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 Post subject: Great-1:Growth
PostPosted: Thu Apr 04, 2013 1:40 am 
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Sup bros I'm Great-1 and I am in it to win it.
I've been learning this stuff for about a year and a half. Its a long long journey and I'm actually not in any rush to become great at this stuff (anymore). I used to have such a thirst and desperation for pick-up and techniques that it actually fucked my whole game up. I have read pretty much anything I can get my hands on about pick-up. I read countless books on body language, pick-up, voice projection, social dynamics and how to become an alpha male. I have learned alot about myself and the greater world.Truth is I FUCKED UP ALOT I MEAN A SUPER LOT I don't think I'm qualified to teach pick-up but I KNOW THIS, I can help you get better quicker so you don't have to go through all the pitfalls.
The things I will discuss are what I have learned so you don't have to LEARN them the hard way as I did.

Week #1 Calibrate
See I realized very early on that this isn't something you can run from ...unless you become gay. Your always gonna see attractive women everywhere. Women are literally everywhere. I suppose you could become a monk and learn how to humm really loud but still your always going to have sexual desires. So as angry and upset as I became its is inescapable I HAVE TO GET GOOD WITH WOMEN. As I said earlier I tried to read every single thing I could get my hands on. This lead to my continual depression and frustration. I was spending outstanding amounts of time reading about pick-up. I spent my money on books for pick-up instead of eating. I was on this forum reading every single thing I could. I was bugging more experienced guys so much they stopped responding to me on this forum. Then one day I decided to take my search to the internet at large. Which led me to Youtube. Which led me to a video by DJ fuji. In this video Fuji says "if your not approaching 20 sets a week how do you expect to get good at this". "Ohhh now I get it, I just need more experience" See I read so fuckin much that I was so busy reading i had forgotten to practice. So out I go into the world talking to this girl and that girl. I was chasing so much tail but I still wasn't getting the results I wanted. Don't get me wrong I got better, much better in fact without all this grunt work I wouldn't be here today. Unfortunately I still wasn't getting the poon I wanted.

See I am a college kid. I live in a town where there are at least 60,000 college kids. I didnt really drink or party but i wanted one night stands and fuck buddies. Well the heavy physical game you run during the night in order to obtain lots of "hit it and quit it"s doesnt work well in the day. In fact it just makes you a creeper to walk up on a random girl and and start holding her hand and trying to slap her ass. Also the game I was reading wasn't meant for college it was meant for hookups in clubs with big cities where you wont see the girl ever again. In college, you run into the same people over and over again. Basically I got a rep as a creeper and a player. But the only pussy I was playin was myself :oops:. That reputation hurt me a little but since its such a huge college SPAM thankfully I could recover. I started reading "conquer your campus" by Mark Redman and its been working.

Basically it wasnt that I was doing it wrong. It was that I was doing the wrong things in the wrong places. The game that works at day won't work as well at night. The game that works in a small town won't work as well in a big town or vice versa. The game that works for me won't work for you. Every PUA is different and every situation is different. I wasted a whole year learning the wrong stuff. Some of the best words said to me were these " I can't tell you exactly what you need to do Picasso cant tell Dali what to paint and vice versa". Basically you have to adapt to every situation. You have to adapt to yourself. The best creation isnt the one you copied, its the one you made your own.

I'll be updating this once a week

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PostPosted: Fri Apr 12, 2013 8:40 pm 
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week 2 Masculinity

I never really knew the important of masculinity. I never really thought that it was one of the pillars of game but it is in fact the underlying relationship between man and women. A man is supposed to protect and provide for a woman. Basically masculinity is the energy of strength. A masculine man is confident. The guy you envision yourself as is confident. Confidence is a dominant emotion basically it underlies all of your interactions and vice versa. When you are confident you know what you want and you believe that you'll get it. If your a confident man you will get what you want in fact your surprised when things DON'T go your way. Where this comes into pick-up is that you assume the girl is attracted to you. You assume that shes going to fuck you. That she wants the dick! Of course she wants you. Your the fucking shit. This is how I am now framing my self confidence because its true.

