hi guys iv made previous posts on this girl but i still cannot figure her or thee problem out.

This girl is a straight 10/10 blond model. Never had a boyfriend, she has a small history of being with different guys ,(good looking guys and popular in my area).

We knew of each other but never had a proper conversation in the past.
Made my move on her at a club,got her number, then started chatting to her a few days later.Our chats were 90% sexual flirting ,meaning we skipped the part of creating a connection.i also used ALOT of dhv by metioning other girls that were models that iv been with to make her jelous and used ALOT of teasing The first day we started chatting she invited me to her house but i rather chose that we meet at a public place. During the date i continued the teasing and dhving. After the date we made out heavily in my car and i sucked her tits. This all continued until one night we planned to meet at a club and that same night 3 girls that i "knew" were at the club including her and i had to juggle them all , before me and the 10 met up i was chatting to one of the 3 girls outside the club and she* just came into the convo and greeeted me , i introduced her to the girl. the girl was going to a club down the road so i told the 10 that id be back soon and left with the other girl. I did this thinking that now i look pimp and in demand. went back to the 10 and we ended up in my car making out. I fingered her but then i said lets stop ,as i respect her more than to fuck her just in my car (this the mistake?)

The following day she said that i am a slut and i am just taking her for granted. she said that i always know she is keen to make out with me and i take that for granted. She said she doesnt want to be one of the hundreds. I made up some shit to get another chance and she barely has given me one, i then headed for the boyfriend route but wasn't getting positive response, she always made excuses not to see me and delayed her texts. i don't know if she was doing this because she was still just angry or not interested in dating exclusively?

A week later i got frustrated and went direct and basically said i want to fuck you so stop your games and be straight with me. she changed drastically and invited me to the club that night, said she is keen to get physical and we made plans the following day. ( i couldn't make it to the club ) the next day her friends mom died , so we canceled plans and the following day i was sent back to her stupid games. I gave up on her , hadnt spoken to her for a week then bumped into her at a club and we chatted bout this shit and she said i take her for granted and want to get with other girls etc. ??? HELPPPPPPP

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Yeah dude... What she's saying is pretty accurate. She doesn't want to be like one of the girls you usually sleep with. Make her feel special without overdoing it and going beta. I'd say something like "I really don't see you as just another girl. I feel like I could date you, and I never felt like that about a girl in ages. And if you don't believe me, I really don't know how else to convince you. But anyway, I'm done playing games. If you're going to turn away now, then so be it because I don't want to start losing my mind." Or any crap along those lines.

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thanks for the reply, so you are saying create a ultimatum in a way? its just hard to believe that she thinks like that when she seemed keen for a non exlusive relationship , so must i just be direct with feelings and not sex?

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Looks is irrelevant, confidence is the magic potion

The "ultimatum" is just to DHV yourself. The rest is basically what she wants to hear.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.