Hey Guys, Sorry for the long post, it involves three scenarios that happend in this one night out I had this week.
I went on a night out on Tuesday night this week which was halloween fancy dress and got drunk for the first time in months. When I'm drunk everything I've learn from pick up seems to be alot sharper or makes me more aggressive/confident in using it. I'm currently trying to "harness" this hidden knowledge when I am sober but its proving difficult.
Anyway we get to the club/bar after being at another bar where all the people I hang out with goto each week, and I immediately get stuck in excited to see what was on offer.
I see this guy who is standing with a couple of girls(HB8 and HB6) and go over to compliment this guys costume, I completely ignore the girls for a few minutes until they get invovled alittle, when the HBs got involved I chat abit of crap to them on how weak their costumes were compared to the guys and get them to qualify their costumes, unfortunately HB8 had a boyfriend there in the exact same costume he was in the toilet. There was other parts to the conversation something about a light on the wall cooking me (This is outside and the light is one of those that create heat) so I grabbed the HB8 by the hips and moved her into my position. Finding out that HB8 had a boyfriend, so I moved onto HB6, initiate kino quickly and escalate to a kiss just as she starts to chat shit about some guy that had dumped her today because he wasnt interested. Eventually she starts to say she needs to find her friends and she bails on me, I think I might have killed some attraction too when I said I could help her find her friends.
-I read something recently that says I should have just left her to it (something to do with Mystery Method?).
Anyway I recover from this and walk around the place bumping into a group of people I know from the first bar, In the group is a HB7 who had complimented me earlier in the first bar saying the tight shirt I was wearing made me look buff, I move over to her side didn't even know her name and I don't even remember saying much if anything before we started to make out. Not long after her friend wanted to go home, luckily one of my wingmen stepped in and stalled the friend alittle, I managed to number-close her and at that moment I remember sayin:
"Hey, I'm not this type of guy I don't do one night stands so give me your number and we can get to know each other better" I did get alittle needy asking her to take me back with her. I text her the day after but didnt get a response, was a crap generic text "Hey, its that amazing guy you met last night from blah, just checkin to see if you are still alive
by the way my name is blah x"
-It's been a few days tomorrow and I was thinking of possibly calling her to see if she will pick up, is this a good idea?
Still hungry for another hit and to feed my now hungry mind which has switched to wanting a one night stand I go hunting again, heading outside and bumping into another couple of guys I know, one of which never fails to pull woman and offered to be my wingman for abit after I bragged to him how I'd already made out with two girls.
We head onto the dancefloor and he opens a set of two smoking hot HB10s I try to wade in and hold out my hands for a fist bump, one responds. I was happy now as the HB10 I got was completely my type short, long blonde hair and shy. Within a few minutes I have kino started on HB10, her arms around my neck look into her eyes and she looks down shyly, I take my hand lifting her chin up and kiss her. All was going smoothly and I lose track of my wingman who I think wasn't so successful with his advances. Regardless I start to grind with this chick kissing her, gently rubbing up and down her back with my fingertips and kissing her neck, I tried to escalate alittle more but she was stubborn and shy, I tried to kiss/suck her bottom lip, I tried after awhile to get her to make out properly with tongues and also tried to putting her hand on my dick and arse, and I kind of regret doing the last two as it seems like the alcohol was making me more aggressive with my advances.
Then out of the blue what I think was her friend from earlier appears coat on and pushes me off HB10 dragging her away, I react alittle and hold onto HB10s hand as shes dragged away not too much grasp just enough that her hand slowly floats out of my grasp, her cockblock friend then turns around to me and says "Fuck off!" in an aggressive tone. Completely gutted that I hadn't managed to hear HB10 tell me her name 2 minutes before or even manage to number-close her. The bar/club was closing soon and I really couldnt build up anymore effort to go for a fourth, specially after losing the HB10.
I've tried searching the internet for answers as to why they all failed to go further and I think it comes down to me being way too aggressive with kino, I personally think that I need to kiss less and dance more and possibly change up it up abit as in move to another area of the bar where it's quieter, get to know my target, apply kino, break rapport and use some DHV.
My game has been really rusty recently after getting out of a 16 month relationship, Before then I had worked on learning Pick Up for a good 6 months before I met my first girlfriend and first ever lay. I did have a few kiss-closes before that and sometimes had similar problems like the ones mentioned above. I am also quite needy, am trying to change this as its one of the problems I overwhelmed my ex with, we broke up a month ago.
-Any advice which can help me I would be grateful to recieve. Specially if it helps me harness my drunk game when am sober.
CHAT