A masculine man is dominant. When you step to a woman your talking to her as a man woman relationship. I was contemplating why i was stuck in friend zone with some of my targets and it struck me. I never ever approach these girls as a man and a woman. I always approached in a needy, friend like, timid approach. That's not how a leading man approaches a woman. You have to be comfortable being sexual with her and touching all over her. Your a man shes a woman your dominant , she wants and needs a man to take control.
To tell her what to do and when to do it. To lead her places and touch her in a way that a MAN touches a WOMAN expect her to bend to your will, women want to be dominated. In fact being a gentleman and nice guy doesn't give a girl fire in her loins because of just this. Your trying to please the woman. A high status guy doesn't go around trying to please people, he rewards people for pleasing him. He encourages people to do the things that he wants. Women love a dominant in control man.

I was afraid to escalate but really escalation anxiety is stupid. That girl has fantasies about a man claiming her and taking possession of her. turning her over and fucking the shit out of her. Be the man women want to be around be confident and be dominant.

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 Post subject: Re: Great-1:Growth
PostPosted: Fri Apr 12, 2013 8:43 pm 
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on a side note escalation is game

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 22, 2013 3:42 pm 
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When you walk around everyday how do you percieve the world. Do you percieve yourself as an actor playing your role in the world? Are you a member of the supporting cast? are you the leading man? is your role a role of never ending drama? or are you the mediator? or maybe your even the director? The mindset and perception that you take on in your day to day activities is key to your sucess. If you take a look at most successful people they have a stupid amount of confidence and a mindset that they are the best regardless of statistics or failure or current situation. They believe in themselves, they arent insecure or needy because they know that they are THE SHIT. I was watching a video by Julien from RSD and he specifically speaks of how he assumes attraction. Basically she already likes him before he even said a word and guess what in the end she ends up attracted to him. I adopted this mindset and boom I started noticing women looking at me more and becoming more attracted. I think alot of us blow out because we are looking for signals and feeding off signals or IOI's.
remember when you kinda thought a girl liked you but then when it all boiled down to it somewhere you fucked it up and she ended up losing attraction for you. Part of it, atleast in my case, comes from the fact that I was always constantly trying to reaffirm that the girl liked me enough for me to go for the kiss or go for the date. Which is stupid! Do you think james bond or Van wilder or any of those pussy slaying guys wonder if girls like them? Do you think that they are just constantly concerned with IOIs to proceed and pursue? The answer is NO they know that its on from the start and they go ahead and own the pussy. You have gotta claim it and own it which is a dominant mindset.

Besides women are pretty cruel and lots of times they will completly blow off and just not talk to AFCs or guys when they dont like them. If she is actively talking to you and hasnt run away yet then she likes you. period! basically assume shes attracted to you at all times.

I adopted the mindset that when I walk around during the day i'm a celebrity. Everyone wants love from me and I give plenty of it. I show tons of love to people and whats starting to happen is more people are starting to want to hang out with me and chill with me. I've got tons of freinds and people I know and they all seem to want a piece of my time. Its because I have became the man I want to be around. I started to act like somehone who is the answer to all of their prayers.

This form of confidence will effect your entire life. You gotta believe that your a celebrity and your the man and your the guy that they need. YOUR THE BESTI started to believe I was the best at basketball. I was the best ladies man I kno. I was the best student in the world. The best employee. And not only did I believe it I started working hard like I was the best and INSTANTLY I saw results.

