Around this time last year i started a journal of how i will do this many approaches, go to the gym, study harder change my life.

I did 10 approaches for day and night game had no success and i gave up.

I said fuck pua lets sort my life out first.

So i did. A year has past lot has changed. I studied hard and this september i will start at a russell group university to study physics.

I have been going to the gym so much that im in great shape, toned and never felt so happy in my life. I have a part time job which is great and money is no longer an issue.

Lastly for my birthday i got a black bmw so im at the point of my life where my career is on track, i feel blessed and just happy (confidence is high)

Now im in my summer holidays and i want to game like never before. So i started this journal. My aim is to do 1000 approaches in the Uk by the time my summer finishes. I will post every single approach i do and evaluate it.

About myself:

Im a british asian 5ft 7-8 pretty good looking but i am very well dressed.

My weaknesses:

Virgin. I play video games too much. Shy and introvert not that great in banter (teasing)

My targets:

Build a rock solid game and understand what PUA is truely about. Be more like the gift, skills360, slywalker etc

Become a better human being.

I dont like to set targets with how many girls i want to sleep with etc

But 1 thing is for sure lose my virginity.

I want to start by talking about UK game. It is a complete different game in the Uk compared to other countries. Mystery method and what i have read from the game just wont work and you will get laughed at here.

You have to slighty change your game. I believe in the UK it is alot more about social circles and popularity which gives you the highest probablity to get that girl you want.

This is also a general comment but the girls here are alot more stuck up. They can smell bullshit from a mile away.

You have HB9-10's that obviously act as 9-10's. But here you have HB4-7's that also act like their HB9-10's.

Whenever you go to a a club the ratio of guys is higher compared to girls from my experience. And mixed sets are very difficult to pull of because the amount of cock blocking you get is ridiculous.

So what is the point to all this?

Answer: Im not complaining but what i have come to realise is one of the key aspects you need to have in your game here in the UK is screening.

Im not going to go giving advice about screening because i myself lack little experience but if you can screen then fuck me not only are you avoiding cock blocks but with a decent opener you have a serious chance of getting somewhere with HB's all the time.

Now another part that is so so so crucial is your opener. I will say it now situational openers work like a fucking charm here in the UK. i have already field tested this.

Dont even bother using opinion openers and direction openers with transition they are just terrible.

Thats where im going to stop. I will start my approaches tomorrow onwards a little nervous but i am sick of being a pussy now its time to learn.

Lastly when i am with my wing i will be trying this opener (the language opener)

i happen to speak 2 languages so this could work. I am going to field test this at least 10 times and post my results here.

Heres the language opener:

There were 2 cute girls walking towards us and I opened them saying

Me-Natka maka eha laorde sipa.(Speak whatever.)
Cute.1-What's he saying?
Cute.2-What?
Me-Kayle madole nika ora.(Speak whatever.)
Cute.1-I am sorry.
Niall-Hey ladies.Sorry about that,I'm his translator.
Cute.1-What's he saying?
Niall-Naka ma si mo de.
Niall-He is saying that,while he was talking with me,he saw you thought you were cute,so he came here to say Hi.
(Both girls smiles.)
Me-Aka ma si mo de Niraj.
Niall-He is saying that,"His name is Niraj."
Cute.1-I'm Susan.
Cute.2-I'm Carol.
Me-I was just fucking with you,I can speak English.
Both-Oh my God.
Susan-You.(Playful punch.)

It has almost been 3 weeks with no update and you guys must be thinking that I have given up but apologies as my laptop was broken and I finally managed to get a new one today.

Anyways 21st July 2013 was the last update (Sunday). That Mon, tues, wed, thurs = 0 approaches

27/07/13

Went to Sheffield for a night out and met with ryan and toby from the sheffield pua lair.

Set 1: Blonde Hb6 in the bar waiting to order drinks.

Me: Tequila or vodka? - -> (over my shoulder)
Hb: Vodka
Me: nahh i prefer tequila its way better

Talk logistics (i.e ask her where she's from, how old she is etc)
Conversation seems to be dieing

Me: Are you naturally blonde?
Hb: (smiles and laughs a little embarrisingly) no i’m brown
Me: really i think you would look cuter in brown - - -> this is where I lost it, could have said something better

She ends up leaving shortly after

Set 2 : Blonde Hb6.5 looking bored hanging with her friend (Hb5) close to a pillar

Me: I have a question to ask you
Hb: okay
Me: Do you find me attractive
Hb: (taken by suprise, looks at me for 2-3 secs, smiles) yeah

talk logistics

Me: A girl like you must have 3-4 boyfriends. A rich ass guy over here, a couple of playboys there right
Hb: (laughs) No i only have one boyfriend

This slightly threw me off. She was facing me (positive body language) smiling laughing giving strong eye contact, IOIs, basically she was really enjoying it and i'm not sure if she meant to say that. My gut feeling says that was BS but i don’t know.

