So I'm at an average house party with a bunch of people i went to highschool with (last year) and some I don't know. Right off the bat I'm better dressed than every human in there (which may have been bad, what do yall think?) I got a lot of compliments but accompanied with 'what's the occasion?" I answered with "occasion? Im living my life dude, what, why do i need an excuse to look and feel good?" - how could I have handled that differently?

Anyways, one girl who is usually trying to flirt with me does just that in a circle of other girls. I don't remember what we were saying, but she asked me to grab her boob because of it. I looked at her and said "you're so horny, haha" and continued on with the convo. This FLOORED her. She started laughing histerically and looked at me in disbelief. I ejected and half an hour later my wing man comes up to me and says she just told him and a few others about it and how funny it was. He seems to think that by not taking the chance that every other guy would, I DHV'd.

Anyways I was dancing a lot, i moved around the party in a pretty casual dance while no one else was really dancing, and some popular older guys said to me "you just dance every where eh? that's dope" (non sarcastic) and i opened the male set. They loved me and were always toasting with me and talking to me or about me.

I tried to game a girl I went to high school with who thinks shes out of my league, and included her friend in the convo. I thought i recognized her friend so i mentioned it, and she told me a story of how we were thrown in a room together to puke at a house party (i know for a FACT she's lying and i deny it). Anyways I got some negative IOI's.. she was playing hard to get for sure. I do a little horroscope routine and said that her sign usually comes with an attitude, she has a straight face and calls her self a bitch (i hate girls like that who think its hot or some shit). I game her a little later in the party, and i said "you know who you remind me? Really, this is kind of weird, but you're just like this guy I know. Well, I don't actually know him but he's in a lot of movies (now this usually gets hb9's and 10's floored and they go HE! WHAT??! and immediately flirt for confirmation that she has value). She immediately turns away and i speak up and pull her shoulder back lightly and i say "Will ferrel" and anyones the set was ruined she never spoke to me again.

This actually was to my advantage. This girl had beef with another high school pal and we related because of this. We both bad mouthed her while sitting on a couch kind of secluded from the party. There was already kino, legs touching, etc, and i say "Here i want to try something, it feels so good". I pull her hair back, she leans her neck, and i suck and nibble on her ear lobe. she says "OMG RUFLESS, I CANT BELIEVE YOU KNOW THAT THAT FEELS GOOD. NOBODY GETS IT. Let me try it on you" so she does that for a while. I smile at her and she says "let's go make out on that couch (where the bitchy hb was already making out with my buddy) to get bitchy hb jealous". I said ok, so we do, she gets on top of me and we make out. I then take her out of the room and we hook up in a bathroom for a bit. I got resistence when i tried to f-close, saying that she can't because she's friends with my ex. She then proceeds to say that she wanted to spend the night at my crib. Her friend drives us there, comes in, i go upstairs for drinks, in the mean time she tells her friend to leave. She comes up stairs with a smile on her face and said "she left'. f-close. anyways now we're fuck buddies. overall pretty good night with natural game and not many routines.

please try the will ferrel one though on an hb9 or 10. its golden.

Oh, another question for all yall PUAs.

During the party, I went up to a highschool friend that works at the grocery store i always go to. She's going out with an aqauintance/friend of mine. I ask her about her work and about her bf and walk away. 30 min later he charges at me, grabs me by the neck, throws me into a wall and says hes going to teach me how to treat women. I have no idea what hes talking about at this point, and hes screaming like a fucking maniac. I say "take your hands off me, right now." immediately my wing man steps in, pushes him off and the guy says "YOU CALLING MY GIRLFRIEND LIAR? ILL FCUgING KLLzzz YOU (intentional spelling mistakes to show how much sense he made). all of the older popular guys come to beat him up for yelling at me and he says "im leaving guys!!!!! UFCK!" and walks away. i just kind of laugh a bit and say, "wing man, you know i wouldnt say, what kind of a chump says "you're hot wanna hook up?" (which is what the afc actually thought i did) and he confirms i wouldnt. I received an email from my ex accusing me of "asking out a girl who has a bf" so its all clearly rumors. QUESTION: how should i have handled this situation or any other situation where a BF gets pissed and tries to fight me?

Thanks

Dude, the BF situation went perfect. You had the ultimate DHV there! Loads of other guys backing you up. Plus sounds like you remained cool when he charged you so you showed you are an alpha male. Don't really think this situation could have gone better.

People are gonna spread rumors anyways because they're lowlifes and have nothing to do. Don't worry about it.

You COULD have punched the guy in the face/neck/stomach/groin, but think that would have been worse than what happened.

Thanks man that gave me quite a bit of confidence for next time

punch him in the neck hahahah

Actually doing physical violence to him would be a bad idea IMHO. You already had enough social proof, and where he just came out of left field at you, I think you handled it right.

If you had used some aikido/jiu-jitsu/judo techniques to restrain/control him w/o injuring him that would have been fine, but to just start slugging is generally a bad idea.

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