Sup bros I'm Great-1 and I am in it to win it.
I've been learning this stuff for about a year and a half. Its a long long journey and I'm actually not in any rush to become great at this stuff (anymore). I used to have such a thirst and desperation for pick-up and techniques that it actually fucked my whole game up. I have read pretty much anything I can get my hands on about pick-up. I read countless books on body language, pick-up, voice projection, social dynamics and how to become an alpha male. I have learned alot about myself and the greater world.Truth is
I FUCKED UP ALOT I MEAN A SUPER LOT I don't think I'm qualified to teach pick-up but I KNOW THIS, I can help you get better quicker so you don't have to go through all the pitfalls.
The things I will discuss are what I have learned so you don't have to LEARN them the hard way as I did.
Week #1 Calibrate
See I realized very early on that this isn't something you can run from ...unless you become gay. Your always gonna see attractive women everywhere. Women are literally everywhere. I suppose you could become a monk and learn how to humm really loud but still your always going to have sexual desires. So as angry and upset as I became its is inescapable
I HAVE TO GET GOOD WITH WOMEN. As I said earlier I tried to read every single thing I could get my hands on. This lead to my continual depression and frustration. I was spending outstanding amounts of time reading about pick-up. I spent my money on books for pick-up instead of eating. I was on this forum reading every single thing I could. I was bugging more experienced guys so much they stopped responding to me on this forum. Then one day I decided to take my search to the internet at large. Which led me to Youtube. Which led me to a video by DJ fuji. In this video Fuji says "if your not approaching 20 sets a week how do you expect to get good at this".
"Ohhh now I get it, I just need more experience" See I read so fuckin much that I was so busy reading i had forgotten to practice. So out I go into the world talking to this girl and that girl. I was chasing so much tail but I still wasn't getting the results I wanted. Don't get me wrong I got better, much better in fact without all this grunt work I wouldn't be here today. Unfortunately I still wasn't getting the poon I wanted.
See I am a college kid. I live in a town where there are at least 60,000 college kids. I didnt really drink or party but i wanted one night stands and fuck buddies. Well the heavy physical game you run during the night in order to obtain lots of "hit it and quit it"s doesnt work well in the day. In fact it just makes you a creeper to walk up on a random girl and and start holding her hand and trying to slap her ass. Also the game I was reading wasn't meant for college it was meant for hookups in clubs with big cities where you wont see the girl ever again. In college, you run into the same people over and over again. Basically I got a rep as a creeper and a player. But the only pussy I was playin was myself

. That reputation hurt me a little but since its such a huge college SPAM thankfully I could recover. I started reading "conquer your campus" by Mark Redman and its been working.
Basically it wasnt that I was doing it wrong. It was that I was doing the wrong things in the wrong places. The game that works at day won't work as well at night. The game that works in a small town won't work as well in a big town or vice versa. The game that works for me won't work for you. Every PUA is different and every situation is different. I wasted a whole year learning the wrong stuff. Some of the best words said to me were these " I can't tell you exactly what you need to do Picasso cant tell Dali what to paint and vice versa". Basically you have to adapt to every situation. You have to adapt to yourself.
The best creation isnt the one you copied, its the one you made your own.
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