Hey Guys,
I'm not english, so sorry for any eventual mistakes i write here.
Lets start:
I'm quite acknowledged with the whole Pua thing and needed your opinion on this.
So there's a chick, HB 9 at least, I met years ago in my town at a party. K-closed & f-closed here the same night.
Kept communication with her occasionally, whenever I fly to her country for business I do text her, short and precise, and set a date. Was able to k-close her every time we met, k-closed her in some occasions.
Last time we met, after setting the usual date ( going out for drinks), I did a lot of OIO and kept the conversation quite sexual and did a lot of escalation.
We had a lot of fun and we laughed a lot.
Time was passing and the more we drunk the more it became sexual. we made out many times, and while we were sitting on the bar's couch I started a conversation about threesomes and if she ever had those experiences.
I will tell you why later.
Anyway at the end of the night she told me she was tired and I proposed to go back to my hotel. she accepted and seemed very into that.
Here the sticking point:
Before inviting back to my hotel I did warn her that a "friend" of mine, a FEMALE friend, was sleeping in the same room of me.
She seemed quite surprised about that, but said there was no problem, so we went back to my hotel.
What I actual didn't tell her was that the female friend i mentioned was actually my girlfriend ( of whom she didn't know the existence) waiting us back in the hotel.
I was planning on having a potential threesome with my gf and her, but I think I blew it since I set the bar too high.
Arrived in the hotel my gf was sleeping, but woke up as we opened the door.
She seemed very surprised that this "friend" ( my gf) was sharing a bed with me, but still went in the same bed with us.
Because of the alcohol I was unable to perform, but I did try to initiate sex though by stroking her ass and touching her lingerie ( she was only in her underwear in bed).
I seemed to respond well at first, but every time my gf was touching me on the other side of the bed she kinda freeze and stopped everything.
Eventually we all three fall asleep, due also to the alcohol, and we woke up the next morning.
Before leaving, I told her that I was coming back to her town next month, she said as usual "yeah sure, text me".
Now, after xmas vacation ( during which she put like on many picts I posted on FB) I'm soon flying there again and will host a party with my friends.
I invited her to join us, with a short precise text: "hey bla bla, how are you? i'm hosting this party the bla bla in bla bla, be there and bring some friends!".
I think that she might think that i was being too sure what she would come at this party and I was too dominant since she hasn't replied yet, even if I know that she's seen the message.
Of course I won't write her a second time, it would be too needy and AFC like, but I was wondering why she hasn't replied right away as she would have done in the past.
Maybe it's time to move on on her or she is playing the hard to get game?
What do you think I did wrong?
Any advise would be highly appreciated guys, thanks a lot!!
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