30 days challenge

ok 30 days challenge. 5 days in. I didnt bother writing the other FR cause I wasnt sure I was gonna stick with it but now Im pretty confident. I might make it a 90 days challenge or something but it might be unrealistic.

Quick bio:

I am french canadian, 19 yo, I live in Thailand cause I thought hed be cool to travel (it is pretty cool). For the next 3 months Im having this job that allows me to go out everyday. I also wanna use my opportunity to sarge in thailand. Cause it is quite different and requires differant skills. For some reason, I don't get laid that much more than in Canada. 3 differant girls in the last 4 months, but I didn't go out much. Ppl say it is easy to get laid in Thailand. I cannot say if it is true or not.

This guy post his number on a pua forum saying hes in bkk. Im like fuck so I text him. Hes like yeah I still live here. Im like awesome man and I call him 15 times in 2 hours but hes working. Anyway we end up meeting at starbucks.

Hes looks pretty chill. Good looking guy. Dresses ok. Better than me. I just dunno what to wear execept jeans and shirts.

We roll up to royal something avenue. Pretty cool place with lots of clubs. Its friday so its a venue where you cannot talk unless its in the others person ear. Its not the best place to have a normal convo and build comfort.

The 2 first clubs dont let me in cause im 19. The next one does. Damn Ive got to get a fake id.

Its 9 pm and the place is empty. We are the only ppl. Im in pretty good state already from doing small talk with everyone so I just talk to the staff. They have like 20 ppl working in there. They can afford it they prolly pay them 1$ an hour.

Then Im like fuck, lets go pick up chicks outsite and bring them inside.

I open a set outsite. Hooked pretty well using some random routines. I only know 2-3 routines and some negs/cold read so I do that. I dunno where to take it afterward (4 set, 2 guys 2 girls, outside the club). So I just try to sell the club and be fun/social. Then I leave.

Then some sets come in. On guy alone. I talk to him.

Then one guy and one chick. Not really hot. I talk to them. Doesnt really hook. They think im fun and like having me around and shit but shes not chasing me. Just giving me the polite IOI like where u from and shit. I dick around, talk shit. I know 2-3 attraction routines and I used them. Doesnt work much. I leave. Talk to my wing for a while, he says hes leaving to go bang that chick. In my head im like fuck man im gonna be alone, but I just say "cool man, ill see you later".

Then I open many sets, often by going up and introduing myself. I get blown out once, on like 20 sets or something. Ppl like me. The girls let me kino them pretty hardcore. Dance with me. But they dont chase me. I dunno why. its like my sticking point. I go in there, make a good impression, say some routine, kino, then it doesnt go anywhere and I eject cause I got nothing else to say... WHY????

My strategy is kinda like, make friend with everyone, have a good time, run around from set to set when they leave or I feel like leaving cause Im either bored or out of shit to say. I often reopen sets over and over. Espacially if they blown me out. I love it. Its like they are stuck into this club and im gonna open them over and over again. One guy wanted to kick my ass, some asshole stole my hat (that I previously talked a girl into giving me). I think there is some good to it, some bad. When I have a girl Im into Ill try not to leave and isolate, otherwise Ill just be like "ttyl" and come back to them just to pump my state. I try to merge sets but shit ppl are unsociable. And its hard to talk in those place anyway.

When I dont eject Ill often try to isolate. Did it twice I think. Possibly 3 times. I isolate pretty close maybe 2-3 meters from the group. I say something like, "hey im gonna show you something cool" " wait, are you smart?"

I always try to qualify, but I suck at it. Im like........ I dunno how. I use the stupid hoops from t_m_m. Man this is like my huge sticking point. Making her work for me. Cause she has to be attracted. I mean shes fucking isolated with me and leaning into me and shit. Shes just waiting for me to talk and say something. So how the fuck to I do that??? If I just improvise, Im just talking shit/having fun and this is going backward in the sarge.

At this point it must be like building rapport and qualifying her. HOW???????

Im gonna try to isolate outside or upstair or somewhere quieter. But it wont work. The girls wont isolate to far(I tried). Is it because I dont have enough attraction? I think going somewhere quiet is the key as its kinda stupid to tell a long ass story about your childhood screaming into each others ears.

We go out. 2 girls, 3 guys.

