Alright, so I was out tonight with Frigid, my fellow New Orleans lair leader, and we found ourselves at my favorite bar called The Dungeon. The place was pretty dead and it was already 2 AM. Well, what can you expect on a Tuesday night? I already know pretty much everyone who works there, and there was this one bartender (I shall call her "H") in particular that I haven't seen in a month. She works Tuesday nights and I usually go Friday nights. She's the hottest bartender who works at The Dungeon and just recently turned 21. I'm only 18, but these guys don't know that

Before we got to Dungeon, we were driving around, looking for parking, while getting ourselves in state by yelling THIS IS SPARTA out the window many times. We were having a jolly old time. By the time we got to The Dungeon, I was PUMPED and in state. The fact that the place was dead didn't bring me down - I still expressed all the silliness my personality could offer regardless. I greeted the Bouncer as usual and noticed "H" working behind the bar. I greeted her with a hearty hug, saying that I haven't seen her in FOREVER. I have only met her once before

So, Frigid and I are sitting at the bar, throwing back drinks. Well, he was drinking, but I was drinking water. I was already pretty drunk from drinking at other bars and I wanted to regain my sobriety.

Anyways, I was being pretty silly and dancing around in my seat to the hard-rockin' music they had playing on the jukebox. Since the place was pretty dead, the upstairs dance floor was closed. I gave a small complaint about how the upstairs was closed but I felt like dancing.

Chief: "H," I feel like dancing but the dance floor is closed! We're gonna dance. When are you getting off work? (I was making dance moves with my upper body while I said this)
H: Alright, 3 AM (she reciprocated some small dance moves to mirror me)

Frigid and I started talking to this guy who approached us, asking if we could help him meet women. I guess we just gave off an awesome PUA vibe I took this opportunity to implement a little push/pull with "H" with a combination of eye contact and turning my back to her while talking to the dude about the PUA community.

Later on I start talking to "H" a little about where we could go after she gets off work. She tells me that she's actually going to get off at 4 AM when they close down and she and some other people (probably the other staff members) were going to get some food. "I'm coming with (smile)," I said. She complies with an OK.

I have some issues with the jukebox (the "4" button didn't work on the damn thing and it ate my money) and "H" keeps teasing me about it. "The jukebox doesn't like you." lol. I do some consistently silly antics such as spinning around in my chair while singing "You spin me right round baby right round like a record baby right round round round" and "H" comments that she's having fun watching me be a silly boy. lol. She called me a silly boy. I responded by calling her a "silly headband girl." Don't ask. I was just coming up with random shit spontaneously, yet all the while delivered charismatically.

While I was talking to Frigid (the other dude left earlier) with my back turned to "H," Frigid tells me, "she's taken."

Chief: What?
Frigid: She just kissed that guy on the lips.
Chief: ...so?
Frigid: That probably means she's taken.
Chief: lol I don't care. I'll still number-close her.

8-ball in the corner pocket. I called it.

Frigid tells me that he's beat and he's looking to head back home. He's my ride. I need to go with him. It's 3:40 AM and closing time is getting near. I get "H"'s attention and call her over with a "come here" signal with my finger. She rolls her eyes like the silly headband girl that she is and (seemingly) reluctantly comes over. I tell her, "Hey, my friend wants to head out so we unfortunately cannot join you for food." She responds with disappointment. Clear IOI. She was pretty good at hiding her interest in me up until that point, even though she was kinda flirting with me in her own way with her teases and fake signs of disinterest throughout the entire night.

Chief: But, hey, we're friends now. I'll hit you up later. (I then hand her my phone and she punches in her number. I call her phone so she has mine. The number is real.)

On our way out, I tell Frigid, "I told you I'd number-close her. I assumed the sale lol." He's actually impressed that I was able to do it even after he saw her kiss some other guy. By the way, I got her number right in front of the guy she kissed.

I was pretty proud of myself. I never really gamed a bartender before. I just made friends with them to establish social proof in bars.

Impressive

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If you are able to get a day 2 then thats awesome. But I highly doubt it, hired guns are approached all night, she could have just been tired of coming up with excsuses to not give out her number.

I also wouldnt call her number after she gives you hers to see if its real. It comes off as needy. I would want to give off the vibe that I have a ton of women and I dont care if she gave me the right number or not. What if you call it and its the wrong number? How awkward would that be?

At a certain point like Tyler Durden says you can become a clown. Thats something you might want to keep in mind, her calling you a little boy may be a shit test or she just thinks your immature and giving you her number is safe because nothing is ever going to happen.