Do i be more persistent or is there a way around this?! I end up leaving myself.

Set 3: Blonde Hb9 loitering with 2 friends

Me: I have a question for you
Hb: okay what
Me: Truth or dare
Hb: Truth
Me: Do you find me attractive
Hb: (taken by suprise, looks at me for 2-3secs) yeah sure

Talk logistics but i realise from earlier the Hb6 from set 1 was one of her friends sitting down. Learned my lesson and that is to drink less and be more focused when approaching.

She leaves shortly after but i was actually very happy because i had her curious, hooked about me and it stemmed down to the confidence.

Set 4: We leave to go to another bar. I see an Asian HB6.5 waiting to order drinks

Me: Vodka or tequila?
Hb: Vodka
Me: No i would rather go tequila

Talk logistics (she seemed hooked, interested)

Me: How old are you?
Hb: 24 i just graduated
Me: Guess how old i am
Hb: 19, 20, 21
Me: yep 21
Hb: You’re too young for me - - -> shit test

I hesitated I remember
Me: that just means I have a lot more stamina - - -> I think I lost it here simply because she's 24 graduated and she's not looking for something meaningless she's looking for a potential boyfriend/partner

And my response was rather a childish comment which showed I was not ready to be that man for her

Plus i realised i was too needy, asking too many questions, showing too much positive body language and in the end she says he has to go. A lot of lessons learned.

Set 5: Blonde Hb8 in the bar with her friend Hb6 about to order drinks
Blonde Hb8 is being approached by toby or ryan (can’t remember)

Me: (approach Hb6 over my right shoulder) your friend seems to be getting hit on
Hb6: Yeah i know laughs

i talk logistics (ask her name etc)

Me: a girl like you must have 3-4 boyfriends. A rich ass guy over here a couple of playboys over there right
Hb6: (bursts out laughing) no i don’t have a boyfriend <- seems fully interested but my interest was on the blonde Hb8

Next thing you know

Hb8 turns around joins our conversation. Hb6 introduces me talk logistics and both Hb's invite us to their table

Me: Truth or dare
HB8: (laughs) truth
Me: whats the most sexual thing you've done? <- not sure if this is a good line
Hb8: (intially looks at me like wtf) {sorry guys cant say this but involves sex)

We play more truth or dare, build a little rapport but i could have done a lot better with building a stronger rapport with her

Simply because i give her a dare which involves both of us going to the dancefloor. Next thing you know i hold one of her hands she complies, Then the other she complies. Hold strong eye contact. I lean in for a kiss she ends up hugging me deliberately to avoid it.

I believe this happened because i didn’t build enough rapport, thus the resistance!

I also forgot to mention that Hb8 says she is sort of seeing someone but its not gf bf yet. So if i had built more rapport, gained her trust more and impressed her more i could have kiss closed and # closed.

Overall:

Opened 5 sets, 995 remaining

0 kiss close

0 # close

Lots of lessons learned, confidence built and need to improve on boyfriend and age destroyers any suggestions guys!

28, 29, 30 and 31 July 2013 = 0 approaches

01/08/13

Went to a club in hull with a group of friends (all naturals)

Set 1: Blonde Hb6 chilling in the smoking area

Me: I have a question to ask you
Hb: yeah
Me: do you find me attractive?
Hb: maybe
Me: what’s maybe? its either a yes or no
Hb: i dunno, yeah probably
Me: what’s your name <- - very afc i know
Hb: blah blah
Me: i’m .....
Hb: i've never met a person called .....
Me: (cant remember what i said but i think this is where i lost it) Not sure what the best reply here is!

They end up leaving, tbh they looked underage so attraction was not really there

Set 2: 2 set, a Hb7 sitting down with a blonde hb8 dancing light heartedly

Me: Hey i have a question to ask you
Hb8: what? (she seemed kinda drunk)
Me: Do you find me attractive?
Hb8: i have a boyfriend
Me: i said do you find me attractive
Hb: do i think your attractive? <- - club was really loud
Me: yeah
Hb: i have a boyfriend
Me: yeah i'm really not suprised
Hb: why?
Me: why do think?

{2 sec pause hb looks confused}

Me: its obvious because you’re very beautiful
Hb: (sort of smiles)
Me: what do you do?

pause 1-2 secs

Me: Actually i will tell you what i do first. I am actually living my childhood dream and that is to become a pilot (this is true although i am going to university i have a place at OAA to start training after my degree)

Hb: (finally lights up smiles more) oh wow that's great
Me: so how about you
Hb: I study art

Here we talk about art, going to university etc

Me: so i’m sure you have seen titanic where leonardo di caprio draws a picture (should have said paints) of his girlfriend
Hb: yeah
Me: you're telling me you could do something like that <- - (i realise i could have said something better e.g you should totally do that on me)
Hb: of course

