FR#2 in 2 nights. (cliffs at the bottom)


Last night i went to a concert. I could not find one person to go to the show with me. I had two free tickets, and asked 15 different people and they were either working, babysittingout of town or wouldn't get out until late.

I call "the girl". HBmodel. She's the one who sent me on a tail spin that made me realize everything I was doing wrong with women. When she dumped me, i found Deangelo, the Game MM and the PUAF. She was my one-itus.

She kindly excepts my invite to the show. I haven't really seen her but maybe 2 or 3 times in passing in the past 6 months. She comes over and we have a few drinks, and fluff. She admits that dumping me was a mistake. She said it was a weird point in her life, she really liked me, but i just kept coming on too strong. I told her dumping me was the best thing she could have done for me. It totally changed my mindset. My roommates a photographer and she requests he takes a few pictures of us. She leans up on me, and I get tons of kino.

We go to the show. Tons of kino. She has her arm around me hugging me leaning on me grabbing me as I do the same. She is recieving texts from her exbf. Hes there too, and says he sees her. There is 7,000 people at this show and he spots her out. She was like "wtf, how the hell has he spotted me?" I said that "Thats really fucking creepy and desperate that hes doing that." She smiles and agrees. Three songs left he finds her and comes over. She introduces us, but its so loud that i can't hear shit. (I know hes jelous as fuckbecause I brought her and we had much better seats)

This is where I get Amoged. He is standing right beside her, and wraps his arm around her waist. She kinda looks over at me and her body language completely closes up. I can tell she is really fucking uncomfortable. I really had no idea what the fuck to do. All I know is I look/feel like a complete tool. It makes me angry. I calm myself down and chill out. The band finishes and everyone files out. She is follwing him, and im following her. The three of us stand stand against the wall for a moment, im really confused. She talks to him gives him a hug, he looks down we walk away from him and she grabs my hand. Both of us felt a little uncomfortable so I make a joke to lighten the mood. She smiles and squeezes my hand harder.

We get to my truck and I tell her that was uncomfortable, and she completely made me look like a tool. She apologizes and agrees. We go score some Taco Bell, and go back to my place. Play with the dog hang out and she kicks back on my giant bean bag. No hesitation, i jump ontop of her and start to make out. Lots of kino and dry humping. We chill, i know she has to go home cause its 1230 in the morn. I take her to my room show her some funny videos and she wants to stay, but I really don't want her too. I don't need her this time around. I walk her to the door, she gives me a giant hug and i pull away to let her out and she grabs my face and we kiss again. Then shes gone.

If we hook up again, this time is going to be different. I have the game on my side. I have options that I never had before in my more AFC days. I know she sees a difference. She sees it in my frame, confidence and body language.


Cliffs: I go out to a show with my old one-itus recieve tons of kino, get amoged by her exbf, take HBmodel home with me and end up kiss closing the the HBmodel at the end of the night.

My quesiton for the puas is what should I have done in the AMOG situation? I didnt want to look like a complete tool, but did. It wasn't a date, but she was out with me. She told me to call her soon, but Im not sure when i should. She lives 20 minutes away but is moving less than a mile away from me.

See Kay

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I'd say that all-in-all, you did well. I mean, you didn't get totally AMOGd, think about it: she didn't go completely cold on you, she still left with you and you ended up on top of her at your place. I wouldn't really stress about her ex-borefriend, she was obviously more interested in you than him.

With the phone call, my suggestion would be to let it linger for a couple of days.

Solid work.

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hey man I'm glad it worked out for you, but that is by far one of my least favorite situations to be in. You have to walk a really fine line between being too aggressive with the amog and looking jealous/crazy, and being too layed back and looking weak yourself. If I had been in your shoes I would have probably tried being a little bit more aggressive in this case because she was your date pretty much, and you are expected to be a little more aggressive. I'm dating a HB10 now so I get put in this situation alot.... here's my pretty much failsafe response that usually gets the guys to back off (I'm new to being a PUA so I'm sorry if I inadvertently stole someone else's ideas).

Make him come clean........ Wait for him to say something funny/ clever (If he is really trying to pick up your girl you'll probably have to wait about 10-20 seconds for this) Then start laughing and say something to the extent of "Hahaha that's awesome.... If I didn't know any better I'd say you were trying to pick up my date/girl." If he says he's not you can ask why hes got his hands where they are "jokingly" and in my experience the guy removes them every time and backs off. If he is a true amog and says that he is then congratulations, the first shot has been fired and you're now allowed to be more aggressive and fight for the girl. Of course you can't let her know this because it's a DLV, so pretend he was joking and start throwing negs at him every chance you get. For example if he says yes he is tell him that he'd probably have better luck if he [showered to get rid of his bo/didn't wear such a weird shirt/didn't look so creepy(my personal favorite)]. At this point you're going to need some good conversational skills to back it up and send him packing so good luck..... The point though is to look like you're so certain she's yours that you're not even phased by him trying to steal her.....

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Fellas I really appreciate it.

Publiceneme - I did what I could to amog destroy him before he came over by saying it was really creepy that he was able to pick her out of the crowd of 7,000 people. The music was so loud I had to yell at her just to talk to her. There was really no chance of me tyring to Amog Destroy him when he came over. I went dancing with her on our last date a few months ago. I got extremely jelous and was all over her when she danced with other guys. I wanted to show I was more secure and confident now. Thats why I tried to be more chill last night.


Medic - Thanks for the advice. I think what im gonna do is have my roommate upload the pics he took and then text her and let her know i uploaded em. She was kinda sick so i really didn't want to accelerate anything. Last time i dated her i was way a complete AFC, too needy bought her everything typical AFC. Last night I was in control, made all the desicisons without her opinion. Thats why I didn't even hesitate to jump on top of her.

Im not concerned about the exbf, because hes moving 4 hours away today. I think he was just trying to get some before he left. I kinda blocked his plans.

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Update: She called me last night, because she needed help. She moved a half a mile away from me yesterday and needed help moving the bigger things off the truck. I was pretty much her last resort so i obliged. I did the AFC thing and went over there, but told her I had plans. So I was just going to help her, her mom and her guy friend unload the big stuff unloaded and then head out with my buddies.

She was extremely happy to see me. Big smiles big hugs. We got the truck unloaded. She told me how amazing I was mulitple times. She went to kiss me and i just let her kiss my cheek. I texted her and then she called me back like 20 minutes later. We talked for about 5 minutes. Then she called me again at around 130am.

HBmodel: I owe you. Thank you very much
Me: Your welcome and yes you owe me. Ill tell you what I want.
HBmodel: Ok, whats that.
Me: I want a gift. You need to buy me something. Im not shallow so don't make the gift over a dollar. I want to see how creative you are.
HbModel: (laughter) Ok, great ill get you your gift.
Then we fluff she gets home and I tell her good night.

I don't remeber who posted that gift idea on this board, but i fucking love it and it worked like a charm.

We texted a few times today. Shes gonna call me later. Ill see how this goes, Im not concerned about her other friend at all. He's just one of her best friends that I think fell in love with her and she LJBF'd him.

See Kay

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