What I have been doing over the past 6 months is throwing high class parties at the house I rent. It's the perfect venue, cause it's large enough to fit 100 people, has a water view, there is a DJ and a Grand Piano, Plus I paint, so the house has sexy paintings of woman on many of the walls.

Throwing a party on your own turf definitlly lends to great DHV! Plus everyone wants to talk to the host. As the host you are always on the move, so now the ladies are "lucky" if they get any of your time.

A few of my friends helped me plan this party... the "Anti-Valentine Party". We had a DJ come out, decorations, low light, and lots of drinks!

This report is focusing on just one of the nights accomplishments.
So there is this sexy HB7... others said she was an HB8, but who is counting? I had met her briefly before that night... so I spent a few moments catching up, and then rushed off to greet other attractive women. Through out the night I would stop by, and offer a few moments of my time, even brought attention to one of my paintings.
That is the point when she latched on. All night I had created an element, of casual interest... now she started a full pursuit.
I pulled away hinting that we would have time later to conversate.
Around 1 am, I lead her away from her friends, and onto the dance floor. With-in moments she grabs my collar and leads me upstairs toward my occupied bedroom, we then detour to the restroom.
I didn't fully close her, rather we broke the towel rack and pushed everything off the counters (Her heal marks are still on the walls) Afterward she looked deep into my eyes and implored me to call her. So I handed her my phone and told her to enter her information. I did that because I wanted her to jump thru my hoop before I jump into hers. Also I didn't remember her name so I saved face by having her enter it.

The main reason I am writing this field report is to illustrate the power of putting on your own event! You have instant status, and control. Opening sets is not a concern... just aim yourself at one, and they will open you!

I actually use a site called http://www.MixerMixer.com to set up these events, and find people to come to them. This is the easiest way to meet woman. Just create events, and of course utilize the pick-up arts! (That site isn't much to look at, but they are revamping it)

I would love to hear if anyone else has had good experiences from throwing parties.... I usually come away with 5 or 6 numbers, and a few kiss closes.

Thanks for reading

Josh(ua)

Photo's from the party > http://www.flickr.com/gp/7402029@N04/x14bVK

Here's my FR from the same party.

I had gotten there way earlier in the day to discuss some business stuff with Art1st, which I figured was a big advantage. Being at the party before any HBs arrive gives you an advantage, I think. They're coming into unfamiliar territory where you have already made yourself comfortable, so your confidence is a bit higher than theirs. Instead of you having to be introduced to everyone in one gulp because you've arrived late, you get introduced to them one at a time as they come in in dribs and drabs.

So later I hang on the patio for a while outside with a squad that includes 2 HBs sitting around the fire, we're sharing MUNI (San Francisco bus and tram) stories, I tell one story to paint me in an alpha male light where I got the better of a bozo who was making everyone trip over his legs (I accidentally-on-purpose kicked them into next week as I walked past him). It gets a good reaction, then there's a bit more fluff talk and I go back inside.

I hang by the drinks. Now there's this guy who's a PUA (in an LTR, but his GF wasn't there) and we discussed tactics and compared notes earlier. He had set himself up as a pseudo barman by standing behind the drinks table and proudly announcing himself to every person (not just HBs) who approached the drinks table: "Hey! What can I get ya?" I thought that was a great move and he recommended I try it.

I made a mistake around about this time by drinking a glass of red wine. I'd already gone cycling that morning and hadn't had a nap, so my energy levels were a bit low to begin with. The wine didn't help, it made me a bit drowsy and threw me off my game.

After a bit of standing and feeling like an AFC by not mingling more, I went back out the patio where I saw an Asian HB8 sitting by the fire and looking disconnected from the rest of the conversation. I pulled up a chair and announced that I was going to keep her company because she looked a bit lonely. She didn't mind. Five or ten minutes worth of fluff talk and a handful of negs later I suggested we go inside for a drink, and she followed me in like a good girl.

She remarked that we were now standing in a bad place where people were brushing by us so I recommended a quieter spot, and again she followed me. Some people were going upstairs, we noticed this, so I got her to accompany me and see what was going on up there. We went upstairs into Art1st's bedroom that had become something of a chill-out lounge, so we hung there for a while. Convo was good here, I'd drunk some diet coke to get some caffiene into my system and wake me up.

At this point I was sitting on the bed with AHB8 and HB8 on either side of me, and when the cameras started clicking I insisted on getting a photo with these two, and then I insisted on getting a photo with both of them kissing me on the cheek. They dutifully complied.

Next thing I remember was dancing downstairs with HB8, and we later went back upstairs for more conversation with her and a HB7 sitting to my right on the bed. I lay back and let HB7 emulate my position as the conversation continued, but fuck it was all fluff talk, even though we were lying side by side and getting very comfortable.

So I tried to go for a # close with HB7 but the best she could do was let me know where she was gonna be the next evening (at a reading in a bookstore near my house) and I said I might join her for that. (I didn't bother in the end.)

HB8 needed a lift home so I took her home, but on the way she mentioned that she had a BF.

Not a great outcome, but some lessons learned.

1 - Manage energy levels over the course of a weekend. I'm not 21 anymore, so I have to ration the energy between working out and sarging. Naps are going to have to become a part of this lifestyle.
2 - Stay off that f***ing drink for it kills the game no matter how little you have.
3 - Work more on inner game and have multiple threads at the ready. Lack of practice and lack of homework can make you rusty at this shit.

Thanks for hosting, Art1st. I'll let you know when my roommate situation is back to normal and I'll get busy hosting at my place.