Me: damm you must be really good, how old are you
Hb: 18

Finally hb asks

Hb: how about you? <- - i didn’t realise at the time this was an IOI she asked in a curious way
Me: guess
Hb: 19,20, 21
Me: yep 21

I cannott remember what i said but i was sort of freezing running out of things to say here

Not to mention how awkward it was as i had my afc friends just staring at me along with the hb7 that was sitting down just watching our conversation

but i was happy with this because i tried to be persistent, did not care if she had a boyfriend and we ended up having a pretty decent 3min conversation

On another day this had the potential to have been a close

Set 3:: I’m in the bar about to buy a drink a blonde HB6 opens me

the club was packed and everyone was sweating

Hb: its so hot in here
Me: i know way too many people
Me: what do you think tequila or vodka
Hb: i don’t like any
Me: what why not
Hb: i just can’t drink it
Me: wow so how old are you
Hb: 17 about to turn 18
Me: how did you get in?
Hb: i used my sister's id shes 22
Me: i wanna see the id
Hb: (laughs and takes it out and shows me)
Me: you look just like her
Hb: (smiles)

Me: anyways what do you do?

We talk about going to university, results day, A-levels, sixth form (school/college)

She's asking me questions, giving me a good vibe and we're building really good rapport. At this point i’m starting to like her. She has a really cool personality, smart and she was more of a naturally beautiful hb.

Then my Afc friend comes in and cockblocks. He offers to buy her 2 shots and he's just being being loud drunk. I think he did this because he was not having any success and he seemed very jealous that i was talking to her.

I couldn't just butt in he was a friend so i let it go.

He manages to # close her and i say to him in a jokingly way nice cockblocking

He realises what he has done and immediately apologises. At this point i just laugh at him and since one of my goals is to be a nice human being i say "i’m actually glad because better to have one of us getting her number than for both of us to not get her number at all"

then i can sense that respect towards me.

Overall

3 sets opened 992 approaches left

still 0 # close

0 kiss close

Lessons learned, still have a lot to improve and one aspect of it is to approach more and more time is running out

2 August (friday) = 0 approaches

03/08/13

Went for a night out in sheffield with toby and ryan from sheffield pua lair.

Set 1: : First club was packed, music loud but i notice a red haired hb6

Me: i have a question to ask you
{Hb doesn't respond}
Me: do you find me attractive
Hb: no (first time ever lol)
Me: that was rude because i find you attractive
Hb: really (suprised tone)
Me: yes, what is your name?
Hb: does it matter

Me: why wouldn't it matter (failed should have come up with something better)

this is where in ends. Next time if hb says does it matter or doesn't give a name

Me: fine i’m just guna call you crystal
Hb: doesn’t respond or why
Me: cause your damm as hell crystal clear with what you say (hopefully opens her up)

Set 2:: Second club i notice Hb7 about to order drinks in the bar

Me: tequila or vodka
Hb: vodka all the way
Me: really tequila is way better

then i ask her name, what she does (logistics)

Me: truth or dare
Hb: (laughs) truth
Me: do you find me attractive (delivery was poor, not enough strong eye contact and incongruence)
Hb: maybe (hesitantly)

and then eventually then she leaves.

Those were the only two sets i opened. My game was off. Clubs were packed, music was super loud and it just got to me a little.

Overall

2 sets opened 990 approaches left.

What i have learnt is to continue approaching as many sets as possible. This will eventually make me become de-sensitive to rejections.

Part of pua is rejections and this aspect of my game needs to be solid so it does not affect my night outs.

Need to start day game.

Cooool! But I wish some people would comment on what you say and suggest better things.

I think you should find a diffrent answer for when the girl asks you how old you are. Don't go with the ''Guess''. I do it aswell also. But maybe their is something betters?

And for the whats your name. Does anyone knows some other cool way to like ask that with a assumption or statement or something?

And I think you should learn a few routines to build rapport! Would help you massivly since you already get into conversations nice.

Try the number thing with ''pick a number between 1 and 4 now, you got that? hold it. (ask a question ) it was 3 wasn't it.
And then do the same one with the 1 to 10 maybe wich is 7 90% of time.
And learn the 5 lies game! Its just something diffrent then most people do. Really works!

Thanks for the feedback. I read somewhere in the forum that the best way to ask "how old are you" is

me: how old are you, I need to know if your within my limits (immediately smile after)

Scenario 1) I think the key here is delivery. You can pull off that "cocky-funny" which can make her laugh.

Scenario 2) If you don't deliver it right you come off as a creep who just hits on girls within an certain age lol

And for what's your name I usually say

me: I'm ...... {offer a handshake}
(but I don't ask for her name I wait for her to comply my handshake and for her to say their name)

I don't know why but I don't like hand shaking it just doesn't feel right (gives you that "im a stranger" vibe) lol

Any suggestions to this or any criticism! Lastly yes I need to learn 1-2 routines for building rapport always seem to get them hooked but then the attraction fades and the interaction is lost.

I will try and add some of the routines i use in my upcoming reports