Hey guys this my first FR posting so bear with me.

Last night my friend Bolex and I went out to a bar in Hollywood. Normally we tend to stay away from that place like the plague ( we prefer more chill spots that don't charge exorbitant amounts for parking and drinks) but it was one of his friends birthdays. It just so happens this bar was about 95% African American. It was a little jarring to be outside of our element at first but that's part of the adventure and ultimately overcame it. As a side note if you ever want to get felt up by HB's all night these are the places to go. Every 5 minutes some girl would walk by us and place her hands all over us trying to get by. It must be a cultural thing. Unfortunately either our game was very lame or they need to be gamed differently but I had very little success with them aside from some grinding on the floor.

We were outside having a cigarette and shooting the shit waiting for the birthday girl who couldn't get in for her own party even though we strolled right in no problem. I spotted a HB9 over in the corner looking very bored, distressed and constantly checking her phone.

She started talking on the phone so I took out mine, stood directly in front of her and game on.

Me: Yeah she is right here...but she is talking on her phone...It's pretty rude of her to come out to the bar and chat on a phone all night...you want to talk to her? Are you sure? (at this point she has been smiling and started gesturing for the phone) . It looks like she's busy and she seems like the kind of girl that would take my phone and run off with it...well I'll let her know you called. (I later realized the better tactic would have been to swap phones with her, tell her friend she has to go and hang her phone up)

Since she was still on the phone I waved and started talking to Bolex again. She finally hung up and passed by me so I grabbed her arm to which she replied "I have to go meet some friends" so I told her "Great, bring them here and they can entertain me too". We waited around outside for a minute and then went back in to start opening some other sets.

Later in the night I see her standing by herself again not having much fun. I motioned her to come with my finger to which she kind of shook her head no, so I did it again even more deliberate and she walked over.

Me: So where are all your imaginary friends? (grab elbow)
Her: They couldn't get in but I have to go meet them right now
Me: And why is that?
Her: I have to drive them home
Me: Well to be honest I'm a little surprised you made it in yourself...
Her: How old are you?
Me: How old do you think I am?
Her: 22-23 (I'm really 24)
Me: Interesting, you look like you are...about...lets go with 30
Her: (a little thrown off balance) You are kidding right, you don't think that?
Me: (serious face) Oh, did I go too low? 32?
Her: (still shocked) What? I don't even have any wrinkles. You can't be serious.
Me: (grab waist) Well It's hard to tell in here since its so dark, I'll have to get a better look in the light (take her hand and pull her outside). So how old do you want me to think you are? (grab and hold her waist)
Her: 20. (she pulls out her real ID and fake ID)
Me: I'm gonna have to confiscate this.
Her: No, please don't.
Me: You seem like a fun girl so I'll make an exception this one time
Her: I really have to go drive my friends...
Me: Alright well lets continue this conversation later (hand her my phone)
Her: Well...I'm kinda seeing someone
Me: Oh, so are you gonna marry him?
Her: Of course not I am only 20.

At this point I give the phone to her and she puts in her name and number. We say our goodbyes and I point to my cheek and she kisses it. Now this may be where my game begins to go downhill and I wasn't 100% sure if the following was going to make me look AFC or not. Also with how short of an interaction we had I thought I may of had to keep the humor going, especially since I didn't get to use any BF destroyers.

About 10 minutes later I text her:

Me: Can you keep a secret?
Her: Who is this?
Me: Throne, silly
Her: Oh, Hey you
Me: So can you keep a secret?
Her: yes...
Me: I kinda like you, lets get married (I wanted to add "run off to Vegas" but for some reason didn't)
After 10 minutes of no response I text her back with "J/k look at you get all bothered".

Anyone want to discuss? I have a good feeling the texting may have been a poor choice and I never got to turn her feelings on her bf. This actually seems to be a sticking point for me. My Day 1 game seems to be great with an f-close and a k-close within the past week but when it comes to Day 2 all attraction seems to be lost.

I think you did pretty good up until the text. I think if you had a chance at all it would have been the first time you saw her, kinda sounds like the second time you saw her she couldnt stay and talk which wasnt anything you had any control over. next time just avoid that lets get married text.

B-Sweet