Ok so im johnny, im 22 yrs old good at opening and approaching. Decent at body language. Now i want to conciously understand what i am doing when i am successful with women. I'm good with opening, and am real comfortable at being sensual and sexuality when i get the cue that they are into me. I need help with concious attraction and rapport. I'm good with opening, cocky funny, sexuality. Here's how my first approach went with a girl who worked at hooters i opened up at midnight at sheets gas station saturday night. Ps. She had a dress on and was about to go out, no she didn't have her work clothes on.

I saw her and without thinking i open her up in less than 3 seconds.
Me: (Smile) Hi, i'm actually bout to leave. But i wanted to say hello.
Me: Hi i'm johnny. Whats your name?
Her: Sarah
Me: What are you up to tonight?
Her: Just got off work.
Me: Where do you work?
Her: Hooters, yeah it was packed because of some huge fight tonight.
Me: Oh you must be talking about that mayweather fight , awesome i love boxing.
Me: Your a waitress right?
Her: Yes
Me: Well i'd probably only give you like 50cents but since your cute, i might add a couple bucks.
Her/me : We both laugh
Me: Listen , i only came over because your cute. Give me your number and we'll hangout sometime.
Her: Smiles blushes and says i have a boyfriend.
Me: Ok, well listen there is show going on next weekend at this bar. You should come, and you can even bring your boyfriend along.
Me: I smile at her am confident and ask her have you ever been there before?
Her: Yes.
Me: Ok i'll see you there next weekend. Nice meeting you.
Her: Ok, you too:)

I've new to this but a couple things just clicked. Wow it really does open your eyes when you actually review the whole conversation. I can see where i might have made some mistakes and by not getting her number to meet up with her. Next weekend. She was smiling and we were both enjoying the conversation. Funny thing is another guy after me tried hitting on her. SHE SHOT HIM DOWN. I also noticed she was not into the interraction as much as she was with me. I just went and waited in line with my boy and just ignored the interaction and left. I felt real solid and confident though. Just that 3 second rule and the Just go for it rule freed my mind from thinking what might happen and what might not. Awesome. I learned somthings and moved on.