Situation in brief... finally got to hang out with some of my gf's friends, including some cuties. A good bit younger than me but that's fine. Throughout the night I chatted with everyone, occasionally excluding the girls, then bringing them back in, letting other guys talk to me more than I was talking back, all that good stuff. A little bit of lite touching with all the girlies but not creepy and also not sexually escalating. The hottest girl in the group was also being flirty-jokey with everyone, dressed very sexually, plenty of sexual commentary.. guessing more for the guy she was with but pretty open. I teased her at various times, overall a comfortable conversation though, we went to a few places, and she seemed to enjoy hanging out with me and the group.

So later we were all driving away (she was driving us), talk of a threesome came up (I didn't bring it up, convo was naturally on sexual topics), and she casually threw in to my gf 'not interested with you and your guy, but with me, you, and [the guy we were with]'. This is the 2nd time (possibly 3rd) I've had a couple drag us both somewhere only to mention wanting to play with my girl but not me. I've had couples happy to play with both of us too, but it never seems to be the ones I'm really wanting to get into, which suggests I'm doing something wrong. Maybe playing too conversationally friendly, jokey, maybe my general look... I don't know, something.

Part of it is that I just need to learn more game, I'll keep trying to look for resources on this. The question I'm struggling with most though in this... say 'ok' in this in the hopes for some great follow-up stories, future potential play, and to show that I'm casual and relaxed, or say 'no' so I don't come off as a push-over, in case it is a test, to force the issue? Or is there a third answer I'm just not seeing?

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