Just my opinion and I may be totally wrong, but no one else ever seems to give any critizim to any of my threads so I figured I would help with yours.

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READ THE HANDBOOK PLEASE BEFOR YOU RESPOND TO A GOOD THREAD WITH RUBBISH!

anyways... before i was so rudely interrupted..

That was good, it was ashame you couldnt stay to eat, but still very well done. Did you txt/call her after that or did she cal you to set up a day 2.. or a day 1 in this case cuz you never really got to spend comfort building time.. so i still consider it day 1

I wouldnt call Solomans' post Rubbish dude. Because what he said about Tyler Durden is true. You don't want to make yourself look like a clown, trying too hard to impress somone. Female Bartenders get hit on all the time, by all types of men, with good game or no game. Why do you think bars/clubs want to hire girls that look good? Because it helps promote the bar/club.

Now im not saying Soloman's words, word for word is true. I am glad that Chief got a number close...

But, Calling a number right then and there after a girl gives it to you is risky business. Hypothetically, what if you got a sex-hotline or somthing instead of her voicemail? I would think the best way to look "ALPHA" is to just get the number and bail like it was nothing but another notch in your belt. But I am not sure if you were trying to play the ALPHA role on that game. It doesn't seem so.

Also, it says under your name "_Chief_" that you live in New Orleans, and I'm sure the drinking age is still 21 there if I am not mistaken, and you state that you are 18, how would the OP get drunk at other bars? Now unless you have a beard like Father-Time, or they just didn't card you, I don't see this being possible.

http://www.la-legal.com/drinking.htm

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Dude, come on.
It's New Orleans and I'm in college. If I want to drink in bars, I'll find a hundred different ways to drink in bars.
It doesn't come off as needy unless you do it in a needy way. Try imagining this scenario where you would do this in a completely alpha and non-needy manner. If you can't imagine this, read and practice more alpha male stuff.
Badboy, a mPUA who focuses on Direct Game, actually instructs his students to call the number right after they get it. This way:
1. You make sure it's real.
2. She has your number.
It's important for her to have your number so that when you do call, she'll see that it's you calling and not some weird random number. She may not answer if it's just a random number she never saved. Her calling me a "silly boy" was her way of flirting. Her body language and eyes speak louder than her words.

ALright Chief, that explains it. Im glad you didnt take what I said in an offensive way because it was not meant to be. Good work.

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haha, if it is a sex hotline. Thats even better, cuz you can be witty and say, "idk if this is a subliminal message, but i dnt put out on the first date... u gotta work for that -wink-" at whihc point, i wouldnt ask for a #, but i would bounce her to a different location.. then id ask her if she knows any guys that i could hook up with.. i want to suck some major cock.. i want to stick my rod in some juicy man butt.. yes, i am openly homosexual.. in your case.. id move on that dinner date.. but ur friend was being weak.. so id leave it at that, freeze her out and see what happens using microcalibration.

Psh. Conscious use of microcalibration is child's play.

pshhh, I saw another thread and a guy asked a bartneder, "whose dick do you have to suck... (i dnt remember the rest). But Chief, who's dick do you have to suck to become a moderator when you suck at PUA. U cnt jump in without thinking, u cnt jump into water without knowing if that water is acidic, basic, or average. U might have a OK success rate at a club, ok.. but a PUA using the MM or microcalibration would AMOG you so bad.. its not even funny! Then you'd be a real "man" and get pissy or something.. and lower your value, or walk away and find another set, but wrecked half the room cuz you got AMOG'd and peopel saw.. so now u wrecked half the room and u should be lucky if the hired gun didnt see..

You're never going to get better at this art with that dogmatic attitude. There is no "magic bullet." There is no one "best" method. Oh, well. Not my loss if you can't open your mind.

I bet it's funny when guys with natural game come in and blow you MM guys out, cause we know all your lines, as they're published everywhere and half the girls in the clubs know them, cause they have heard them a dozen times that week. I know I find it funny when I blow MM guys out, so I'm gonna assume it feels that way on the receiving end too.

Oh, btw, stop acting like a child and show some respect for your fellow members and especially moderators or you'll find yourself banned pretty quickly. Yeah, you're big and tough and cool and I'm sure you know a ton about being a PUA and working a club, when you have stated that you're a junior in HS.

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~ Rye

You mean to tell me that a high school junior has been smack talking my game?
LOL
I never did take that guy seriously, but that's gotta be the last nail in the coffin of non-seriousness

I'll send him an official Ban warning over PM.