| So after setting up a breakfast date with a chick I met in a bar around here a few months back over FB I headed over to meet her for coffee this morning...
A little background...
I met this girl in a bar around my Mum's area (Northampton) whilst I came up for a mates birthday (until recently I lived in London, now I'm staying at my Mum's for a while)
We chatted, I Kino'd and moved her around, built a lot of ST and after 20 mins or so she kissed me (I kept passing from ear to ear, letting our nose's brush as we were talking, on the 4th pass she couldn't take it any more and kissed me)
Logistics were poor so we exchanged numbers and left it at that, and over the few month until recently we'd text every so often to keep things alive.
Well today we met for coffee, she arrived early and brought the drinks, we sat outside and spoke for half an hour, I kept teasing, telling the odd joke and made sure she carried most of the weight of the conversation, after I got bored I stood up, gestured for her hand which she placed in mine and lead her off for a walk, at this point I Kino laddered, taking her hand and putting it around my waist, putting mine over her shoulder etc, the conversation was pretty plain and boring but the intimacy was on point..
We wandered over to the local park where I got a little playful and got on the swings and got her on the see-saw with me and just had fun, she was really enjoying herself and said things like "This is so cool!" "I've not felt this excited since I was 6!" "I've never done anything like this on a date before, this is the BEST DATE EVER!" she started getting a little carried away so I led her to a bench and started the Kino again, this time luring her in for the 2nd KC (first in the club a few months back) I could tell she was really into this so pulled away to leave her aching for more and started walking her back towards her house (she lives alone so better there than mine) Now I didn't know exactly where she lived but new the rough area so lead her closer to hers and stopped a few times to manhandle kiss her, I could feel the excitement and arousal in her growing every time and each time I did I got a little rougher, pulling her hair, biting her neck, she was really heating up...
we get a little closer to hers and she say's "I'd invite you back to mine but my house is a mess" (earlier she told me she was OCD) "OCD my arse! It can't be that bad" then as we reached the bottom of her road she say's "I'm up there..." and gestures to her house, so I take her hand and start walking towards it, telling her I need to use her loo, she relents and we go inside...
she says she needs to clean up before I can use the loo, so I go and fill the kettle, take a cup out of the cupboard and make myself a cuppa, I'm really far to relaxed in other peoples houses now!
Once I was in I got comfortable, built a little more comfort with her, befriended the cat and put the TV on, I could see the look in her eye almost saying "Damn, this guy has balls, He's completely made himself at home"
She came over and sat next to me, this time I tried something different, I ignored her and played with the cat, each time I did, she'd initiate and escalate touch, until she was biting my neck, things got passionate on the sofa and just as I was undressing her she freezes, says "I've just remembered, we left my car in town! I go on call in 5 minutes, I need my car to be here" I calm her, tell her to relax, she'll have plenty of time to get the car but cut off all physical contact, we talk for 5 minutes and she initiates again.
this pattern continued around 5 times, In the end I relented and to put her mind at ease, we went to get the car, now here is where I fucked up, I'm thinking with hindsight, I should have left something of mine at hers, as a reason to get back there but didn't, we get to the car and she gives me a ride home, saying she'd had an amazing time and can't wait to see me again, she's already text to ask when I'm free next, I've not replied yet!
now how could I have battered the LMR in a way that'd have ended in a lay today, It's getting dangerously close to "Dating" territory, I just want her as a causal "Fuck buddy", she knows this but wants more...
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