I originally posted this last week in the new members section so Ill copy and paste it here for a starting point.


I've always enjoyed reading the FRs on here and I thought introducing myself and starting my own journal would be a good way to track my progress and get some good constructive criticism from all the great PUAs on this board.

So a little about myself. I recently got out of a 3 yr relationship that although fulfilling and fun, wasnt the kind of relationship I wanted. Now that I'm out of it, I have a much different and more positive outlook on life. I've know about mystery method, David D'anglo and all the other methods out there for years but I was always relationship guy. I broke up with one and then 3-6 months later I was right back in another relationship. I don't want that to happen now, I hate the feeling of being "trapped" in a relationship, whether it be dating someone or actually having a commitment. I think I'm getting a little off topic here lol.

I am 26, have a great career, stable job, good income and am well respected. I was raised well and have an outgoing, fun loving personality. I'm well educated, opinionated, and can hold a conversation with no problem. I've been told by many girls (in addition to girlfriends) that I'm hot, good looking, handsome etc...

I know that I have in the past done things that we learn and share on this board and in books we recommend so I have some natural instincts when it comes to attracting women, now I just have to take what I know, what I will learn and DO IT!!! I hope to post FRs and contribute to the board frequently, and perhaps the idea of keeping you guys entertained and engaged could be a slight motivator lol..

Also, if anyone works or lives in NYC or north NJ (Where I live) PM me and perhaps we could sarge and wing together!


--Jason a.k.a. Intensity2686

I havent been able to get out since last I posted because my great uncle passed away and the whole weekend was the funeral, wake and burial. I was sad and actually cried for the first time in a very very long time.

With that it again reinforces that life is what you make of it and I would hate to be on my last days asking "what if?". We only get one shot and in every other part of my life I am extremely happy with my success and am shocked at where I am in this point in my life. Why cant I take the same drive and passion I have for that and apply it to meeting women? I can hold conversations easily, pick up on emotions well and a whole bunch of other things right but I still have that debilitating approach anxiety. I know its dumb and all but I think that the more I do it the less I will have the anxiety. I have no problem doing it when Im getting blatant IOIs but going up to a chick that hasnt seen me yet is the problem.

Anyway I've been focusing on my inner game in the meantime. Ive been focusing on my posture. I always hunched over a tad and now Im focusing on standing up straighter with my head up high. Im only 5'6" so I cant be slouching. Ive also become louder when I speak to strangers and I notice that with all people that they immediately focus their attention where the loud noise is coming from. Also, I've been hitting the gym harder (I already go 4 times a week at least) and notice more weight loss. Im back under 180 lbs and it feels great. All my fat is in my stomach area so its annoying.

I hope that this weekend I will have an actual FR of some sort for everyone. I plan on giving commentary from my experiences as well in addition to the play by play of the night.