Ok...this is my first post on this site.I am a dancer...so in club(night game) i do always great(kiss close,phone number and all the stuff) but my day game sucks(i think is beacause i'm sober )
Today was my second date with this HB8.First I met her at a club,a little bit of dancing..I contact her at facebook asking for a date and she accepted.First date was relative ok..I started with a cheek kiss and finishing at the same way.I didn't do very much kino but I'm glad because was not that awkward silence.I ask her for a second date about one month ago but she reject me because she have some work to do,I tried again a few days later-reject,and again a week later-reject(i was thinking I don't even need to try she just don't want to go out with me) .In these month I talked to her but i didn't asked again for a date.Anyway 2 days ago she asked me for a date,and we decided to go out today:).All good,at the beginning a cheek kiss..in the next hour and a half we talked(i do her the greek gods routine,a little bit of kino),she gave me some major IOI's.When was time for living i grab her hand(because we need to walk about 10 minutes until we separate and I was thinking to do more kino because maybe at least i can get a lips kiss)..we walking like that about 2 minutes but she removes her arm and take her phone in the hand...(in my mind I was like"fuck that shit'' and i don't even tried more because I really like that girl....I don't want to mess up)..Anyway at the goodbye..again cheek kissing
I know you guys have more experience and I just need some advices.Anyway I think she likes me but is a little bit shy.I'm at the beginnig at that PUA process and want to know i did wrong so please guys help me.

If you can manage to get another date with her, at some point early in the date neg her (Style's lint neg).

As the scenario gets just a little awkward for her, go into a quick DHV. Which DHV is up to you. Just don't come off try hard or like a braggart. You essentially want to redistribute the social status in your favor so you upset the balance with a neg and a DHV.

Does she IOI after your DHV?

If not, neg her again, about her nails. Remember, do it politely. "Your nails look nice. Are they real?"

No matter what she says she loses a little face. "Yes they are real" "Oh...well...that's nice." "No, they are fake "Oh...well, they're still nice."

Then DHV again. This sounds like a lot more trouble than it really is. It's like a computer program with ifs and elses. It's a loop.

if woman does not IOI after you DHV { IOD/Neg-DHV }

else woman gives an IOI after you DHV { give her a compliance test }
if woman does not comply with complaince test {start over, IOD/Neg-DHV }
else woman complies with complaince test { Give the woman an IOI or SOI and move into A3 material

Example: You two sit down at the dinner table and you reach across the table and pick a piece of lint out of her hair. You say "No big deal". To you, nothing is a big deal. Let her feel the social anxiety. Immediately go into a short DHV story (use whatever suits your personality) Look at her mannerisms. Is she smiling at you? Is she paying attention to what you have been saying? Are you unsure if she is giving you indicators of interest? Whatever the case, try a complaince test with her. Say, "Hold your hand up like this"
If she isn't complying, then say "I was just wondering about your nails. Are they real?" If, however she complies with your test and holds her hand up, stand her up from her seat and stand up from yours and move her slightly away from the table and say "Now do a little spin". Lead her in a spin and say "You look wonderful. You are rewarding her IOI and compliance with your own IOI/SOI. Pull her into you and smell her hair while you give her a little squeeze and then push her (gently) back toward her seat. As you both sit back down, look her in the eyes and try to maintain eye contact with her for around 30 seconds while you give her a sly smile.

You've kino'd, you've built compliance, you've essentially passed A3 and into C1. Spend the rest of the date building comfort with her.

I could go into very elaborate detail and spoonfeed you the interaction, but I think this is all pretty self-explanatory.

So, best of luck.

Oh, by the way...I think you posted this in the wrong section. Just saying.

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That's my $0.02

-Bluesy

Thanks men..just one question.When i can kiss her?I was reading somewhere''after you get 3 IoI's''.At the date i get minimum 3 IoI's but still i was sure that was not a moment for kissing.Sorry,maybe is a stupid question but i just want to figure out.

Just ask her "Would you like to kiss me?" and then smile.

If she says yes, kiss her.
If she says maybe, say "Let's find out" then kiss her.
If she says 'not here' or 'not now' then she wants it to be private but she does want a kiss. Wait until you are both alone.

If she says 'no', then say "I wasn't saying that you could. You just looked like you had something on your mind"

Plausible deniability and 3/4 of the time you get the kiss.

If she says no, then recite the "wasn't saying" DHV, check for IOI's then test for compliance and run Style's Evolution Phase shift. Get her engine revving.

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That's my $0.02

-Bluesy

nice...thanks