Hi. So its been a while since I've been working on my social skills and I hope to get back to work improving them again.

I left the house a little later than I wanted to go to a bar. I left around 10:30 and arrived at the bar around 11:15. I chose this bar because it has a reputation of being a little sleazy and would possibly give me more success. I got a beer and got hit with a ton of AA. There were two girls next to me I should have approached but could not. I did approach one girl but was completely ignored. I became a barfly, just watching people and sipping my beer. I did talk to some guys and therefore allowed me to regain some confidence. I approached another girl while she was in line to buy drinks for her friends. I opened with a direct approach but could not get her name and my attempts to start a conversation were halted. I got a look of disgust from her friend and seeing that I had no chance, I left. I also ran into the previous girls I first met and when I opened, she just turned her back to me and walked to her friend. Frustrated, I left the bar.

I planned to walk back but opened a random group. I was invited to join by a girl in their group, giving me a strong IOI from her. We went to the club and I danced a bit while getting a drink. We just danced a bit, watched a pole dance, and then when to sit down. I pulled the girl to another room in the club, talked a bit and got a kiss close. We made out a bit and I did some kino with the intention of pulling a ONS. However, the fact that her friends hurt my logistics. We danced and made out in the club before returning her to her friends. We danced more, I pulled her to another room to sit down and took care of her/made out some more. I was able to build comfort although still not enough to pull her home. We left the club with her friends and I number closed her.

Things to work on:
-improve my haircut and wardrobe. I got a comment that with my glasses, slick back hair, and checked collared shirt, i looked like a famous nerdy comedian (not the look I want to go for in the club). Any suggestions on how to learn about and improve my fashion?
-need to improve my openers. I rely on direct openers and felt like a freak in the bar. Girls literally could not be more closed off to me, completely ignoring me and turning their backs on me. Any advice on opening?
-Work on AA. I need to "warm up" before I can begin opening groups and getting liquored up is not an option.

Not bad, how hot was she? (not an HB5 I hope, lol).

Anyway, I'll say the same thing that I say to all newbies, don't just go out, actually study PUA. It could be Mystery Method, Stealth Attraction, RSD, but if you don't do this you'll end up being super AFC.

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