| So Saturday night was the first night I've been out in the city since learning a bit about pick up without actually putting myself to the test, anyway was just enjoying a night out with my friends with pick up in the back of my mind, I'm confident but that disappears as soon as I see the competition around me, something I need help with.
We were in the queue for this club and to be honest I can't even remember how the conversation came about but while me and a friend were talking to this girl, 7/8 and I went straight in with a bit of kino touching her back having a laugh and she told us she was going to get in for free, I said 'Ohhh no, not another girl who thinks she has authority' she shot off and as we were paying to get in I could see she was really struggling to talk her way in. Thought nothing more of it until I felt a tap on my chest as she walked past me at the bar, naturally I didn't chase but when she popped up at the bar and we had good solid eye contact the tiny piece of a pua inside me jumped at it
i told her I was disappointed that she didn't just walk straight in, went straight in with kino again, touching her back, grabbing her wrist, and feeling her biceps along with the banter we were having, smacking out arses together, got her to by me a drink pulling her in by her neck when I was talking and pushing her away. Told her that I bet her Louis Vuitton bag was fake from a holiday in turkey to which we said no and tried to qualify herself, made her guess my profession and she got it spot on, turned out she was a dancer so I stood back and checked her out and complimented her on her figure... And biceps which I felt again. Asked her where she loved and told her that when she was back in the area I would take her out for a drink no to put her number in my phone to which she complied.
Things I learnt:
Nightclub isn't my game, I couldn't hear a thing
Should have gone for a few high fives when she guessed my job and span her when checking her out.
Never going to meet a decent girl in a nightclub
Should have took her somewhere quieter
My friends thought I was awesome.
Best feeling ever knowing I wouldn't have done that a month ago.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, I know that my game is day game or in a pub/bar but I just cannot get over my approach anxiety and self consciousness.
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