Basically yoru the man, ALL the the girls want YOU! everyone wants to be around YOU!

part of it is mindset
part of it is proof
to yourself and the people around you

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PostPosted: Mon Apr 22, 2013 3:47 pm 
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Sexual tension
I have constantly wondered why I cant get the kisses or the sex.
The reason why is because there was no sexual tension built up between the me and the woman. Sexual tension is the reason why we kino and why we feel a pull towards the girls that we fuck. It is the glue that holds you in a relationship and not a freindship. Without tension your just freinds. Without tension your just a freindly guy, your not the guy she wants to date, text and fuck. Sexual tension is a building block kinda thing. Thats what being smooth is, its slowly building the tension untill you have turned her on sufficiently enough to fuck her. You have to escalate the vibe and then escalate physically and then you slowly get the pussy wet enough to fuck it. Your turning a girl on. women are not like light switches they need slow building and tension to be fucked.(sometimes)

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PostPosted: Sat Apr 27, 2013 5:18 pm 
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KINO

I never really put to much consideration into how important Kino. Kino escalation and Kinoing in general is the majority of escalation and since escalation is game then kino is pretty much game. I think if I had learned to calibrate kino and how to do it correctly I would have been much better off much sooner. I think of kino in 3 categories.

Buddy-buddy
That's the kino you do to your friends and to people you are just cool and casual with. Kino like this builds comfort between people and establishes that you are actually friends and not just awkward acquaintances. You should do this type of touching to litterally everyone it shows social awareness and comfort with your selves and other. This includes things like
High fives
Pats on the back
Leaning your elbow on someones shoulders
Little playfull taps and pushes
bro hugs and friend sideway hugs

Romantic
These are the kinos that overtly say that your interested in a romantic relationship with a woman. This kino builds comfort , trust and dominance over a woman. Its something that you can tastefully do in public with people knowing that your interested in eachother but its not going to make anyone turn their eyes and blush.
things like
kisses on the cheek
hand holding
hands on her leg while sitting
hand around her waist
ushering her around with your hand on her lower back
the claw
light pecks

Sexual. This is the big boy and the one we are predominantly concerned with in the community. unfortunately it is probably the least amount that can be used because of ASD. A woman's like an oven, you gotta warm her up before you can stick the meat in :lol:. Some women are going to want romantic kino in order to get to this stage. You want to get physical fast but you dont want to set off ASD if people are around you probably shouldnt use this form of kino.

This includes
slapping her ass
pulling her hair
making out
groping her
throwing her against walls sexually
and general over sexual dominant things

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 Post subject: Re: Great-1:Growth
PostPosted: Sat Jun 08, 2013 7:16 pm 
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I haven't really been tracking my progress, I feel like I have hit a rough patch.
Im going to start journaling every day again just cuz meh why not.

I have been working on my inner game which is steadily improving. I am more comfortable with women now and I have great conversations with them. My problem is they aren't staying in my life. They aren't becoming attracted to me sexually. I have been getting into the friend zone alot and I dont like this feeling of sexual neediness that I have been experiencing.

What I want: sex and dates
What I have been getting: friends and flakes

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PostPosted: Sat Jun 08, 2013 8:12 pm 
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Hey man, disappointed to see no one is responding to this, you're churning out a lot of great nuggets of info here.

I especially liked your post about sexual tension, flirting and shit is key, the game practically plays itself once you frame yourself as a viable sexual partner. When I was starting off, I was crash and burning sets left and right, I couldn't get anything going except the odd 'flash of lightning' lay, then I realized it's because I wasn't doing anything sexual risque or even romantic. After I started adding more direct flirting and a sexual vibe, SHIT WENT OFF THE CHAIN.

Love the journal, keep it up man.

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 Post subject: Re: Great-1:Growth
PostPosted: Wed Jun 12, 2013 3:49 am 
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thanks bro and I love that game. Anyways today i realized that when you want to talk to a girl just do it, dont hesitate just go for it. Dont even think about it feel your dick and that pull and go for it or else you'll just make silly excuses

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PostPosted: Thu Jun 13, 2013 3:16 am 
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lesson of the day qualify the girls! it lets them know why you like them and also if they dont qualify why would you want to fuck them? your the selector you could have any girl.

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