| Hi all
Im learning pickup to improve my existing relationship.
I am going to do this by going for phone numbers without follow-up when i'm out, And trough practicing The principles behind successfull seduction outside of meeting women.
By practicing The principles outside of meeting women, I mean to always be well groomed, have alpha bodylanguage, being interesting And interested, And generally putting my best self forward in daily life.
What follows is a summary of tonight's conversation with my GF, which in broad stroakes went like this:
Me: whats up, how are you doing
She: it's going well
We then talked about different stuff like what we have done today And stuff like that, And I threw in disqualifiers, pebbles And negs wherever I could, And she responded positivly (laughing, enjoying The conversation).
After doing this for a while I could tell she was starting to have enough of it (I Even hung up at one point AFTER she telling me she wanted to talk to me;
her: yavning,
me: saying something about The yawning,
her: im just tired, i want to talk to you
me: too bad (hanging up)
looking back this was a pretty unneccesary move anyone have any feedback?
anyway, she called me up after a minute and I told her "I am going to stop beeing a jerk now", and i moved on to building rapport by really listening to her day, and trying to put myself in her shoes.
then we talked a little more and I ended the conversation with the usual telling each other that we love each other.
love to get anyone's thaughts on both the overall idea of learning pickup/kmproving social skills while beeing in a relationship, and the conversation itself.
all thaughts and feedback is apprecciated.
xxx
Tigerboy
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