We eat at like 8 or something. I feel like shit, Im hungry as hell. I get my food. Start to feel good again. Start talking to ppl to get in state. We go shop for stuff at the market. I buy some ridiculous pink glasses. Theyre the shit. Im in state. We hit that pub. No HB but I talk to some ppl anyway. Everyone loves me. Its all good.

4 set. 1 guy 3 girls. I open the guy with hey whats up. Whats your name. Nice to meet you im Space. I neg/ignore my target. She is chasing me. Im ignoring her and doing some routines. Damn thats awesome. Shes really into me. But yet I fail to qualify or isolate and it just blows. FUCK!

Then we hit that super loud club. First set I open totally ignore me but I just plow through and lock in against the wall. Then end up leaving.

Second set is 3 girls dancing. I open them, they dont like me. I stay with them for like a good 5 min. Dance with them. I dont really know what to do or say to make them like me but Im like fuck im not gonna leave so I stay until I get bored. (keep in mind that its fucking loud, they cant hear me unless im talking into their ears. Any routine for this kind of situation, that I seem to find myself into quite often. I tried to reopen a couple of time with no success.

Third set is 3 girls dancing again. I open them but they can hear some shit I say so I transition with a cold read, they are a lot more fun then the other chicks. Yet I cant take it anywhere so I just dance with them do some small talk. I use some dancing shit that I do. Its really fun, playful and it involve the whole group so its cool. Some kino. But one question, on dance game, how do you get to grind hardcore with a girl? Ive done it before but it was very natural and I cant reproduce it consistently. Its like its up to the girl if she wants to grind or not. How do I make it happen???

Forth set is a chick alone. hb8-9 I dunno it was dark. I open her with "im gonna mek you my gf for the next 5min". Then introduce her to my friend (girl) They talk for a while and I think shes DHVing me. Then shes really into my friend (lol) and they start dancing. So I go up to her again and she hates me now. Whatever.

I come back a bit later and its thailand so the girl is kinda hot but she looks like she might be a ladyboy (shemale). So I go up to her and im like.... "hey... im pretty drunk.... I cant see very good.... but im wondering, are you a guy or a girl??" She laughs and say shes a ladyboy. (as she says it she makes a dick with her index finger where her dick should be). Im like "AWESOME MAN" and I hug her. Then shes like why do you think tis awesome?? Im like "cause we can have a dick fight" then I start the dick (index fingers) fight. Then its on. I can get some pretty good kino from her. We almost kiss as we talk but not really. I isolate by saying im gonna show you something cool, than I do an esp trick (1st time ever lol I was running out of idea). It worked!! Then I tried some qualification but she didnt get it. SHE DIDNT FUCKING GET IT. She was like "what... I dont understand..." FUCK FUCK FUCK how do I do comfort????????????Anyway I think I try to kiss her or whatever and she decides shes going back... but shes bringing me along!! Cool. We dance a bit than it fades away. Than my friends (her inculded) try to tool me and put ice in my pants and shirt. I dont react at all I just continu dancing and Im like "yeaaaaaaaaah".

I try to open a sitting set with my female friend winging. Worked for 2 min then she left and then started saying they were lesbian and just turned their back from me.

Then I wanna leave cause my voice hurt (fuck those loud club until next friday, im going to a normal bar tmro). But I see HBladyboy with some super handsome guy. Im 5 11 hes like 6 3. Hes dress fucking nice and he looks like a pimp. Im like....... yeah I dont give a shit about this girl but Im gonna AMOG this guy just for the heck of it. I roll up to them and Im like...

Me : Hey whats up man (kino him and put my hand up to shake, I also pu myself between him and the girl)
Him: ignore
Me : HEY WHATS YOUR NAME!!!!!!! (kino him even more)
Him : Im chode
Me : Yeah youre pretty good man, I love your shirt (kino even more, but he always kinos back, hes kinda smart)
Me: come here give me a hug (then give him a hug)

(at this point hes like wtf and I just turn back him and claw his chick)

I talk to her for like 5 min really close and when she saw that she was like WTF and she was really into me. Then I started talking nonsense cause I didnt know what to say then it slowly faded and she went back to that guy. I must say that I was 100% non reactive. The guy would like come and steal my glasses, shout at me, try to pull/push me. I think he tried to kiss me or something and I didnt even acknoledge him. Not one time I glanced at him.

Fun night, had fun messing with my friend and they love it cause im social and I introduce them to people.

but still same fucking sticking point........ isolating and qualifying/comfort in loud clubs. FUCK!!