Alright so one week ago sarging at the mall. (well trying to). #close this HB7. In the process of closing her she admits she has a boyfriend. I was so excited that I was actually getting a number so I said something along the lines of "well nothing wrong with meeting new friends". MISTAKE ONE.
Last week plus seven days and a couple flirtacious text messages 7 invites me out to some club with her. I do the I've already got plans tonight (which I didn't) but I'll try to stop by, (pro1). I get there and walk the club not really to meet up with her but to see if their was any potential. I decided that their was some but not alot. After a beer and a lap I head for the bathroom. Coming out from the bathroom I see the 7, I do the Joey Tribiani "how you doin?". She grabs my hand and drags me onto the dance floor and we're dancing like they were filming "Dirty Dancing 3". I ask where her boyfriend is and she introduces me to her girls instead of answering the questions (most of em were 6's). We make small talk and dance a little more (I LOATHE dancing btw). By now I had finished my second over priced Mexican beer and she insists that we get another drink. Two is good for me so I said I'll pass. I walk with her to the bar where she orders two Mai Tai drinks. We're making small talk by the bar and I could sort of tell that she was worried about something, then some drip of a guy walked up and they started talking, it looked like it could have been a boyfriend type. So I decided I didn't want to create anymore drama and I walked away to find some prey. One thing I noticed at the clubs is that after an hour goes by the good hunters have already identified their prey and are working on a take down strategy. Me on the other hand am left with some fruity drink in my left hand and my cock in my right. GOTTTA meet someone tonight. I approach a threesie and open with the relationship opinion(first time I've used it) worked golden. However 2/3 of the threesie were already trashed so it worked on a onesie but I bet if the other two were sober they'd have jumped in. The 1/3 who I was talking with gave her opinion and I kept coming with questions and comments, we got a real good conversation going until her man (boyfriend type) came up and I exited gracefully. Then I approach a twosie with the opinion "black magic"I guess it worked alright but not really. I talked with them for a while and decided I want to #close. (This is where I failed). We started talking and it was alot harder to maintain a conversation with these girls than the first approach I did. But I managed to maintain intelligent word exchange. One of em was a 4 and one was an 8 (8's seem to always have a fat four friend). Anyway so we're talking and then their song plays and they start dancing I say let me see a show. The HB8 laughs and does her best to impress. The fat4 starts dancing with the server. I am sitting down(mistake,should have taken the opportunity to get close to the 8 while she was dancing). I think once I sat down I must have seemed boring because they were up dancing and maybe my body language said boring. I must have hunched a little, plus I think I held my drink in front of me instead of on the side. Plus I didnt do the "I have to go soon" so maybe they started to feel uncomfortable since they didn't know when they'd be getting rid of me. We talk for a little while and then I decided to do a forced number close, "we should hang out!", "yeah we should", "whats your numbers","no". I brush it off small talk again. The 8 was definitely interested but the fat4 had an unstoppable defense. So I turn to the 8, when I should have turned to the 4 to gain raport and I small talk for a little while and ask what her number is. She just looks at me and shakes her head. I say well it was very nice to meet you, see y'all later. And I left. Without a number.
PRO's: Opinion openers are good. It made my approach so much easier.
PRO's: Peacocking does work.
PRO's: A prolonged smile and open body language does get noticed by the right people.
Con's: One should never ask twice for a number or email.
Con's: Make sure to think you have to get back to your friends in the initial approach.
Con's: Intercept the fat4 and the hb8 is good 2 go!

I didn't notice it but I realize now that I should have stood my ground instead of walking away twice just cause some dude walks up and does the cock block.

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