| Hello, my name is Alan, aka ChinoCochino, login name yello_fever. I'm 30 years old (as of today, happy birthday to me!) and from San Francisco and have been studying Game for the past three months, so I'm pretty new. I'm 5'3, Asian, so I'm not much to the eye, obviously. Since reading about pickup, I've had a few #closes and kiss closes, but they were pretty much all blurs and I never got a Day 2. I've read Mystery Method, Bang, and Day Bang. I have The Rules of the Game but haven't started it yet as I have two more non-PUA books to read first before starting this one. I bartend 5 nights a week, so I don't have too much time to sarge (and I don't really like to sarge on female guests since it's not professional). These three months of trying out pickup, I've gotten more numbers and makeout sessions than I could have ever imagined. I wish I knew about this community earlier.
I decided to type up a field report so I can use it in the future to see what I did right and wrong. So, here is my first one:
Day 1
On Tuesday 8/6/13 around 630p, I was at a bar restaurant with two friends. We are all bartenders, and one of us knew the bartender at this place, so they chit chat. After an appetizer and a drink, around 7p, two girls sit next to me. An overweight married Indian woman (the obstacle) and her good friend, a 34 year old Indian girl with a huge rack (the target), and HB7.5.
I open by asking what they're drinking, then they start talking about work. I neg them, saying "OMG that sounds really boring. But I bet you guys might be more fun at night." They ask what I do, then I gave them a grounded answer, which basically went like "When I was young, I wanted to be in the medical field. I became a biochemist, but the biotech industry got outsourced by people who looked a lot like you two (got them laughing hard), and had to bartend to make ends meet and ended up loving it."
I crack a few playful negs, the girls love me. My target excuses herself to the bathroom and I say "Are you going to miss me?" She giggles and goes to the bathroom. She comes back and I neg her again "Hey, you look familiar. Have we met before?" I run up to her and say "I'm just kidding," and give a huge hug and her a kiss on the cheek, and lock myself in.
After some chitchat, I excuse myself to the bathroom then come back. "Did you miss me?" She said "yea," and I signaled her to kiss my cheek. I look to the obstacle and say "I like your friend, is she a good kisser?" The obstacle says "I have no idea, I never kissed her." I look deeply into the eyes of my target. "Well, let's find out." We start making out, then I push her away, look to the obstacle, "Hm... I would rate your friend 6/10." My target laughs and I say to her "Let's try it again, shall we?" So we start making out again, she's much more aggressive this time. "Hm, 7/10. Good job. You better keep practicing so you can impress me on our first date!" Number close, then my friends have to leave, 730p.
(side note: A lot of kiss closes I have done, I generally made out with the girl until closing, and ALL these numbers were blurs. A non-PUA friend of mine told me that if I don't take her home after 20 minutes of makeout, it's best to do a false time constraint and leave the venue, which is what I did)
(side note #2: by coincidence, I actually bumped into the bartender of this place at a restaurant the next day. He jokingly says "You're turning my fine dining restaurant into a sleazy nightclub!")
Day 2
I did not contact her on Wednesday as I was texting a girl I gamed on Monday. On Thursday I decided to send some playful text messages, but no date set up. On Friday 8/9/13, I tried to sneak into Outside Lands but security is super tight this year, so I bail out and decide to get some food. My target, by chance, texts me what I was up to. Outside Lands happens to be in her neighborhood so we meet up at a bar nearby. After some brief reintroduction, we kiss, and she says "you know, my friend thinks you're a player, and told me not meet up with you. She has no idea that I'm with you right now." Thrown off guard, I say "She's absolutely right! After you, I have two more dates tonight!" She laughs hard, and says "so do I!". I think I dodged a bullet.
She says she has to work early tomorrow so she's only good for one drink. Long story short, we make out, we do some light petting (she let me feel her big tits under the bar and she had her hand on my cock). After running The Cube and Strawberry Game (which amused her a lot, since she's a psychologist), I convince her to stay for a second drink (compliance test!), and we're on the bar for another hour, then she says she has to go home, and makes it clear that I can't come in. LMR, so, I comply. The Giants game is on, so I freeze her out by paying attention to the game. She tries to get my attention by playing with my hair and rubbing my cock. As I'm paying attention to the game, she pulls my face and starts making out HARD and aggressive, biting my lip and hurting me a little bit. The bartender is obviously annoyed. As a bartender myself, I hate people who make out at the bar, and tonight, I'm disappointed at myself.
We eventually leave the bar to her apartment and started making out hard with her against a wall. She was wearing a trenchcoat and she wrapped it around me as my hands went up her shirt, playing with her nipples. She notices some college kids watching us, then said "we have to go home now." As I tried to walk inside her place, she says "I only have sex on the third date." I say "well, we made out on Tuesday. So is this the second date?" She says "well, that day was half a date. So now that our date is done, we're at date #1.5." I say, "so, i'll come over at your place next time, we'll make out and snuggle, I'll stay over. Then the third date will technically be the next morning?" Logic doesn't make any sense, but she says "yea. BTW, I love morning sex, especially right before work." We kiss, and depart.
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