourse) and this HB8 was texting me when my shift ended and if I might be going to this party she is attending.
I told her I was busy and if my shift ended early I might be going.
She replied ' OK, I'm staying over at my friends place after the party, but if you want you can come and crash at my friends place aswell'
I never made it to that party and I made it clear I would see her the next day, Sunday.
Sunday she texted me that she was feeling too tired to meet, but if I really wanted too I could come over.
I replied that it's cool and I'll come pick her up one of these days to hang out.

SO now, tuesday, I haven't really heard anything from her nor did I texted anything. ( 2 day freeze out ?)

I just wanted to know If I'm doing good so far and what part needs to be better !


I would appreciate any feedback...I'm a slow learner but I'm willing to learn !!



( Should I make my FR more detailed or keep a long story short ? )

You were doing ok but YOU HAVE SHOT YOURSELF IN THE FOOT !

THIS GIRL WANTS TO FUCK YOU !!!

shes asked you multiple times to come stay over/see her. AKA I WANT SEX !

Shes now bored of you because you wont fuck her ! Get your finger out your ass and fuck her !
Then she will be yours properly.

Great work although you clearly missed blatant signs of her wanting sex !

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I'm an idiot

OK, I texted the girl saying I was able to find some free time this night.

Let's see what she will reply...if she will reply at all

Rule of thumb, if you are isolated with a girl...The kiss leads to sex it isn't the end game you could have gotten her that night you made out in her place.

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Ok text conversation went as following

ME:
Hey, I was able to get some free time tonight? Wanna put on your naught shoes ( if you translate the last phrase in my language ..it makes sense it's a common expression)

HER: My friend is sleeping over, so tonight won't work i'm afraid. Damn, why didn't you let me know sooner :p

Me: OK, nothing has been officially planned, I can reschedule what I have planned for tomorrow to today so I 'll have a little bit of time tomorrow. Check ?

Her: Ok, fine for me...but I have class till 7pm what are we going to do or are you just coming to my place :p

ME: I'll come pick you up and then we'll decide what we feel like doing:) Don't plan to much ahead.

Her: haha sorry, I'm little bit autistic when it comes down to planning stuff. I'm always busy with my agenda:) but OK fine for me



....and thats where I'm going to leave it at


so how did I do ? I hope I didn't come off as too needy ?

Well done dude,

A little bit needy but she's clearly into you so thats fine ! You should turn up at her place with a movie and food ! Invite yourself in eat the food put the movie on escalate and bam full close !!!

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This.

Dude, she flat out invited you over. Do what Stenic is saying.

The girl is totally and clearly into you.

Cool!

Just out of curiosity...how would you guys have handled her texting me she was already having one of her friends over. ( with a new rendez-vous in mind )


Thanks for the feedback guys

i'll be updating this

You Handled it fine knowing how much shes into you... I would have replied with !

'Well ill reschedule and do my work tonight and free up tomorrow Since im a gentleman like that ! you better have tomorrow free because im not taking no excuses !'

This shows your a get go person and you do what you want Doesnt come across to a girl as needy either as your laying the law !

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Don't show up with any food. You'll CB yourself with that shit. Just show up with a movie. Some form of comedy, pop it in and get comfortable then make your move.

Side note on the texts. Try to shy away from telling a girl that you don't have anything planned for the evening, and you want to powwow with her about the night to come. You take yourself out of the leadership roll with that. I've had good results responding to this question by asking her if she's the type of girl who likes to know the ending to a movie beforehand. (BTW I hate spoilers so this is actually a good way for me to weed those types of women out) It usually deflects the question.

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This is hurting my heart. Please just go to her place.

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I let you down brothers

I kinda messaged her that I'm bringing food, 'cause I didn't wanna arrive with 2 pizzas while she already ate.
I'll provide you the text she replied to me texting her i'll bring some food along

HER: "I normally already had dinner when my class is till 7pm......but I can make an exception I'll just eat some lil cookies during class haha "


I clearly still have alot to learn
But guys, let me ask you this.....I'm pretty much falling for this one tho ( one -itis )
I don't want this to happen since I wanna game other chicks but I do wanna F close this one.

How do I tackle this problem ?

major thanks for the many responses, I'll update thursday on how it went
I hope I can type down so more field reports pretty quickly since this community is responding so quickly and with tons of good simple advice.

cheers !

How does food help you f-close...

Now you'll be sitting in front of the movie eating pizza and laughing and having a good time. Then the pizza is going to fill her up, make her want to take a shit, and make her sleepy. She will also be self conscious about having food stuck all in her teeth and mouth and on her breath. She'll kick you out after the movie is over with a peck on the lips or something and you'll have to hope she doesn't flake or act wishy washy when you try and set up another date. Good luck boss I warned you

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It's a bad idea to fall for someone before you have sex. I know a lot of people would view that as a shallow statement, but you don't ever meet the real person until after you have sex with them. They will hide all of their flaws and pretend to be things that they are not. Once you've had sex with her, she'll be more open for you to see who she really is as a person.
Not sure how her eating will be an issue. Women still have sex after meals.

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I just said why... I listed many reason that you didn't address as to why he should not bring food. What you just said is like some guy telling me "some people don't get cancer after smoking for 40 years" it's just a justification for making things harder.

You haven't listed anything that helps the case of bringing food to a movie F close. I understand if he just wants to chill and eat pizza and watch a movie with a pretty woman. His motivation is to F-close which the food distracts from and gives the woman plenty of justifications to not f-close. After reading his last message it's clear the girl didn't even expect him to bring food. She was going to eat before they went out.

I'm curious though. How does the food help since you're fighting for the cause...

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