| Hey everyone. Welcome to my thread. In here I will be trying out a TON of different techniques to one day found out which one works best for me so I can develop my very own style. I'll be updating this from time to time so I can help others as well.
Just to make it clear. I'm not yet focusing on fucking every girl. First I'm going to perfect my inner game and approaches then I will take it up to the next level and then some. I'm progressing quick as hell so it might be very soon.
Things I find most important in the whole pickup scene is:
1. Mindset
2. Confidence
3. Self-amusement
First mindset. With the right mindset ("I am a fucking God and everyone wants to have fun with me") I got more girls than ever. I literally listened to Kanye West's "I am a God" song over and over until I knew the entire song from back to front. I wondered how this would work on my game and it fucking worked. What's more fun than hanging out with a guy who knows that he is the shit. He's having tons of fun and he's ready to dish it all out on a fucking plate to people who aren't. He goes around the club high-fiving people and talking to everyone (Social proofing). He talks to girls about random shit and doesn't give a shit about what he says or does, as long as HE is having fun (Self-Amusement) and everything he does he knows is awesome (Confidence).
Confidence - Being confident in my approaches I've had tons of success. Sometimes I don't even look the girls in the eyes, just past them onto the dancefloor or whatever and when they reply I casually return the gaze back to the girl. I drink their drink, I parade them around the fucking club. I can do whatever I want with these girls because hanging out with me is the most fun they will have all night. They will be asking my name and number before I even think about it or want to.
Self-Amusement. Having my own fun while going out has turned my game upside down. I used to go all "James Bond" in clubs, making sure I had the cool gaze, leaned back against the bar while sipping my drink. I realize now that this fucking sucks. There's no fun in there and I couldn't get girls that way. Right now I make my own fun all around the club, I talk to everyone and girls want to follow me around everywhere.
Anyhow. I will type out my field report of last saturday here.
01 - The Confident Dick
On this day I tried out the utmost confidence mixed with tons of negs and not caring about anything.
First we went out to an outside terrace and grabbed a few beers. I loosened up a lot by negging the waitress and being a dick to her.
Her - "Can I get you another drink?"
Me - "I don't know if you can."
Her - "Oh uhh.. Shall I get you another drink then?"
Me - "Yes you shall, make it 5 beers."
I found out just fucking with people and even MAKING them dislike me just works great for my confidence. I don't care about their reaction anymore and I'm there for my self amusement.
This went on for a while until we got bored. We went to a nightclub nearby and on entering I spotted a 2 set, HB7 and HB8.
Basically what I tried out here, I treated them as equals. One was obviously hotter but I didn't give a fuck. You know what mystery says, talk to 1, neg the other by not talking to her for a while. I went full on fuck that and talked to them both at the same time. I use a standard line which I can change up a little bit to neg.
Me - "Hey, are you girls still enjoying yourself?"
It works well on anyone. And you can follow up with a really easy answer on whether she says yes or no, both answers are a win-win.
Them - "Yeah!"
Me - "Well I'm not, I'm fucking bored."
From here I look around like I'm actually looking for something fun. And it's like I'm just talking to the girls to pass time. Like talking to them is not fun (lowering both their value).
Me - "What are you drinking?"
They - answer, I don't remember the drink, sheeit one was kinda caribou-lou-ish and the other one was sweet.
From here I shrug and just start drinking from the straw of one drink, then the other. Then I squint and go back to the first drink. I did this for a while and wondered when they were going to stop me but they didn't so I figured I was in already.
Me - "Okay so how long have you two been girlfriends?"
Them - "Ohh! That's since--"
Here I cut them off
Me - "Yeah I don't really care about that, come."
I put my arms around them both and drag them down to the dancefloor. I hug them close and keep switching off kissing them on the cheeks. I felt like the fucking king. The girls loved being dominated and I figured they're not the only ones. This works on a LOT of girls, just being confident as fuck and taking the lead gets them horny so quick.
Basically for the rest of the night I fist bumped a ton of people, danced, had a TON of fun and kiss-closed 3 girls.
Now it's around 6AM and my friends want to head home. I tell 'em go, fuck it I'm having too much fun. I'll take the train home.
After this I head to another club.. I basically walk in like the fucking king and look around for girls instantly. Now normally I wouldn't be in this mindset at all... Going in a nightclub and looking for girls to actually talk to and have fun with. But in this particular night I was on fire. I spot this HB9 in the back, in a 6 people friend group.
After a while I see her walk away from the group to somewhere but I lost her. I figured I had to take a piss so I head to the bathroom...
I arrived in the bathroom and looked around... Where's the fucking urinals? What guy's bathroom doesn't have urinals? I get ready to enter a stall instead and suddenly my phone rings. My friend's calling to ask where the fuck I'm at and if I'm actually getting home. I pickup and start talking to him when suddenly one of the bathroom stalls opens and a girl comes walking out. The HB9 I saw before! So yeah, by this time I realised I'm on my phone in the ladies' bathroom. Did I care? No.
Girls gave me cute looks while I was in there, what guy fucking calls in the ladies' bathroom. The HB9 did a pretend scream like she cared and I told her "Quiet down! Can't you see I'm on the fucking phone?".
This did wonders for my game on her and she stuck around until I was done calling. We went out of the bathroom after, talked and ended up kiss closing a couple of times. She kept shit-testing me by asking me to hold her drink. There was no reason for me to hold her drink because she was standing next to a fucking table. (So obvious shit-test) so I told her to hold her own fucking drink and after that she was all over me again.
Now where did I fuck up on this girl? Well I was getting a bit of a boner while I was making out with her so later we're a few meters apart and I reach down my pants to adjust my dick. She looks and instantly turned around to go back to her friends. She froze me out.
After a while I did pull her back in for some more kissing but I wasn't forceful enough to get her number. I wasn't thinking about having sex with her, just having the most fun I could possible get for myself. I could've easily gotten her number but maybe it's better cause I saw her kissing another dude about 5 minutes later. That sucked a bit but I shrugged it off and counted it as a big learning experience.
Long type but I like bringing in some details. Besides it's my first field report so it just takes some getting used to as well. Feel free to ask questions.
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