Hi Guys I'm new to this only began sarging for the past 2 weeks after reading the game. Right after finishing the book have I gotten so interested in mastering the efforts of being a PUA . Just the other night I apporached a two-set and began with a simple opener. I then threw the neg at the girl I wanted with the hint of a smile, she bought it and so I continued pushin her away whilst talkin to her friend. Everytime I get to this point I tend to lose the conversation and fall into a point where i ask the same stupid questions such as, "What do you do?". Any suggestions?

You have to capture her essence or what she likes, in other words her passion, people love to talk about theselves and if you can find out what she likes shell keep talking to you. You should also learn some stories which can always be usefull to keep the convo interesting. Topics of debates there always good for you can through lots of negs within these such as should guys always pay for meals, do you think its right that women were make up what do you think about guys wearing it, do you believe in aliens, what do you want to do when you grow up it doesnt matter about what you are talking about its just the feeling that you give her so keep her interested work on your body lingo and tonality and youl do fine. The more you try the better you get.

To get started. instead of what do you do.

Say "what do you like to do when you're not working"

"What do you like to do for fun?"

I try to avoid the 'what do you do' question.

I say "so what's YOUR passion then?"

Emphasise the 'your' because it implies that you yourself are a passionate person who's passionate about something and want to compare notes.

If you want to get into "what do you do" you can use Mystery's "so what do you want to be when you grow up, and dont say princess"

You can always modify that to, "so whats your goal in life? Dont say becoming a princess"

Just a thought

I would try to not asking too many questions about her basic life. It might seem like you are trying to qualify her for yourself or something, also. And, It sounds like you have the first couple of steps down sort of okay, but what makes you think they are going well? Are you getting any IOIs, any hair pulling, are they touching you, do they lean in? What I think you should try, and I am no pro by any means, but I think you should try to say something that messes with their emotions a little, you know, something to stir the stuff on the bottom of the pot up.

Include them in one of your special esp readings, get them to explain something about people to you, any fun little anything that you show them will make you better then 98 percent of the guys in the bar, if not all of them.

Dont let your destiny rest on one set though. You need any female in that place on your side, tall, small, big, wide, lesbian, hot, ugly, it doesnt matter. Make friends, then you have a safety zone to run back to, or to look interested in. Its like your home base, your re-fueling and planning station.

The game is a great first book, but grab some books on body language, read the 48 laws of power, basically any information is better to have then to not have, and I think that hte more you read the more natural it will become.

Good luck my friend,
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Confidence + Assertiveness + Playfulness = Sexiness

this is a thread on the forums here. It may help with your conversations.